She was sexually harassed, she bravely spoke up, what are some people angry about?

The last time I brushed the news of host Liang Tian was when she left Hunan TV.

Sven still remembers that she dyed her blonde hair and posted a long essay summarizing her 11-year hosting career, and then happily looking forward to her life journey after the age of 33.

At that time, clicking on the comment area and related entries were all voices of artists, peers and fans who supported and blessed, wishing her a better and braver future.

Whether it's standing at the "threshold" of approaching the age of 35 to re-plan your life, or stepping out of your comfort zone to challenge new areas, this courage is quite resonant with the public and really cool.

But what people didn't expect was that she was scolded again on the hot search for her dynamics, and the reason was because she shared an experience of being sexually harassed not long ago.

The logic of victim guilt in being scolded by sexually harassed people sounds outrageous, but it seems conceivable in today's increasingly outrageous and bad public opinion environment.

Let's first give you a look at the cause and effect of this time.

Yesterday, Liang Tian posted a short video about her experience of being openly followed by a strange man on the subway with her girlfriend for nearly an hour a week ago, accompanied by malicious gazes that made her feel sick.

According to Liang Tian, this man not only peeked at her with malicious eyes, but even after she turned around, this man could go around her front and continue to look, and even sat across from her to look directly at her, or peek at her with the help of glass reflections.

As for how she determined that the man's gaze on her was intentional, she said there were two details.

One was that she deliberately slowed down when she and her girlfriend were swapping, allowing the man to walk in front of them, and they dared to turn right after seeing him turn left. As a result, the man followed behind the two of them again.

Second, after Liang Tian went from being scared to disgusted to angry, he began to pick up his mobile phone and shoot at the man, ready to keep evidence, but the man was even more rampant, sitting directly in front of her and pretending to take a mobile phone to shoot her inadvertently, and confronted her for more than five minutes before leaving her line of sight.

This caused her and her girlfriend to sit a few more stops that day before daring to walk back, and the more she thought about it, the more afraid she became.

As for why she did not call the police but chose to record a video to say it publicly, Liang Tian said that she also thought about it for a long time, because the man did not move on her, nor did he do obscene acts such as exposing his body.

But as far as her subjective feelings are concerned, it is also sexual harassment, because the man's various behaviors make her feel uncomfortable.

To this end, Liang Tian also thought of his experience of being blocked by boys in a corner and forcibly asking for contact information when he was a child, saying that he didn't understand it at the time, and now he knows that he was actually sexually harassed at that time.

She also talked about "how to determine sexual harassment" and "how to protect yourself when encountering sexual harassment", saying that many left-behind girls are now the most vulnerable group to sexual assault and harassment, and many of them are acquaintances.

Because they have no one around them to protect them, and no one to teach them how to cope. I hope everyone can pay more attention to the bud plan, so that these children can grow up healthy and safe.

Obviously, the second half of her video is an advertisement, or strictly an advertisement for a public welfare project, and this bud project has recently been supported by many stars, Liang Tian is one of them.

And the way she participates is to draw attention to these vulnerable and vulnerable groups by telling her own similar experiences.

To be honest, Sven felt that there was no problem when he saw this all the way, and as a public figure, he was willing to direct the public to this kind of public welfare project to prevent sexual assault by revealing his own scars.

And even if the previous stories shared are all for the final advertisement, this starting point is good, there is nothing to criticize.

However, after clicking on the comment area, Sven found that not everyone thought so, and many netizens not only opened the microphone diss her, but also had everything from yin and yang strange to positive connotations, scolding one by one more ugly.

There are counter-words such as "every mature man should poke his eyes blind when he goes out" and "how can a pheasant match a phoenix", and some mock her for being amorous, saying "Can you accuse sexual harassment with your eyes now?" ↓↓

There are also many that are aimed at her behavior of not calling the police but posting a small essay with various connotations, indicating that the problem of constituting sexual harassment only recognizes the police report, like her who opens her mouth to deal with it according to the hype, are all fake, think that she just got the current traffic password, in this feminist traffic ↓↓

Of course, there are still many scolding that are very ugly, linking the case of Zhang Wei of Chuanda, and even Hunan Tai, the former owner of Liang Tian, also scolded together, saying that sure enough, the people who study the media are the same type of people, and they all know how to incite public opinion with empty teeth and provoke gender antagonism... ↓↓ (The extent to which eating a melon can last a lifetime.)

There are even questions about why she took the subway when she obviously had a car, apparently for the sake of traffic ↓↓ (emmm... No one rules that public figures can't take the subway, right? And is that the point...

Weibo is like this, Douyin and some other video accounts comment area is even more disastrous, all kinds of confusing speeches.

There is a stamp that she stinks the network environment ↓↓

There is a saying "you don't look at how he knows that he is looking at you", "see that you are because you dye your hair, others despise you", and suggested that she go to a psychologist if she has murder paranoia

Some direct empty words "chicken", indicating that she dyes her hair and makes it so good-looking, isn't it for others to see? Dress yourself up like you are doing that, and now what is pretending to be high here, if the other party is a rich and handsome, don't you think it's sexual harassment? Flies don't bite eggs... ↓↓

Others even said: Will you post online if you are sexually harassed? If she was really sexually harassed, no one dared to say it, she posted it directly on the Internet, lest the world not know that she wanted to fire without a bottom line ↓↓

Seriously, before seeing these statements, I really didn't expect that the Qing Dynasty people are now so convenient to access the Internet, not only longevity, but also fast Internet speed. Liang Tian just posted an ordinary video, as if he had poked some organization's nest, blowing up all kinds of demons and monsters.

Unexpectedly, it is already 2023, and so many people will attack a woman with such ancient and unreasonable points as "dyeing hair", "dressing exquisitely", and "who is a serious girl who is sexually harassed should not be shameful".

Even want to use the "slut humiliation" set to attack and slander her, just to prove that she is to hype herself, men are not so idle to harass others all day, this slot is really dense to the point of silence for a while.

Those jumping feet and scolding IDs, click on it casually and you will find that more than 90% of men are men, and 10% are some "spiritual men" who do not think that sexual harassment can be regarded as sexual harassment by looking twice.

Of course, there are some normal men who can't stand it, saying that in the case of Liang Tian, if they are stared back and forth by a strange man, they are already uncomfortable enough to want to hit someone, let alone be followed, and they don't understand what is there to scold her.

And the speech of most female netizens is a completely different style.

Some said that they thought that there would be many people comforting her by clicking on the comment area, but the result was shocked, now the world is really more and more incomprehensible, really can't expect men to empathize with women's living environment ↓↓

Many female netizens shared their similar experiences, saying that everyone who has experienced it knows how disgusting it feels to be sexually harassed, whether it is tailgating, male coagulation, encountering exhibitionism or suffering more serious sexual assault, it is a psychological trauma that is difficult to erase if it is experienced once.

The harsh reality is that not only have the vast majority of women experienced similar things, these acts of sexual harassment can be experienced by women at all ages, and can happen anytime, anywhere.

Some netizens said that this is the same as the difference between "her figure is so good" and "her figure is so good, it must be good to the touch", it is impossible for normal people to not distinguish the difference between appreciation and male condensation.

Liang Tian's experience may be difficult to define as sexual harassment at the legal level, but it is easy to see whether there is malicious offense.

In this regard, some netizens said that the blacklist was a bumper harvest, and they didn't think that Liang Tian's video had anything to break their defenses, but they didn't expect that the effect could be called a touchstone, which is to blow up potential sexual harassment criminals, and identifying animals and humans really only needs a hot search term.

Because normal people without criminal tendencies will not steal concepts and play word games under this topic, normal men with sound minds are eager to cut the table with garbage at the first time, and only those who feel that these egregious sexual harassment behaviors are okay will rush to empathize with criminals and slander victims.

Some female netizens also paid attention to a more worthy question, that is, if you really encounter a situation like Liang Tian said, is it useful to call the police? Or is there any good solution?

To be honest, this problem is probably like Liang Tian himself said, because the other party did not move on her or other more excessive behavior, she herself was not sure at that time whether it was sexual harassment, and calling the police may not be able to punish the man very effectively.

If you can't speak up for such topics as public figures, then ordinary women, especially smaller underage girls, may have a harder time speaking up for themselves after a similar situation.

The law may not accurately protect every individual, and most of the time it may depend on the morality and literacy of individuals to self-discipline. But it always makes sense to express more, at least to trigger some people to think and reflect.

Thinking of the melon that Guan Xiaotian, the lead singer of the Dirty Fingers Band, was accused of sexual harassment not long ago, if there are netizens who pay attention to the rolling circle, they may have brushed it, the melon is quite eye-opening, and the process is also very twists and turns, and netizens who miss it can search for relevant keywords by themselves.

The whole melon is simply that there are many girls who accuse Guan Xiaotian of sexual harassment, and one of them, Zhang Tianqi, is friends with Guan Xiaotian, Guan Xiaotian's new wife Wang Liang, and the bar owner they frequent.

However, according to Zhang Tianqi's long article, Guan Xiaotian sexually harassed her many times, and on several occasions even in the presence of Wang Liang, Wang Liang not only did not know about it, but even collaborated with other mutual friends to isolate and bully her.

In this regard, Guan Xiaotian's explanation was that he was drunk on purpose, and the bar owner also stood on Guan Xiaotian's side and questioned Zhang Tianqi, feeling that Zhang Tianqi was buttoning his hat indiscriminately.

When I first ate this melon, I thought it was a drama of multi-party pulling heads and scumbags helping each other, but the most poignant twist of the whole thing was Guan Xiaotian's apology Weibo on July 4.

You read that right, he specially released a new song to accompany his apologetic essay.

The song was written to his wife Wang Liang, and I felt that Wang Liang was sorry because she had suffered too much online violence ↓↓

As for the small composition, it is difficult to see what he is ashamed of Zhang Tianqi, more expressing the confusion and surprise of "when did I sexually harass you" and "this is considered sexual harassment", and even carried out a wave of daddy science popularization about sexual consent, sexual assault and sexual harassment to netizens under the banner of Wang Liang.

There are a lot of words, but it can be called a classic, from the arrogance and daddy taste of the abuser, as well as the most common characteristics of rolling men such as B, fake literature, shamelessness and so on are all shown in his text ↓↓

Looking at the comments, I know that netizens were also shocked by his wave of operations, and they really didn't expect that even feminism and sexual harassment could become a part of the couple's play.

The law may not control shameless people, but for many people who used to like the music of Xiaotian, the most direct way to boycott is not to see any performances related to him again, and will not spend a penny on people like him.

Indeed, there are many people who do what they say.

Some music fans went to watch the second anniversary performance of a livehouse in Guangzhou, and after going, they found that the mysterious guest who had not been announced before was Guan Xiaotian, and they were so angry that they wanted to refund the ticket on the spot.

The point of anger is that Guan Xiaotian was still invited after the sexual harassment incident, and the attitude of the organizer was also very indifferent, and he did not take the protests of music fans seriously.

Seeing that the refund was fruitless, Guan Xiaotian was not kicked out of the queue of performance guests, and many female fans opened the boycott mode on the day of the performance.

Someone pulled up a banner at the scene that read, "Rock is not a shield for your sexual harassment"; Someone took a sanitary napkin and pasted Guan Xiaotian's name, which said "Long live the girl"; Someone left their signature ↓↓ on a sign that said "I am against Guan Xiaotian"

There were also a few girls reading Fang Siqi's books at the entrance of the venue, and attracted more and more girls' support and joining, reading until four or five o'clock in the morning, suffering a lot of white eyes ↓↓

To tell the truth, I don't know how the party Guan Xiaotian can still insist on performing in such an atmosphere, he may not care at all, or he feels that he is more "rock".

But if there is more such resistance, I believe that as the organizers and venues who need to make money, the next time they invite guests with moral flaws like him, they will have to think about it a little more.

Some male bloggers have also paid attention to these voices and actively expressed their position: When a smelly fish appears in the soup, what you have to do is to go fishy, not to yell at others that my soup tastes okay or that I am different from the smelly fish.

To put it bluntly, as a normal man, if you don't want to be in the same camp as those "smelly fish", you should openly resist the perpetrators, even louder than women. Otherwise, when this pot of soup is completely rotten, everyone will be fishy, and no one will want to be spared.

Some time ago, the party girl who accused the screenwriter Shi Hang of sexual harassment and was labeled as an "ex" has not stopped speaking out now, and the small essay sent out has not been harmonized but has been resent.

I don't know if this thing can still squat to an ideal result, but those things that can't be passed will always be remembered.

I like the last paragraph of her splendid little essay, interested netizens can read the full article, it's really very good, and to the point, let's take it as the end of today.

Insisting on speaking out against sexual harassment may seem to some as an unnecessary contest, first of all difficult to obtain evidence, time-consuming and laborious and may have little effect, the reality is often that the abuser has little impact, but the victim is tormented in the process of lifting his scars again and again.

But like she said, someone has to step up and do these things. What everyone wants is to restart the world, to stop Fang Siqi-style tragedies, and to be healthy, happy, sunny and alive well.

The so-called Weibo Shengtang is not actually legal sanctions, but to expose the faces of those shameless people and leave public opinion in the hearts of every righteous person. I hope we can all witness the day when the world will change for the better.