I am a guest with the spring breeze, and you carry autumn water to the stars!
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Author|Wan Muzi
"If your love for me is still as hot as your first love in ten years, then I will not hesitate to become your wife."
This is the promise that Li Zhi made to Jet Li after his divorce from Huang Qiuyan.
However, compared to Huang Qiuyan's willing unilateral giving, Li Zhi knows how to manage in this marriage.
Some time ago, Jet Li released photos of the two.
In the photo, 61-year-old Lizhi is no longer young, and there are already traces of time on his face.
Some netizens even said that she looked like a kind grandmother.
However, unlike Li Zhi's state, Jet Li's ex-wife Huang Qiuyan is still beautiful and moving, and it seems that there is no trace of the past and hurt.
However, going around in circles, those loves in life will eventually be drowned in the dull and quiet years.
Everyone will eventually shake hands with the past and focus their time and energy on life itself.
Just like the original three, they fell into emotional entanglements and couldn't extricate themselves.
But in the end, those things, those feelings will be a thing of the past.
Not looking back on the past is also the greatest respect for feelings.
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The three are emotionally entangled
The emotional path of Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan is relatively deep.
Back then, Jet Li met his senior sister Huang Qiuyan at the Shichahai Martial Arts School when he was very young.
Jet Li's family was relatively poor at that time, his father died early, and his mother worked hard to maintain the family plan, and the family life was full of emotion.
As a senior sister, Huang Qiuyan often invites Jet Li to her home as a guest and gives her sister-like care and attention.
In the process of getting along with the two, Huang Qiuyan slowly developed feelings between men and women for Jet Li, and Jet Li may also be a little moved, but not as much as Huang Qiuyan.
In 1980, Jet Li participated in the filming of the movie "Shaolin Temple", and he became famous with his handsome facial features and outstanding martial arts.
Even Henan Songshan has become a tourist attraction flocked to by countless fans.
The career has gradually improved, and perhaps he has the capital and confidence to win and marry Huang Qiuyan.
In 1987, Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan entered the palace of marriage and made a lifelong commitment.
After marriage, the married life of the two is as picturesque as it is.
However, it didn't take long for Jet Li's career to fall into crisis.
After filming "North and South Shaolin", Jet Li's career was hindered due to the impact of Hong Kong film and television culture.
In order to seek better development, Jet Li took Huang Qiuyan to the United States in 1988, wanting to seek another world abroad.
Originally, Jet Li's efforts were for his family to have a better life.
However, in less than two years, Jet Li fell in love with Li Zhi, who was still one year older than himself, because of his play.
The emotional entanglement of the three people also began.
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"Sorry, I was wrong"
At that time, when Jet Li fell in love with Li Zhi, Huang Qiuyan was still at home with a big belly, and she also needed to take care of her eldest daughter, who had just turned one year old, and was so busy every day that she had almost no leisure moment.
Perhaps, too young and easily affected by hormones, Jet Li loves it too much.
At the same time, he fell into pain and struggle.
On the one hand, Huang Qiuyan, the original wife who grew up with him, is Lizhi, who let his heart beat and experience beautiful love.
In his heart, Huang Qiuyan is like a light and elegant camellia flower, and Lizhi is like a dazzling rose.
Perhaps, as Eileen Zhang said:
Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two. married a red rose, over time, the red one changed into a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still "bright moonlight in front of the bed"; Married to a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice sticky on his clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on his heart.
What you don't get is always the best!
Jet Li was both bitter and self-blamed, and in the face of responsibility and love, he finally chose love.
He dialed Huang Qiuyan's phone and frankly expressed his thoughts, saying:
"I'm sorry, I met a girl and now I understand what true love is. For her, I can pay with my life, I can give up fame and fortune, I don't want anything, I just want to be with her. ”
After Huang Qiuyan heard these words, her heart was mixed, but she knew very well that this time, Jet Li really moved his heart and was more emotional, and he couldn't keep it.
Sometimes think about it, a woman desperately tries to give birth to 2 children for a man, but this man is willing to pay with his life for another woman.
Is love unreasonable, or is it a lack of responsibility and morality in the first place?
In July 1991, Huang Qiuyan and Jet Li went through divorce procedures, ending their five-year marriage.
One is different, two wide, and each is happy.
After the divorce, the house in the United States belonged to Huang Qiuyan.
However, she has been absent for many years, has no income, and has to raise 2 daughters.
The wall of life fell down at once, overwhelming her.
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The rest of their lives are fine
Later, the house in the United States was eventually repossessed because it could not pay the mortgage.
Huang Qiuyan can only rent a basement, a bed, a cabinet and a TV, which is a home.
To solve life problems, she became a beautician.
In 2001, Huang Qiuyan opened a barbershop, and with her own small shop, she was finally able to solve her daily living expenses.
It's just that the trauma caused by this relationship is so great that she can't get out for a long time.
While at the barbershop, she met her now husband, and in 2005, the two held a low-key wedding, living an ordinary and happy life.
And Jet Li, who divorced Huang Qiuyan for the sake of Li Zhi, will of course cherish this hard-won emotion even more.
He once said: "I love her deeply, and I am willing to give up all fame and fortune, even my life, for her!" ”
For such a love, it is undoubtedly crazy and hot.
Perhaps, the emotions of the world are like this, it makes no sense, and it is impossible to distinguish.
Some netizens broke the news that in fact, the mansions of Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan are not far away.
But the two families hardly interacted, and the two daughters rarely went to Jet Li's house.
In fact, this is good, the wounds of the past can heal, but some pain can never be eliminated.
After experiencing the long river of years, each other slowly let go, did not be alarmed or disturbed, and lived each other's ordinary life quietly.
Some feelings, really can only say: the rest of life, each of them is fine.
Since then, I have been a guest with the spring breeze, and you carry the autumn water to the stars!
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Author: Wan Muzi, CCDM China career planner, BSC senior career planner, American Shubo School career planner, more than 9 years of enterprise project management, registered international psychological consultant, more than 5 years of corporate training lecturer, platform signed author, mother of two children.