Source: The Ancient Garden is silent and slow
Statement: The copyright of this article belongs to the original author, if there is a source error or infringement of your legitimate rights and interests, you can contact us, we will deal with it in time.
"Wine debts are commonplace, and life is rare for seventy years." - Du Fu
From Du Fu's poem, we can see that in ancient times, people who could live to be 70 years old were very rare. Nowadays, the social medical conditions are getting better and better, people are living longer, and it is very common to live to the age of seventy.
In July 2022, statistics released by the National Health Commission showed that the average life expectancy of Chinese residents increased from 77.93 years in 2020 to 78.2 years in 2021.
So now people live to be 70 years old, not very old, I am in my eighties, nineties are a lot of people, far from the end of life, still can not adopt a negative attitude to live.
After people pass the age of 70, it is best to do "three do not care, three do not ask, three do not touch" in order to enjoy a happy old age.
"Three regards", which are the three?
01. Regardless of the children's family chores.
By the age of 70, children have basically started a family and can be independent. At this time, as a respected elder in the family, do not care about too many children's family chores. Some irrelevant things, just turn a blind eye, don't take care of too much, manage too much, children will be bored, but self-pleasant.
02. Regardless of your age.
After the age of 70, how long we can live, that is not something we can decide, we have to go with the flow. There is an old saying that "life and death are fate, wealth is in the sky", after the age of seventy, we must adjust our mentality, actively face some problems in life, and live every day full and wonderful is enough.
03. Regardless of the rotten people and rotten things around you.
When people are old, try to keep their hearts clean, and the social circle should not be too complicated, so try not to care about some rotten people around them.
What happens to the people around us has little to do with us, don't be curious, don't ask everywhere, curiosity kills. It is good to focus on your own life, it is enough to spend time and energy with your family.
What are the three things that "three don't ask"?
01. Don't ask about ugly things in other people's homes.
As the saying goes: "Family ugliness must not be exposed", if there is anything ugly at home, we should not tell outsiders. But if some ugly things come out of other people's homes, let's not ask too much. Knowing too much is not a good thing, but it is easy to cause unnecessary trouble.
02. Do not ask about matters related to the interests of others.
Today's people are very realistic, and many so-called brothers and sisters, in the face of interests, can get against each other. So some things related to the interests of others, let's not go to it, ask too much. Right and wrong, just leave it to others to judge, even if it is a matter of relatives and friends, we should not participate.
03. Disputes between relatives, do not ask.
In rural areas, the relationship between many relatives is very complicated. Due to various factors, some disputes can also arise between relatives. If a relative comes to talk to you, don't take sides, don't talk to one side, this is to protect ourselves and avoid participating in disputes.
"Three do not touch", which three do not touch?
01. Do not touch tobacco and alcohol.
When people are old, after the age of 70, they must put their health first. If you have developed the habit of smoking and drinking before, you should try to quit it, because this is a behavior that harms your health. The usual diet should also be paid attention to, do not eat and drink, try to coarse tea and light rice.
02. Do not touch the elderly chess and card room.
If there are some elderly chess and card rooms near the house, we also try not to go and do not gamble. As the saying goes, "Ten bets and nine loses". Our pension is very limited, we must not spend on these bad hobbies, we must restrain ourselves and control our hands.
03. Do not touch color.
As the old saying goes: "A knife on the head of the color word", when people are old, they must control their desires in some aspect and try not to touch the color. In life after the age of 70, we must pay attention to spiritual enjoyment, which is a higher state of life. Coveting wine, you will only live a very bad life in your later years, and you will overdraw your body.
Write at the end
All in all, after the age of 70, people still have to maintain self-discipline in life and cannot indulge themselves.
After old age, we must also grasp the initiative of life, plan our life well, since the end is already predetermined, then we enjoy the process! Making your old age life colorful is the most important meaning of life.