In 2001, actor Ren Shuai, who was not popular at the time, proposed to his girlfriend Xiaohong.
At that time, Ren Shuai had nothing, no car, no house, and no savings, but he proposed to Xiaohong, and he asked Xiaohong, "Are you willing to marry me?"
Xiaohong loved Ren Shuai very much at that time, so when she heard Ren Shuai's marriage proposal, Xiaohong agreed to Ren Shuai's marriage proposal without hesitation, and Xiaohong's love for Ren Shuai gave her great courage, so that even if she knew that Ren Shuai had nothing at that time, she chose to marry Ren Shuai without care.
Ren Shuai looked at Xiaohong nodding firmly to agree to his marriage proposal, and he was also very moved in his heart, he solemnly promised Xiaohong that he would definitely let Xiaohong live a good life, and in this life he only identified Xiaohong alone.
Now, time has passed, and the love story of Ren Shuai and Xiaohong has gone through more than 20 years, and in these years, they have experienced many ups and downs.
The promise made by Ren Shuai when he proposed marriage, after more than 20 years of ups and downs, is it still firmly remembered in his heart, does he still love Xiaohong as much as he did back then, and does the story of the couple continue to continue the original intention? These have become the focus of attention.
Ren Shuai is a native of Harbin, and his parents hope that he will study well, and if he is not willing to study or does not do well, he will become a worker.
However, Ren Shuai did not follow his parents' ideas, and in high school, Ren Shuai showed his love for acting.
Once, because of his tall height and good facial features, Ren Shuai was pulled to make a cameo appearance in a group role by a crew who came to his hometown of Harbin to film, which became an opportunity for Ren Shuai and the performance to begin to bond.
Since then, Ren Shuai has embarked on the road of acting. Ren Shuai's family is also very supportive of Ren Shuai's dream of becoming an actor, and there is no objection at all, and Ren Shuai's parents fully support their son's dream of becoming an actor.
Ren Shuai did not live up to the support and encouragement of his parents, and was admitted to the performance department of the PLA Academy of Arts with excellent results through his own efforts, and became a classmate with the red star Yan Ni later.
At the PLA Academy of Art, Ren Shuai studied performance seriously, and he treated his studies very rigorously and achieved excellent results.
At the same time, he gets along well with other students.
Especially with Yan Ni, the two became good friends.
Yan Ni has a confused personality, often arriving late for class and leaving early, failing exams, and cheekily smiling and apologizing when criticized by teachers, always escaping punishment.
And Ren Shuai is different, no matter what he does, he is very meticulous and easy to convince. Once Ren Shuai was late for rehearsal, the teacher did not reproach him, because he knew that Ren Shuai must have encountered special circumstances and would not be late for no reason.
The results confirmed that the teacher's judgment was very correct, and the reason why Ren Shuai was late was because he wanted to help Yan Ni find the lost performance costume.
In this incident, Ren Shuai was praised, while Yan Ni was criticized, and Ren Shuai showed his sense of responsibility with his actions.
After graduating from university, Ren Shuai was assigned to the Lanzhou Military Region Repertory Troupe, became a drama actor with Yan Ni, and began to show his acting skills on the drama stage.
When he first arrived at the drama troupe, Ren Shuai was mainly responsible for some chores, such as setting up the stage, carrying tables and chairs, and so on. Many actors who have just arrived in the drama troupe often complain about hard work, but Ren Shuai never complains, even if it is a small thing like sweeping the floor, he does his best to do it well.
Ren's hard work paid off quickly, and within a few months of joining the company, he took the drama stage and began performing, while those who always complained continued to do chores.
At that time, the income of drama actors was very low, and Ren Shuai, as a small role who had just entered the industry, had a meager income, and when he returned home every year, he had no extra money to buy gifts for his parents and sister, so he could only turn to his friend Yan Ni.
Yan Ni was very generous and directly gave all her money to Ren Shuai, letting him spend it at will. Ren Shuai was very grateful to Yan Ni for her help.
But the good times did not last long, and Yan Ni was transferred from the drama troupe the following year.
Ren Shuai, on the other hand, continued to run tricks in the drama troupe and polish his acting skills. Over time, many fellow actors went to film, hosted shows, and began to earn extra money.
However, Ren Shuai always abides by the discipline of the drama troupe, does not go outside to pick up activities, and honestly acts on the stage, and on the drama stage, Ren Shuai insists on performing for 8 years.
Many friends persuaded Ren Shuai to also go outside to develop, but Ren Shuai's answer has always been very firm: "I want to practice my acting skills first, and I will consider making money later." Ren Shuai's friends were anxious for him, thinking that he was too pedantic.
Although the repertory troupe is an iron rice bowl, its income is meagre.
By 2000, Ren Shuai was 30 years old and should have started a family, but he only had a few thousand yuan in savings.
Ren Shuai's parents and colleagues helped him introduce objects, but when it came to Ren Shuai's conditions, the other party refused for various reasons.
When Ren Shuai went home again for the New Year, his father regretted letting Ren Shuai become an actor, because Ren Shuai had not yet started a family, and if he had obediently become a worker, he might have become a grandfather.
Hearing his father's words, Ren Shuai was very sad, and he realized that it was time to plan for the family. After returning to the repertory troupe, Ren Shuai proposed to apply to go out to film to earn more income.
At this time, Ren Shuai learned that the original unit had always turned a blind eye to the actor going out to film.
Due to his lack of fame, Ren Shuai can only take on some tricks and small roles. In order to earn more money, Ren Shuai often travels around and works hard to film.
Once, during filming in Shanghai, Ren Shuai met a girl named Xiaohong, and Ren Shuai fell in love with Xiaohong at first sight.
Xiaohong looks mediocre, is not speechless, standing in the middle of a group of actors is not outstanding, and even looks a little unpretentious.
But Ren Shuai noticed that Xiaohong's inner beauty was very beautiful, and she took care of everyone at the shooting team's celebration banquet, dedicating herself to it, so that Ren Shuai was impressed by her and couldn't take her eyes off.
Ren Shuai also drank too much, and was uncomfortable and wanted to vomit, Xiaohong handed over a box of yogurt with concern, so that Ren Shuai felt comfortable drinking it. Xiaohong's concern made Ren Shuai's heart turn upside down.
The next day, Ren Shuai took the initiative to inquire about Xiaohong, it turned out that she was only a small employee of a cultural company in Shanghai, and occasionally made several cameo appearances.
Ren Shuai plucked up the courage to ask Xiaohong to eat, and it only took a few days for the two to go from strange to familiar. When Ren Shuai left Shanghai, Xiaohong also specially took a leave of absence to wash and dry all of Ren Shuai's clothes.
Seeing Xiaohong's intentions, Ren Shuai couldn't bear it anymore, and immediately called Xiaohong to confess and asked Xiaohong to be his girlfriend. But Xiaohong cried and said that she was not worthy of being a handsome.
Ren Shuai very much wanted to find Xiaohong in person, but he had to pursue it again by phone.
He sent a message to Xiaohong and said, I really like you, and if you are still worried, I am willing to accept your investigation. Finally, Xiaohong replied to Ren Shuai, she also liked Ren Shuai, but she was worried that she would delay him, and she wouldn't blame him if she met someone better.
Seeing this message, Ren Shuai was very happy, because it was equivalent to Xiaohong agreeing to be his girlfriend. In order to see Xiaohong often, Ren Shuai applied to be transferred back to his hometown Harbin Repertory Troupe.
And told his parents about liking Xiaohong.
Ren Shuai was worried that his parents would object, because Xiaohong looked mediocre. But the parents not only did not object, but also fully supported, teaching Ren Shuai as long as the two of them can grow old together, it doesn't matter what kind of wife is beautiful.
With this encouragement from his family, Ren Shuai immediately bought a ticket to go to Shanghai and proposed to Xiaohong in person, who shyly pulled up Ren Shuai and said that he needed to consider. Ren Shuai understood Xiaohong's concerns very well and was willing to wait.
After that, Ren Shuai stayed in Shanghai, ready to wait patiently for Xiaohong's reply. Within a few days, Xiaohong agreed to be with Ren Shuai.
Next, Ren Shuai faced another problem, Xiaohong is an only daughter, will her parents agree to her marry abroad.
So Ren Shuai prepared some gifts to visit Xiaohong's family, saying that if he married Xiaohong, he would definitely buy a house in Shanghai and settle down so that he could take care of his parents-in-law in the future.
Not only that, Ren Shuai also took out all his savings and gave them to Xiaohong and her parents. Promise to be good to Xiaohong and be loyal to her for life. Ren Shuai's sincerity touched Xiaohong's family, and they happily accepted this son-in-law.
So, Ren Shuai and Xiaohong tied the knot and became a pair of bi people. Because Ren Shuai had not yet bought a house in Shanghai, the two lived in Xiaohong's house at first.
Ren Shuai's wish is to earn enough down payment on the house to buy a love nest for two for Xiaohong in Shanghai.
Due to busy work, Ren Shuai and Xiaohong decided to postpone their plans to have children. Every time Ren Shuai went out to finish, Xiaohong was worried because Ren Shuai fought too hard.
Once, in order to be realistic and realistic, Ren Shuai did not hesitate to increase the difficulty and risk of shooting, and almost made his face flower. The director fearfully reminded Ren Shuai that you are an actor, and if your face is spent, it will be over.
But Ren Shuai said calmly, if it really spent, I would play the role with scar. Ren Shuai's dedication and passion for acting are admirable. In 2007, when Ren Shuai was about to have a child, Xiaohong became pregnant unexpectedly.
Ren Shuai's parents were very excited to hear the good news and let Xiaohong return to Harbin to give birth so that she could take care of her. At first, Ren Shuai was worried about whether Xiaohong would disagree, but Xiaohong thoughtfully agreed.
Because the in-laws are old, they can't be selfish, and they should go home more often to take care of them. Ren Shuai was touched by Xiaohong's understanding.
In 2008, Xiaohong gave birth to a son for Ren Shuai, named Youyou, which means that he will be as good as his parents.
In the same year, Ren Shuai's career also ushered in new opportunities, and he played the role of "Zhen Sanjiang" in the hit drama "Crossing the Guandong", which began to be well known to the audience.
Later, he played important roles in many dramas such as "Our Eighties", "Wenzhou Family" and "Parental Love". Ren Shuai finally bought a property in Shanghai and fulfilled his promise that year.
Xiaohong also offered to let her in-laws live together, but the two old people were still more accustomed to their hometown. Xiaohong often went to Harbin to visit her in-laws, took them out to play, and had physical examinations, which was very filial and won the praise of the neighbors.
With the support of Xiaohong behind his back, Ren Shuai can devote himself to his work, continue to take on the scene, and the characters he plays are full and three-dimensional, which is deeply loved by the audience.
Despite this, Ren Shuai is still low-key and introverted, and does not participate in variety show hype, so he has always been a popular person. But Ren Shuai is very content with this, because he can free up more time to spend with his family.
Now, time has passed, Ren Shuai and Xiaohong have known each other for 23 years and have been married for more than 20 years, Ren Shuai has never had a scandal, and has always had a deep affection for Xiaohong.
What's more valuable is that Xiaohong has never been compared, always has a wide sky, and just wants to live a dull life. Ren Shuai handed over all his income to Xiaohong to take care of, knowing nothing about himself and completely trusting his wife.
At first, many people felt that Xiaohong was not worthy of being a handsome, but over time, everyone saw that they were a pair made in heaven. Ren Shuai can always remember the oath of the year, Xiaohong can always accompany Ren Shuai, and their love is as strong as ever.
Ren Shuai and Xiaohong are a rare model couple in the entertainment industry, they proved the truth of a good horse with a good saddle with their love, and also showed the mutual understanding, trust and support that should exist in married life.
Ren Shuai and Xiaohong are still as loving as ever, which is touching.
I sincerely wish them a happy and happy age.