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The word "fidelity" is the best bond in a marriage relationship. If a third party appears between the couple, it means that the relationship between the two also has a crisis that needs to be resolved in time.
But now cheating is still common in society. It's just that a long time ago it was thought that only men could cheat, and now women often cheat.
Women's hearts are actually very fragile, so they belong to the sensitive and suspicious side of the marriage relationship, but this is actually related to women's insecurity.
And women's insecurity is actually related to men. A man doesn't care about women, or that he does a lot of extreme things in marriage, such as cheating, so if you think about it, it's likely that they will also cheat on women.
And women's feelings are always strong, so she can see that the man is cheating.
But if she deceives herself, you may not see it. Sometimes it's not wrong to say that the woman is Sherlock Holmes. If a woman cheats, you may never know if she is reluctant to speak out.
Many men usually choose young girls who cheat on them, young and beautiful, but women prefer to find people they know when they cheat, why?
Here are three cases to answer for you:
Ms. Lu
Mrs. Lu is a beautiful woman who married very early, but this marriage was not voluntary, but arranged by her parents.
She originally thought that although there were no emotions before marriage, they could be slowly cultivated after marriage, but after a period of marriage, she found that sometimes emotions are something that cannot be cultivated, even if they are cultivated.
She still doesn't like her husband very much and sometimes feels strange about his behavior.
So, at a class reunion, she met her now-attractive ex-boyfriend, and after all this time, she still likes him.
But I liked it and didn't think too much, but what I didn't expect was that she met this guy on her way back from the bathroom, and he pulled her directly to the roof.
Then he told Mrs. Lu about his heart, and said that he still loved Mrs. Lu, so he kissed her directly. Ms. Lu said that she was married, but the man said that he didn't mind, he just wanted to fall in love with Ms. Lu.
So Mrs. Lu was moved again. After all, the two liked each other very much, so in this atmosphere, Ms. Lu cheated.
So, did Ms. Lu betray her predecessor? Just like how many people can't forget their ex, and how many people's dream is to get back together. Although Mrs. Lu granted her wish, she also betrayed her husband.
Ms. Li works in a foreign company where the family is overcrowded. Ms. Li is very busy with her daily work. She is the boss's all-round translator, so she always travels with the boss.
Ms. Li has been married to her husband for three years, but her relationship with her husband has been flat. Cold wars and controversies have occurred from time to time. The husband could not understand her busyness and always asked her to withdraw, but she felt that although a woman was married, she should eventually have her own career, so I kept refuting my husband.
One day, she was still in Sanya on a business trip with her boss, which was her birthday. She always picked up her phone to check if there were any messages from her husband, but she was busy until the evening and did not receive a text message from her husband. This news made her feel a little depressed, but after thinking about it, she was no longer a child, and today was just a birthday.
After the evening drinking party, the boss suddenly stopped her and took her to the beach to blow the sea breeze. Then, in the dead of night, the boss gave her a birthday present and confessed to her, which surprised her a little. She told her boss that she had a partner, but the boss said that she hoped that she could become his lover, probably influenced by that night, and Mrs. Li felt that the boss was more handsome than usual, so she agreed.
Due to her husband's neglect, Ms. Li decided to have a relationship with a boss who often cooperated.
Ms. Wang
Ms. Wang's cheating object is her best friend. The reason is that her husband does not understand every time he quarrels with her, and he is very controlling, which makes Mrs. Wang a little unhappy, so Mrs. Wang finds her best friend to talk to her until late at night. Night. A male friend gave her the warmth of a close brother.
So back and forth, it was natural for the two to cheat, but the husband did not find out.
All three women have deceived on someone close to them. The reason they cheat on acquaintances may be that when a spouse neglects or hurts them, the person who has always been by their side is more likely to be their emotional pillar. There are also women who choose celebrities to cheat because of their feelings.
But if you already have your own marriage, it is better for two people to protect each other. It's not easy to come together.
Author|Mr. Tang Editor|Mr. Tang Reference: Journal of Personality and Social Psychology Hello everyone, I am Mr. Tang, if reading my article will make you feel radiant, more face, if you say so, you can also leave your comments and suggestions, I will read it, I beg attention!