Makes sense!
Many people do not understand the real reason why they are bullied. Some people pretend not to understand and are unwilling to admit that they are timid. Because once you admit it, you will feel ashamed and worried about being looked down upon, disliked, which will make it impossible for them to continue living.
People should seek truth from facts, carry forward their strengths, and admit their shortcomings.
There was once a friend who consulted me, and through communication with him, I appreciated his attitude very much.
He was able to bravely acknowledge his strengths and weaknesses. Although he exposed his flaws, showed his inadequacies, and perhaps even some ugly truths, his courage is amazing. He dares to face his true self and dare to accept his true self.
The exposure of his shortcomings did not affect my impression and evaluation of him!
Everyone makes mistakes, and sages and immortals are no exception.
Some people face various psychological distress and must take this step.
First, recognize the root causes of the situation, and secondly, don't hide your predicament. Psychologists and counselors are here to help you, and if you don't speak out about the core problem, how can you solve it?
They can help you recognize the problem, but what's the point if you recognize the problem and find various reasons to avoid it?
I'm glad you had such a breakthrough.
In fact, the so-called bullied honest people, in addition to being timid, may also be stupid, soft-hearted, and have received various trainings for a long time. The reasons for this are varied.
If you are afraid of being bullied, you need to ask yourself what are you afraid of? Is it just fear of that action? Or fear of being bullied and embarrassed, or fear of retaliation?
You need to find out and think hard.
Finally, the more fearful the voice, the more you must face it. When you listen to it many times, it's not so scary anymore.
Just like the three-year simulation of the five-year college entrance examination, you may be scared at first! But after doing it ten times, it doesn't seem to be anything remarkable.
You can watch the movie "Blood Guanyin", in which the heroine is a master of wit, she stews and eats fish with warheads in her mouth sent by the threat.
If it's other so-called "honest people", is it going to collapse?
Fear on the one hand, not knowing what to do on the other, plus fear of the unknown.
Admit it, the reason for being bullied is definitely not only because of kindness and honesty, but also because of timidity, will not fight, and will only resign itself to fate. We need to delve deeper into the underlying issues that cause this, but there is no point in digging deeper without correcting it. #充电啦, new semester#