Gordon Hayward, an All-Star and All-NBA team, has a lot of glory on the court, but has to face a conundrum at home: his wife, Robin Hayward. Robin is an American model and social media celebrity with an enviable body and beauty, and she is also Gordon's high school classmate and first love. The two married in 2014 and have four lovely daughters. They appear to be a happy couple, but in fact they have unknown contradictions. This article will reveal the problems and conflicts between them and how they see and resolve their family crisis from another perspective.
Chapter 1: The Game
Gordon loves to play games, and he often turns on his computer or mobile phone when he comes home after a game, immersed in the virtual world. He sees it as his way of relaxing and having fun, as well as his way of keeping in touch with his teammates and friends. But Robin doesn't think so, she feels that Gordon has snubbed her because of this, ignoring her feelings and needs. She hopes that Gordon can accompany her more, care about her more, and give her more sweet words and romantic surprises.
This issue has attracted the attention and discussion of many netizens, because once Gordon was interrupted by Robin while broadcasting the game live. Gordon had just finished a game when he asked Robin, "Do I have time to play another round?" Robin replied in a tone like a mother teaching a naughty son: "No." No, you don't have time. Then she added, "I'm watching you play a game." How sad is my life? The video quickly went viral, making many people feel that Robin was very incomprehensible, unsupportive, and even disrespectful to Gordon.
But Robin later clarified the matter on her Instagram, saying it was just a joke and she wasn't really angry or unhappy. She said she just wanted Gordon to go to training that day, so she told him to stop playing games. She said she wasn't really watching him play a game, but just happened to walk into the room and tell him it was time to go. She said she doesn't mind Gordon playing games, as long as he manages his time and ensures his physical and mental health.
In fact, Robin has also talked about his opinion on Gordon playing games in an interview. She said she knows games are a way for Gordon to relax and entertain, as well as a way to communicate and interact with other people. She said she wasn't opposed to Gordon playing games, as long as he controlled his time and didn't interfere with his work and family. She said she would also try to play games with Gordon, or at least be by his side to give him some support and encouragement. She said she would also let their daughters play games with Gordon to make them feel the fun and love of their daddy. She said she felt that play was a way to increase their feelings and understanding, rather than a way to create estrangement and conflict between them.
Gordon's words touched Gordon, and he felt so lucky to have such a wife. He decided to change his attitude towards the game and stop it from being a problem between them. He decided to spend less time playing games and spending more time with Robin and the kids. He decided to share his fun and experience of playing games with Robin and the children, so that they could also feel the charm and meaning of the game. He decided to use gaming as a way to increase communication and trust between them, rather than as a way to alienate and apathize with each other.
Chapter 2: Children
Robin is also not satisfied with Gordon's attitude towards the children, she feels that Gordon has not fulfilled his responsibilities as a good father and has not given enough love and attention to the children. She knew that Gordon had always wanted a son, but always had a daughter. She felt that Gordon was not so loving and proud of his daughters, and even sometimes showed disappointment and impatience. She hopes that Gordon will spend more time and energy cultivating and enjoying the affection with her daughters.
This issue has also attracted the attention and discussion of many netizens, because once Gordon was interrupted by Robin while broadcasting the game live. Robin was holding his phone and showing Gordon a video of their youngest daughter, Margaret, learning to walk. Robin excitedly told Gordon, "Look, Margaret can walk!" But Gordon replied lightly, "Oh, that's awesome." Then he continued to play the game. The video also quickly went viral on the Internet, making many people feel that Gordon was indifferent, unconcerned, and even disliked his daughter.
But Robin later clarified the matter on her Instagram, saying it was just a misunderstanding and that she didn't think Gordon didn't care or like Margaret. She said she just wanted to show Gordon a cute video that day to make him happy, but she didn't notice that he was streaming the game, so she disturbed him. She said she knew Gordon loved their daughters, but sometimes it wasn't obvious. She said she also saw Gordon's tenderness and affection for her daughters on other occasions, such as reading them stories, singing, dancing, playing games, and so on. She said she felt Gordon was a good father, a good husband, a good man.
In fact, Gordon has also talked about his views on children in an interview. He said he loved their daughters so much that he felt that each one was a gift from God. He said he doesn't mind not having a son, as long as the children are healthy and happy. He said he would do his best to provide them with the best life and education so that they could grow into good and happy people. He said that he will also try to communicate and interact with them more so that they can feel the care and love of their father. He said he would also involve them in their work and hobbies, so that they could understand and respect their choices and dreams. He said he feels that children are the most important part of his life and his greatest motivation and support.
Gordon's words touched Robin, and she felt so lucky to have such a husband. She decided to change her attitude towards her children and stop letting it be a problem between them. She decided to increase her attention and love for the children and spend more time playing and learning with them. She decided to lower her expectations and pressure on her children and give them more encouragement and praise. She decided to use children as a way to increase the affection and understanding between her and Gordon, not as a way to create disagreements and dissatisfaction between her and Gordon.
Chapter 3: Communication
These problems accumulated between the two for a long time, and finally exploded one night. They quarrel, accuse and question each other over games and children's problems. They find that they are not as close as they used to be, not as understanding as they used to be, not as trusting as before. They felt each other's alienation and indifference, they felt each other's hurt and disappointed, they felt each other's despair and helplessness.
This question has also attracted the attention and discussion of many netizens, because once Gordon was asked about his relationship with Robin in an interview. At the time, the reporter asked Gordon: "Do you think there is a problem between you and Robin?" Are you still in love as you used to? Gordon replied, "We don't have any problems, we still love each other." We just have some minor conflicts sometimes, but it's normal, every couple has this situation. We will all strive to solve and improve, and we will understand and support each other. But this answer did not satisfy netizens, many people felt that Gordon was perfunctory or cover-up, and some even doubted whether Gordon was cheating or had other women.
But Robin later clarified the matter on her Instagram, saying there were no major issues between her and Gordon, just some normal family chores. She said she knew Gordon was genuinely answering reporters' questions during the interview, rather than deliberately concealing or lying. She said she doesn't mind what netizens think or comment about their relationship, as long as she knows what she thinks. She said she still loved Gordon, and she believed Gordon still loved her. She said she would also try to communicate and trust Gordon, and would not easily suspect or blame him. She said she felt that as long as two people had love, it was enough, and nothing else mattered.
In fact, Gordon and Robin have also talked about their views on communication and trust in an interview. They say they all believe that communication and trust are the foundation and key to maintaining a relationship. They say they try to spend as much time as possible chatting and sharing, whether it's work or life. They say they will try to listen and understand each other's thoughts and feelings as much as possible, whether they agree or disagree. They say they try to express and prove their love and loyalty as much as possible, both in words and deeds. They say they will all try to support and encourage each other's dreams and goals, whether easy or difficult. They say they will cherish and maintain their relationship as much as possible, whether it is good times or bad.
Gordon and Robin's words touched each other, and they felt so lucky to have such a partner. They decided to change their attitude towards communication and trust and stop it as a problem between them. They decided to increase their communication and sharing, spending more time listening and understanding. They decided to increase their expression and proof, and to spend more time caring and loving. They decide to increase their support and encouragement and spend more time appreciating and praising them. They decided to cherish and maintain each other more and spend more time with each other.
Chapter 4: The Ending
Gordon Hayward and Robin Hayward have gone through many difficulties and challenges, but they have not given up on each other, and they are still trying to see and solve their family crisis from another perspective. They believe that as long as they understand and empathize with each other, support and encourage each other, cherish and maintain each other, they can overcome everything and go to the end. Because they believe that love is the most powerful force, love is the most beautiful thing, and love is the most worthwhile choice.
This story tells us that there are no perfect people or things in love, only continuous effort and improvement. We cannot ignore each other's advantages and feelings because of some small problems, nor can we give up the trust and support of the other party because of some small contradictions. We must learn to see and solve problems from another perspective, learn to tolerate and understand each other with love and understanding, learn to express and prove our love with heart and action, and learn to cherish and maintain our feelings with time and energy. Only in this way can we have a happy family and a happy and lucky life.