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On the surface, you think that Xu Fan tolerated Feng Xiaogang to find Xiaomian and repeatedly suffered betrayal but insisted on not getting a divorce, but in fact, Xu Fan has "great wisdom" in his heart.
Is Xu Fan really generous?
As a famous director in the circle, Feng Xiaogang has no shortage of "Yingying Yanyan" around him.
But Xu Fan is quite a pair, no matter how you spend outside, in the end "Mrs. Feng" is my atmosphere, although Feng Xiaogang looks funny and humorous, but in Xu Fan's words, "those who pounce are all leprechauns".
For example, a certain "big beauty" who evaded taxes has cooperated with Feng Xiaogang on several movies, and the two are very close during both the promotion period and the filming period, like "hooking up" This is a normal operation.
Once, a media reporter coaxed Feng Xiaogang to hug the "big beautiful", and after the hug, Feng Xiaogang said that the "big beautiful" was too big to hug.
A sentence of "pun intended" made the "big beautiful", who has always been known for being domineering, instantly blushed and did not dare to speak again.
For another example, when Feng Xiaogang let Miao Miao, the heroine of "Fang Hua", dance in public, Xu Fan, who was also a woman on the side, did not have any empathy, but stood by and watched this farce.
It is said that on the set, the relationship between Feng Xiaogang and Miao Miao was also very "close", and Xu Fan was not annoyed at all, and once specially cooked dumplings for Miao Miao to eat.
The most admirable thing is Xu Fan's attitude towards Shen Xing, a well-known host who was supposed to take the position.
Previously, Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang's marriage was in a hurry, and the paparazzi followed Feng Xiaogang and found that he was with the well-known host Shen Xing, and the two stayed at Shen Xing's "Xiangjian" together, not caring about Xu Fan's feelings at all.
At that time, everyone felt that it was only a matter of time before Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang divorced, but Xu Fan's attitude was very calm.
After this incident, Feng Xiaogang became rarely honest - at this time, if Xu Fan was not in the right position, then Feng Xiaogang was likely to be characterized as a "tainted artist" and eventually banned.
Interestingly, when Feng Xiaogang was facing a "life and death crisis", Xu Fan did not choose to push him, but calmly responded to the "night stay" incident, and spoke for Feng Xiaogang - there is no problem with our husband and wife's relationship.
Xu Fan had already given the steps, and Feng Xiaogang could only go down! Soon, Feng Xiaogang and Shen Xing "broke clean", and after that, Feng Xiaogang also converged a lot.
A reporter asked Feng Xiaogang: "There are so many beauties in this entertainment industry, why did you choose Xu Fan?" ”
Feng Xiaogang smiled: "Because Xu Fan is atmospheric enough and knowledgeable enough." ”
Of course, there is another reason, Feng Xiaogang was only a marginal figure in the Beijing circle before, and although he was promoted by Wang Shuo, in the eyes of Wang Shuo, Ye Daying, Ye Jing, Mi Jiashan, and Zheng Xiaolong, he can only be the lowest errand running brother.
Therefore, he should have suffered a lot of grievances when he was young, and later met Xu Fan and received unprecedented respect from her, which should be the reason for Feng Xiaogang's heart. It's just that after a long time, after fame and status, Feng Xiaogang will inevitably want to play in his heart, which is a kind of self-compensation psychology.
And Xu Fan also caught Feng Xiaogang's psychology, and the two could live together peacefully for so many years.
Feng Xiaogang said in his autobiography that Xu Fan was really good to him, his socks were changed once a day, and each pair of socks was folded properly, and there were new ones every morning, and he felt respected and loved in Xu Fan.
As a woman, if you marry an accomplished man, how many people are not forbearing?
The love between Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang is "unique"
Many people feel that Xu Fan can't control Feng Xiaogang, Feng Xiaogang is messing around outside, and she doesn't dare to divorce. I can only pretend that we don't suffer either. Feng Xiaogang definitely doesn't suffer losses, but as a wife, can she not suffer losses? But she didn't recruit either, who let you rely on Feng Xiaogang?
Therefore, everyone believes that Xu Fan is "fake generosity".
But in fact, Xu Fan himself was "prying the corner" to be with Feng Xiaogang.
There are many kinds of femininity, representing the ultimate woman like the "Mother of the Earth" headed by Gong Li.
There is a superb woman with Xu Qing as the head of the little woman.
There are superb women headed by Yu Feihong with the banner of "independent women".
Xu Fan is another representative, with a gentle and delicate appearance, appropriate white space, long limbs, good proportions, full of traditional lady-like dignified and soft, definitely a woman among women.
Xu Fan's female appearance is really a good hand of cards to play unsatisfactory, in that era, her family conditions were definitely good conditions, such a good starting point, but the result was out of the life path dominated by men. She could have put up her own banner and went down, but it's a pity.
When Xu Fan met Feng Xiaogang, he had just broken up with his ex, and although Feng Xiaogang had a family, Feng Xiaogang, who has always loved beauty, couldn't help but give warmth when he saw Xu Fan who was sad and crying outside the set.
Xu Fan regarded Feng Xiaogang as a lifesaver, gave both people and hearts to Feng Xiaogang, and also asked Feng Xiaogang to divorce and marry himself.
Feng Xiaogang's wife at that time was called Zhang Di, a nurse in a hospital, and Feng Xiaogang had a daughter, smart and smart.
Zhang Di knows what kind of person her husband Feng Xiaogang is, and there were other "lace news" from Feng Xiaogang that reached Zhang Di's ears before, but Zhang Di felt that she and Feng Xiaogang already had children, and no matter how Feng Xiaogang played outside, it was impossible not to want this family, right?
But to Zhang Di's surprise, Feng Xiaogang was really blinded by the "little goblin" outside this time.
Feng Xiaogang filed for divorce from Zhang Di, but Zhang Di was unwilling, and she tried to use her daughter to reclaim Feng Xiaogang's heart.
Maybe he saw that Feng Xiaogang was shaken, and Xu Fan was also anxious, this can't finally "lose the lady and fold the army"! Seeing that Feng Xiaogang was "not powerful", Xu Fan personally found Zhang Di and asked Zhang Di to fulfill himself and Feng Xiaogang.
Seeing the beautiful Xu Fan, Zhang Di knew that she could no longer save her relationship with Feng Xiaogang, and she sighed and agreed to divorce.
Xu Fan is very clear that intervening in other people's marriages in the name of three, of course, must be able to accept other interveners in the marriage, and the scumbag attribute will not change.
Is Xu Fan a pity?
Many of Xu Fan's fans feel unworthy or aggrieved for Xu Fan. But in fact, it is not necessary, it is very likely that when Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang got married, Xu Fan knew what his future life would be like, right? Of course, her answer to Venus's question is indeed a bit of a hard-mouthed or short-term component, after all, not everyone has the courage to pull away the unbearable in their lives for everyone to see.
Xu Fan not only experienced the pain of the original match, but also tasted the sweetness of the mistress, and was experienced, so no matter how many flowers Feng Xiaogang threw and how much grass he provoked outside, Xu Fan would definitely not leave!
Xu Fan is not easy, he finally caught up with Feng Xiaogang, how can he give up easily.
Xu Fan has a weak personality, speaks softly, and does not look like a Wuhan person at all. But when it comes to key issues, she is absolutely unambiguous.
In a publicity activity of "Fang Hua", Feng Xiaogang wanted to hold hands with Yang Caiyu, Xu Fan's eyes were quick, and after seeing Feng Xiaogang stretch out his hand, he immediately naturally took the lead and took Feng Xiaogang's hand, and Yang Caiyu next to him could only hide his embarrassment with a smile.
This is real life. No matter how you spend it outside, but in front of the camera, you have to give me face.
It can only be said that Xu Fan will choose the right life for himself at the right time, which is also a great wisdom.
Is Xu Fan really in love with Feng Xiaogang
Some people commented that Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan's marriage was: while eating flies, they also said that they were delicious, and they also boasted that their cooking skills were awesome.
Xu Fan's love history is actually very simple, after falling in love with university teacher Wang Zhiwen, he only had an affair with Tian Zhuangzhuang, and then married Feng Xiaogang.
Xu Fan's first love was Wang Zhiwen, when one of them was a university student and the other was a university teacher, and the sweetness of "teacher-student love" made Xu Fan willingly wash his hands and make soup for Wang Zhiwen at home after graduation, but it also laid the groundwork for the "unequal" relationship between the two.
It is said that once Wang Zhiwen suspected that Xu Fan was having an affair with Tian Zhuangzhuang, and threw Xu Fan out of the house at twelve o'clock at night, preventing Xu Fan from staying another night.
The main reason why Xu Fan couldn't do without Feng Xiaogang was: Feng Xiaogang gave her warm embrace and equality between people when she was most difficult. The savior after the injury, she will determine that it will be a lifetime, not how much patience she has. That little thing in the entertainment industry is not a matter for actors!
Some gossip media once disclosed that when Xu Fan just married Feng Xiaogang, Feng Xiaogang's daughter refused to accept Xu Fan, and in the later stage, Xu Fan was unexpectedly pregnant, but in order to please the other party's daughter, Xu Fan beat his own child away.
At that time, Xu Fan thought that he would have children in the future, but what he didn't expect was that because of this abortion, Xu Fan could no longer be a mother.
For the speculation of the relationship between Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang, first of all, Xu Fan must be true to Feng Xiaogang, secondly, whether it is a star or a rich man, it is a community of interests, and separating will only cause both to lose, not as simple as ordinary marriage, and then there are too many experiences in the entertainment industry, let's not talk about whether you can watch it, even if it is not necessarily as good as Feng Xiaogang, and finally if it is said that Xu can't give birth, with her pay-type personality, she will feel sorry for Feng, of course, this is pure speculation.
Xu Fan's answer to Jin Xing's question reflects Xu Fan's patience, which is that she has had a marriage encounter that makes her feel unfortunate, so Xu Fan cares very much about the marriage life with Feng Xiaogang later.
Xu Fan's Feng Xiaogang's attitude is to vigorously maintain it, so as to satisfy his inner needs.
Xu Fan actually sees the relationship between the sexes very openly, and the people who mind this matter are called forbearance, see through love, husband and wife, and the essence of human nature, are called strong.
Some female artists themselves are also scandalous and cannot be clean. That's why there is such a saying, each enjoys its own and does not interfere with each other. But Xu Fan is a clear stream among artists, after marrying Feng Xiaogang, he is really at ease at home with his husband and children, and occasionally appears in the public eye, which is also for the film promotion of her husband Feng Xiaogang.
In fact, Xu Fan's treatment of Feng Xiaogang's blockage is not generous, or there is no way. Helpless indulgence! I can only sigh!
However, in the entertainment industry, today, when cheating, scandals, and divorce have been used as family play, Xu Fan's attitude of attaching importance to family and not easily divorce is very worthy of recognition!
It is better to say that it can endure, it is better to say that it is sincere, otherwise it will not be able to endure for decades!
In the eyes of outsiders, Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang have a very good relationship as a husband and wife, and they also adopt their daughter together, and one party can't keep it if they want to break up, and it is not understood by ordinary people at their stage.
Xu Fan is alive and clear, he knows what he wants, there is no need to be surprised by how people look, there is no cat in the world that does not steal food.
In fact, to some extent, Xu Fan is not able to endure, it is her psychology that is like this, but anyone who says that he can endure it will definitely not be able to endure, there will always be an outbreak, and only she feels that these are not things can persist. And how much love there is between them, who knows.
Accomplished women should endure, and many women who have not achieved are also forbearing! Look down, it's your people who are around you, and you don't know who is not around...
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