Li Si, 35, refused to marry despite his family's persuasion, saying he was unwilling to continue his unhappy marriage. And let Li Si be so resistant to marriage, her father, movie star Jet Li, "contributed".
A rich girl marries a poor boy
Jet Li and his ex-wife Huang Qiuyan are junior brothers who graduated from the same martial arts class, Huang Qiuyan was born in a relatively wealthy family, and her parents took great care of her.
The parents who planned to let Huang Qiuyan learn dance had to send Huang Qiuyan to Shichahai Sports School to learn martial arts due to the influence of the "Cultural Revolution".
There, Huang Qiuyan met his junior brother Jet Li, who was two years younger than him.
Due to the long-term companionship, studying and training together, Huang Qiuyan unconsciously began to have a love for Jet Li.
After the "Cultural Revolution", Huang Qiuyan's parents gradually resumed relevant treatment, so the family's economic environment began to slowly improve.
Huang Qiuyan would invite some classmates to play at home from time to time, including Jet Li.
Over time, Huang Qiuyan's parents found that their daughter Huang Qiuyan would bring food to Jet Li from time to time, and would also bring some gifts to visit Jet Li's mother, always secretly helping Jet Li and his family's life, and only after questioning did they learn the news of their free love.
At that time, Jet Li was a single-parent family, and his father died at an early age because of work, leaving several of their siblings to rely on their mother for their lives, and their lives were very difficult.
The economic situation of the two families is far apart, and Huang Qiuyan's parents are afraid that their daughter will live a hard life if she marries Jet Li.
At that time, Huang Qiuyan was already famous for filming "Shaolin Kid", and she was already famous in the circle, and her resources were also very good.
And Jet Li accidentally injured his leg while filming "Shaolin Temple", and Huang Qiuyan decisively gave up all the acting work at hand at the peak of her career and took care of Jet Li wholeheartedly for his recovery.
No matter how much his parents persuaded, he insisted on marrying the "poor boy" Jet Li.
Seeing the dispute, however, and because she pampered her daughter, her parents finally agreed to a relationship between the two, and the two married in 1987.
After getting married, Huang Qiuyan took care of Jet Li and his family even more.
At that time, Jet Li was influenced by Bruce Lee and wanted to go to the United States to develop, and in order to support him, Huang Qiuyan gave up his career despite the opposition of his family, and went to the United States alone with Jet Li.
Huang Qiuyan, who was already pregnant, lived in a crowded rental house with Jet Li.
At that time, in order to become famous as soon as possible, Jet Li looked for resources outside every day, and it was not until Huang Qiuyan gave birth to Li Si that Jet Li hurried back.
After that, in order to take care of her daughter, Huang Qiuyan chose to "teach her husband and son" at home.
Jet Li is still quite happy with the birth of his eldest daughter Li Si, and every day when he comes back from work, he will take up the responsibility of his father and take care of Li Si.
However, due to the death of Bruce Lee, Hollywood directors no longer refused to use Chinese actors, and Jet Li, whose career was frustrated in the United States, had to start the idea of returning to China again.
After returning to China, Jet Li left Huang Qiuyan's mother and daughter in the United States, when Huang Qiuyan was pregnant with her second child.
In order to let Jet Li return to China with peace of mind to develop, the pot-bellied Huang Qiuyan was alone in the United States, taking care of Li Si while working.
Seeing the lust, abandoning his wife and daughter
Jet Li, who threatened to work hard to let Huang Qiuyan's mother and daughter live a good life, never looked back when he returned to China.
Huang Qiuyan, who wholeheartedly supports Jet Li, is still struggling to support, thinking that her husband Jet Li will have a successful career, and then the family can return to China as soon as possible to reunite, who knows that Jet Li turned around and mixed with Li Zhi.
The first play that Jet Li received after returning to China was "The Dragon in the World", and Li Zhi played the male and female protagonists respectively.
Li Zhi, who debuted in Miss Asia, began to enter the entertainment industry after participating in the movie "Original Zhenxia and Wesley", and then took over several movies and began to become popular in the entertainment industry, and was praised by fans at the time as "the face of an angel, the figure of the devil".
The first time he saw Li Zhi, Jet Li was quickly attracted by her hot body and pure beauty.
At that time, the gambling king Stanley Ho was pursuing Li Zhi, but because Stanley Ho had already married several wives, no matter how he chased him, Li Zhi did not agree.
And at that time, Jet Li, who was poor and white, saw that Li Zhi rejected Stanley Ho, so he started to think crookedly, and his self-confidence exploded, even when his second daughter was born, Jet Li just hurriedly went back to take a look and returned to China.
So he began to approach Li Zhi intentionally or unintentionally, completely forgetting Huang Qiuyan's mother and daughter, who were still suffering in the United States.
Jet Li took the opportunity of filming to deliberately create a topic with Lizhi, approached Lizhi, and after obtaining her contact information, he launched a fierce offensive and kept inviting.
Finally, under Jet Li's "soft and hard bubble", the two began to have a secret meeting, completely disregarding their identity as a "husband with a wife".
At this time, Huang Qiuyan was still in the United States day and night looking forward to her husband's successful career, and took their mother and daughter back to China for reunion.
The two who tasted the pleasure of "cheating" began to date more frequently, did not shy away from outsiders at all, and walked together in a dignified manner.
Jet Li, who got Lizhi, couldn't wait to fly to the United States and prepared to file for divorce from Huang Qiuyan.
But when he walked into his home in the United States, his daughter Li Si's "daddy" seemed to awaken the conscience of this scumbag, and finally due to guilt, Jet Li temporarily gave up his intention to divorce.
After spending a few days in the United States, he flew back to China to have a tryst with Li Zhi.
In the next two years, Jet Li, who treated Huang Qiuyan's mother and daughter as a burden, never went back to visit the three of them.
In 1991, Jet Li, who was completely dazzled by Li Zhi, made up his mind to "deal with" these three burdens and was ready to fall in love with Li Zhi.
So Jet Li made a cross-ocean phone call to Huang Qiuyan, and the phone shamelessly told the "great love story" between himself and Li Zhi, dancing and coloring, completely ignoring Huang Qiuyan, who was already sad over there.
Jet Li's eyebrows danced, and Huang Qiuyan's heart was like a knife when she listened.
Just when Huang Qiuyan tried to save this marriage, what was waiting was the cold "divorce" on Jet Li's phone.
Huang Qiuyan, who was full of gray thoughts, only saw the face of the man in front of him at this moment, and knew that his parents' decision not to let him "marry" was right, but it didn't help.
Years of hard work are not worth the novelty after all.
After the divorce, Jet Li regarded the sisters Li Si and Li Li as a burden, and was deeply afraid that the existence of their two sisters would affect his relationship with Li Zhi, so he walked away and left the sisters and a house with an outstanding loan to Huang Qiuyan.
The mother and daughter, who were already strapped for money, had a harder time because of Jet Li's ruthlessness.
While raising her two daughters, Huang Qiuyan also had to repay high loans. Having been away from the entertainment industry for many years, she is facing the pressure of a mountain, how can she not be helpless.
At that time, Jet Li had already begun to emerge in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, and his life was gradually getting richer, but in the face of the plight of Huang Qiuyan's mother and daughter, he had no intention of helping.
At that time, Lizhi, because he had no business mind, frequently failed to invest, and thus owed hundreds of millions of debts.
Jet Li, who learned the news, did not hesitate to hand over all his deposits to Lizhi to pay off his debts.
In order to help Lizhi, he even did not hesitate to "sell" himself to Xiang Huaqiang's entertainment company, and advanced 50 million yuan in advance to pay off Lizhi's debt.
Huang Qiuyan over there, because he has not acted for many years, has no good resources in his hands. In order to make a living for the mother and daughter, they had to go to restaurants to wash dishes, and even had to become a "pedicure girl" to earn a small income.
Seeing that she was unable to support the high mortgage and the living expenses of the mother and daughter, Huang Qiuyan fell into deep despair.
Unable to repay the mortgage, the house was eventually forced to be auctioned off by the court, and the only home that the mother and daughter had to shelter from the wind and rain was gone.
In order not to let the two sisters suffer with her, Huang Qiuyan put down her son and went to ask for help from Jet Li's mother and the grandmother of the two sisters.
Fortunately, the grandmother of the two sisters felt that her son was at a loss and was willing to take care of the sisters for Huang Qiuyan.
Because of the misfortune of her marriage with Jet Li, Huang Qiuyan flew back to the United States after settling the two sisters, unwilling to stay in the sad place in China to watch Jet Li Lizhi and the two show affection.
With nowhere to live, Huang Qiuyan slept on the streets, and an old Chinese lady saw her as pitiful and took her into an abandoned basement.
Huang Qiuyan, who had a place to live, began to work hard, earning some money and sending it to Jet Li's mother as an expense for childcare, while Jet Li ignored the two sisters and refused to give a penny.
Just when Jet Li moved into the mansion, Huang Qiuyan's income gradually improved after years of struggle.
Huang Qiuyan, who is no longer strapped for money, still bears the living expenses of the sisters, and Jet Li, who lives in the villa, refuses to even go back to see his two daughters, only caring about the warmth of Lizhi.
Every time the sisters Li Si and Li Li Limi heard Jet Li call back, they would ask their grandmother why Dad never went back to visit them, and Jet Li's mother could only use "Dad is busy with work" as a shirk.
The two sisters can only see their father Jet Li on TV, but they have never felt their father's love once.
As Li Si grew up, he understood that his father did not love them at all, and even disliked them a little, but his mother had no way to take them away and take care of them because she had to constantly earn their alimony.
Li Si and Li Moss had to become left-behind children.
The stepfather is more kind than the biological father
In 1999, Jet Li finally ended his ten-year "licking dog" road and married Li Zhi. The smug Jet Li even went back to his hometown, hoping that the two sisters could attend his wedding, but Li Si decisively refused.
For more than ten years, he has not fulfilled a little of his responsibilities as a father, but because of a wedding, he wants to take his daughter to Hong Kong, which is simply ridiculous.
Li Si looked at the spring breeze at her father's wedding on TV, and deeply felt unworthy for her mother Huang Qiuyan, and even more disgusted with her father Jet Li, feeling that the person in front of her was extremely disgusting.
Back then, Jet Li always used poverty to make excuses, and Huang Qiuyan was very considerate of him, so the two did not even take a wedding photo, let alone hold any wedding.
Jet Li has not paid attention to their mother and daughter for more than ten years, and has buried a deep shadow in Li Si's heart since he was a child.
After getting married, Jet Li was very partial to Li Zhi's two daughters, providing them with an extremely luxurious living environment, but still ignored the two sisters Li Si and Li Li Li.
In order to improve the family's economic situation as an adult, Li Si wanted to beg Jet Li to help her enter the entertainment industry, but Jet Li refused, turned around and spent a lot of money, and contacted various resources to support him and Lizhi's daughter.
The sisters Li Si and Li Li, who were completely desperate for their father, have completely distanced themselves from Jet Li since then.
After unremitting struggle, Huang Qiuyan's life gradually improved, and she found a husband who loved her very much.
Because the family income has greatly improved, Huang Qiuyan and her husband decided to take Li Si and Li Li Moss to live in the United States, and Li Si, who had been waiting for more than ten years, was finally able to live with her mother and stepfather as she wished.
And her stepfather is a very good person, taking good care of their mother and daughter, and Huang Qiuyan's marriage after remarriage is very happy.
But Li Si, who has seen his parents' incompatible feelings since he was a child and is disappointed in marriage, can no longer make himself believe in love and marriage.
Happy families are the same, while unhappy families have their own misfortunes, and Li Si's childhood probably takes a lifetime to heal.
Finally, I hope that Li Si can get out of this shadow as soon as possible and find his own happiness.
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