Jinjiang News Network October 26 news emotional intelligence makes you resonate, communication makes you empathetic. Recently, Jinjiang writer and speaker Xu Jinhang's third masterpiece "High Emotional Intelligence Communication" was officially released, 20 communication scenarios, 180 practical methods, providing different storytelling ideas and skills, teaching you to grasp the deep laws of communication, so that communication will come naturally.
Talking about the reason for focusing on interpersonal communication and writing books, Xu Jinhang revealed that many people in life say that they "speak straight, have low emotional intelligence, and cannot be changed", but in his view, these can be adjusted. "Speaking straight is not innate, but is influenced by the acquired environment. The key is that speaking straight not only affects personal communication, but also the people around us are uncomfortable to listen to, so speaking well can not only make us have good popularity, but also make the people around us happy. ”
In the book "High Emotional Intelligence Communication", Xu Jinhang has accumulated xu Jinhang's experience in interpersonal communication for many years. Xu Jinhang also paid special visits to many talking people to learn from their experiences. "Over the years, I've been accumulating a lot of knowledge about communication, especially when it comes to eating, and I pay attention to subtle changes that some of the details bring to people. For example, others helped us do a small thing, many people are subconsciously saying 'thank you', I obviously feel in the later experiments, saying 'thank you' is better than saying 'thank you', the other party's mood will be better. Because there is one more 'you', the direction is stronger. I've written a little trick like this into my book. ”
Previously, Xu Jinhang has successively published "Dream Never Too Late" and "Speech Power". He frankly said that compared with "Speech Power", "High Emotional Intelligence Communication Ability" is more in line with the needs of daily life, whether it is work life, or gender relations, parent-child relationship, the book covers many common problems in communication, so that everyone can learn and become an efficient communicator.
As an orator, Xu Jinhang said that there is a difference between speech and communication, the speech is one-to-many, the focus is on overcoming fear, standing on the stage, logically and systematically expounding the point of view. Communication is more of a one-on-one face-to-face, what is needed is observation, so there are two main points, one is to talk more, and the other is to listen more.
It is worth mentioning that Xu Jinhang also invited Hong Zhongxin, chairman of Rimula Men's Wear, to write a preface to the book, "All along, Teacher Hong has given me great support, he encouraged me to write my communication experience into a book, so that more people can benefit, including himself is also an entrepreneur who combines knowledge and action, so it is my honor to invite Teacher Hong to write a preface to this book." In addition, the book has also been recommended by the famous host Chai Lu, the well-known writer Yang Duhai, and the famous actor Chen Jianbin.
It is understood that at present, "High Emotional Intelligence Communication" can be purchased on e-commerce platforms such as Dangdang.com, JD.com, and Taobao. Xu Jinhang will also fulfill his commitment and donate all the proceeds from the sale of this book to the Jinjiang Yinglinxin Charity Foundation to contribute to the education cause in his hometown. "Every book I have written in my life, I will donate the manuscript fee for public welfare, which is also the guidance of teacher Hong Zhongxin to me." Xu Jinhang said.
Journalist Li Shiyi
Source: Jinjiang News Network
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