Every woman wants to be cared for and cared for by a man she likes, and it is precisely because of this high expectation that there is often a gap. Most women are very dedicated and affectionate, so they also want the same response from the other party.
Men and women are different individuals, and their ways of thinking and thinking will be different, and it is precisely because of these differences that there will be many differences between men and women.
When two people decide to be together, there will be a run-in period and a flat period, but no matter what stage they are in, men must give women enough love and patience.
No matter what state you are in, men should not say the following five things to their women, otherwise women will be really sad and even leave you, so, what are the words? Let's take a look together
1. "Why are you so clingy"
When two people are just together, they will want to stick together every day, but as time goes on, women will love more and more, and most men will slowly feel a little tired, so they are also very cold to women.
Women, as usual, are still passionate about men, but what about men? It will feel very annoying, and at the same time it will feel that the other person is very clingy, and may say things like "why are you so clingy".
In this way, women will no longer rely on you, will no longer take the initiative to chat with you, and even leave you. Because when a man says to a woman, "Why are you so clingy", the woman will feel that you no longer love him, and naturally will no longer be as dependent and enthusiastic about you as you were at the beginning.
2. "How did I know someone like you?"
All couples are together because they appreciate each other, but where in the world are two souls that are perfectly compatible? There will definitely be something in the other party that they don't like very much, or something they can't accept.
For example, there is a couple who have experienced many years of long-distance love and entered the palace of marriage, but in the end chose to divorce just because of the difference in the way of squeezing toothpaste.
When they have different habits from each other, men may complain and casually say "how do I know people like you", but women will remember it in their hearts, and this sentence can completely hit her heart, and eventually cause irreparable results.
3. "Go by yourself, don't bother me playing the game"
In the early years, women loved to ask, "I fell into the water at the same time as your mother, who will you save first"? But now, many women will ask "which one is important between me and the game"? Women ask this question just to see how important she is in your heart.
When a woman wants you to accompany her to go shopping or eat, you say "go by yourself, don't bother me playing games", which will hurt the woman fiercely.
Women want a man who is full of hers, not in the eyes of the other person, she is not as important as the game. Therefore, it is more important not to show the game in front of women, otherwise the consequences will be very serious.
4. "Don't be too pretentious, you can't do this little thing"
Most women hope that men can give themselves enough security to cover themselves from the wind and rain.
But there are also many men who hope that women can be independent and can not rely on others, so that different views are easy to contradict.
A woman who troubles you with a little thing can only show that she cares about you very much and wants to enhance your desire to protect.
If you get tired of this and say very angrily "can you not be too pretentious, you can't do this little thing", it will make women feel cold, and at the same time, women will become more independent and will no longer love you.
5. "If it doesn't work, break up"
Break up, how many people have been hurt by these two words. What a pity it is that they can fight for each other and desperately for love, but in the end they can easily say the word breakup.
Maybe men say break up, just talk, but women will feel that you don't love her, since there is no love, naturally there is no need to continue, so there will be many women who choose to really break up.
Conclusion: At the beginning of every relationship, I hope to enter the palace of marriage, and every marriage hopes to grow old together, but if everything is as beautiful as imagined, where can there be so much love and the pain of falling out of love?
We can only try our best to give each other more care and love in the relationship, and express our hearts to each other more, so that it is conducive to the warming of the relationship.
Some people may think that after falling in love or getting married for a period of time, they want to return to their single state, how free it is to be single! It is precisely with this kind of thinking that some men will lose patience with women, and at the same time are unwilling to give all their favors to their women as they did at the beginning. It is precisely because of the weakening of feelings that men will be more tired, but no matter what, you can't say the above five words to women, otherwise disaster will really come!