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Fan Zhongyan: What is life? Endure hardship, endure difficulties, and go with the flow

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Fan Zhongyan: What is life? Endure hardship, endure difficulties, and go with the flow

Do not rejoice in things, do not grieve with yourself.

Author: Insight CC

The Jin Dynasty writer Yuan Hao asked, once admired a person like this.

He said that there is a person who can be a famous man in the city, an official in the prefecture and county, and a famous general at the border.

In the court, it can be a rare good face for thousands of years.

This person is Fan Zhongyan.

In the eyes of the world, Fan Zhongyan is a role model who stands up to a high mountain and is a first-class figure in heaven and earth.

In Fan Zhongyan's own view, everything he did was for the sake of his family and country, and for the sake of saving the world.

However, on the road to saving the people, he was repeatedly belittled and experienced too much suffering because he angered the powerful and powerful.

But no matter where he was degraded, he could always make a political achievement that made the people of the court look at him;

No matter how difficult he went, he could always fight back and let his cruel fate bow to him.

It is precisely because of the existence of Fan Zhongyan that many people who swim in the bitter sea have spiritual pillars.

If you can read his story, you can also find the spiritual strength to grow in suffering from his experience.

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Endure hardship

Writer Martin once said:

Every powerful person gritted his teeth and spent a period of time with no one to help, no one to support, no one to shush and ask for warmth.

This sentence is the portrayal of the first half of Fan Zhongyan's life.

I don't know if you have heard the story of "broken 齑 (jī) painting porridge".

When Fan Zhongyan was studying, his family was very poor.

There was no money to rent a house, so he had to stay in the temple.

There was no money to buy vegetables, so he used millet to boil porridge, and when the porridge solidified overnight, he cut it into four pieces with a knife, and ate two pieces in the morning and two pieces in the evening to satisfy his hunger.

Such a day, Fan Zhongyan, is a full three years.

Seeing this, you must also wonder, Fan Zhongyan has suffered like this, is there no one at home to help?

When Fan Zhongyan was young, he also had a hard time.

When he was two years old, his father died.

His mother was unable to raise him, so she took him to remarry a family surnamed Zhu, and he changed his surname to "Zhu".

When Fan Zhongyan grew up, he knew his background, and his heart was painful.

Determined to change back to his surname, he said goodbye to his mother in tears and embarked on a hard road to study.

At Yingtian Academy, he got up every day before dawn to read, and he also read late at night before going to bed.

When he was sleepy from reading, he washed his face with cold water; When he was hungry, he drank porridge to his stomach.

The students in the dormitory saw that he was eating too cold, so they specially brought him a large table of food to improve the food.

Unexpectedly, Fan Zhongyan decisively refused, and said:

If you eat these delicious dishes, I will not adapt to the hard days, you better take it back.

During those most difficult days, he stayed in poverty and refused to enjoy.

It was precisely with this kind of heart that he was able to win the imperial examination in one fell swoop and realize his long-cherished wish.

In fact, who does not need to go through all kinds of suffering and suffer all the injuries when they come to this world?

But all the sweetness of life is tempered from bitterness.

As the writer Chamberlain said, "One cannot reach dawn except by the road through the night." ”

Only after surviving that period of unhelped time can we reach poetry and distant places;

Only after those dark days will there be a warm sun shining on your way.

Fan Zhongyan: What is life? Endure hardship, endure difficulties, and go with the flow

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Endure the difficulty

Su Shi said: Those who set up great things in ancient times not only have supernatural talents, but also have perseverance.

The reason why Fan Zhongyan can achieve such great achievements is to use this "forbearance" word to the extreme with his life.

After Fan Zhongyan became an official, he had been dormant and trained in the local area for more than ten years.

It was not until he was 40 years old that he entered the capital as an official on the recommendation of Yan Shu.

Fan Zhong was full of joy and thought that he finally had the opportunity to show his ambitions, but he did not expect that this entry into Beijing would be the beginning of the turmoil in the second half of his life.

In less than a decade, he was demoted three times in succession.

In 1029, Fan Zhongyan, who was still on the rise of his career, offended the Empress Dowager and was banished to Hanoi Province, where the people were not living.

Fan Zhongyan, who first knew that his career was difficult, was also depressed in his heart for a long time.

But no matter how the imperial court cracked down, he would still repeatedly go up and bitterly explain the pros and cons.

And his sincerity also moved Song Renzong.

After the death of the Empress Dowager, Emperor Renzong of Song recalled Fan Zhonghuan to the capital.

Fan Zhongyan, who has experienced this calamity, still has not learned to be cautious in his words and actions.

In 1033, Empress Guo mistakenly injured Emperor Renzong of Song, and Emperor Renzong of Song was furious and intended to depose the empress.

At this time, it was Fan Zhongyan who stood up again and strongly persuaded Song Renzong to think of the country and not to abolish the queen rashly.

As a result, Song Renzong could not listen to his advice and directly demoted him to Muzhou.

This time he was demoted, less than a year after he was recalled to Beijing.

Being belittled so frequently, in other words, it is estimated that they will be tortured to the bone.

But Fan Zhongyan did not. The arduous experience in his early years has long taught him to face the ups and downs of officialdom calmly.

After arriving in Muzhou, Fan Zhongyan did not let himself drown in pain, but devoted himself to the well-being of the people.

Finally, a year later, he returned to the dynasty again for his merits in treating water.

After returning to the dynasty, Fan Zhongyan found that the appointment and dismissal of officials in the entire court were almost completely controlled by Prime Minister Lu Yijian, which caused great obstacles to the selection and employment of talents by the state.

After he saw the drawbacks, he immediately impeached Lü Yijian to Song Renzong.

Unexpectedly, Lu Yijian accused Fan Zhongyan of "overstepping his position and speaking things, recommending friends to the party, and separating the monarchs."

He was again labeled a friend and degraded to Raozhou.

Fan Zhongyan's three ups and downs correspond to a sentence in "Dream of Red Mansions": joy and glory are just right, and hatred is impermanent again.

In the face of the impermanence of fate, Fan Zhongyan did not complain and did not feel sorry for himself, but endured all the oppression with a strong heart.

In fact, whether it is Fan Zhongyan or you or me, there is no way to have a smooth life in this cruel world.

Maybe right now, you are also experiencing all kinds of difficulties in life.

But no matter what tribulations fate gives, you have to convince yourself to endure as hard as you can.

When you endure the difficulties of the trough, those thousands of trials on the road to growth will turn into your ladder upward.

Fan Zhongyan: What is life? Endure hardship, endure difficulties, and go with the flow

3

Let it be

Fan Zhongyan drowned in "Notes on Yueyang Lou" and used eight words to explain his mentality after being degraded in his later years:

Do not rejoice in things, do not grieve with yourself.

These eight words are the deepest wisdom left to the world by Fan Zhongyan, who has experienced the ups and downs of the sea.

In 1043, Fan Zhongyan, the "Three Dethrons", once again surprised Emperor Renzong of Song because of his outstanding ability to govern the world in the region.

Song Renzong thought about it again and again and decided to use Fan Zhongyan again and let him lead the "Qingli New Policy".

This time, Emperor Renzong of Song directly appointed Fan Zhonghuan as governor of the government, giving him great rights.

As a result, Fan Zhongyan began to carry out drastic reforms, and successively promulgated ten new policies, such as thick peasants and sang, and reduced conscription.

However, these new policy measures, which all aimed at the interests of the DPRK and Chinese officials, were greatly hindered once they were implemented.

Coupled with Song Renzong's indecisiveness, a huge Qingli New Policy ended in failure after only one year and four months.

Fan Zhongyan was also demoted to Deng Zhou again at the age of white hair, and has since withdrawn from the political scene.

Political unhappiness, coupled with being belittled in his later years, this kind of experience that ordinary people can't let go of for decades, but Fan Zhongyan is very open.

He lived in the officialdom for nearly 40 years, and he was repeatedly degraded during his time as an official.

These experiences have long made him look down on all the honors and disgraces, and cultivate a state of mind that is at ease with encounters.

After arriving in Dengzhou, Fan Zhongyan directly took this place as his retirement place.

During many days here, his greatest pleasure was raising flowers and grass and entertaining his grandchildren.

When he was an official in the past, his writing was all about worrying about the country and the people.

After arriving in Dengzhou, some open-minded and optimistic words appeared in his pen and ink.

Mo Wei Shan Weng chatted about Yiyu. The number of hours of meritorious service.

Warbler solution new sound butterfly dance.

Talent with. There is no joy in my life.

He said, Don't blame me, this mountain man will only be comfortable and happy, you know, the gain and loss of fame are doomed.

Even the orioles and butterflies know how to sing and dance for the newborn scenery, how can they ask me to have no joyful emotions?

At this moment, Fan Zhongyan used a relaxed joke to relieve all the suffering he had suffered.

Feng Zikai once said:

Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to rejoice. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since it did not come true, it is better to be relieved.

In this long life, we will meet countless people and experience countless things.

If you can't let go, no matter how powerful people are, they will be crushed by the accumulation of troubles and obsessions.

As the saying goes, when you let go of a thought, heaven and earth are forgiving.

With a heart that goes with the flow, no matter how troubled the life, you can also let it blossom in the dust.

When Fan Zhongyan was degraded to Muzhou, he specially went to the ancestral hall of the Eastern Han hermit Yan Ziling, and mentioned a sentence here:

Clouds and mountains, rivers and rivers,

The wind of the gentleman, the mountain is high and the water is long.

This sentence was used by Fan Zhongyan to praise Mr. Yan.

But countless descendants wanted to give this sentence to Fan Zhongyan.

Fan Zhongyan has tasted ups and downs in his life, no matter what situation fate pushes him into, he can always rise again in difficult situations;

He was degraded several times, and no matter where he was belittled, he could always use his talents to benefit the people.

He spent his life practicing that "if you live high in the temple, you worry about its people, and if you are far away in the rivers and lakes, you worry about its king";

His spirit has led to the personality of a literati of an era who "takes the family and country as their own responsibility".

The three words "Fan Zhongyan" are by no means just a name for us today.

He is the courage to fight difficulties, the conviction to stand up to oneself; It is a hope that penetrates confusion, and it is also a good medicine to heal life.

When you understand this, you can also be like Fan Zhongyan, keep a normal heart, see through difficulties, and be born again in despair.

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