Lu Xiaoman, a well-known Chinese female painter and writer, is talented and good-looking.
As a famous lady with both talents and appearances, she has attracted the favor of celebrities such as Xu Zhimo and Hu Shi, but she has lived with Weng Ruiwu for 30 years.
Who is Weng Ruiwu?
Why can you live with Lu Xiaoman for 30 years? What kind of story is there between them?
First acquaintance, first encounter, similar fun
In 1899, a young boy was born in Wujiang, Jiangsu, the second son of the well-known painter Weng Shouqi.
With a good family, he received a formal education since he was a child, and he had many preferences at a young age, but he also had talent.
He studied calligraphy and painting with Zhao Shuzi; Learn Chinese medicine Tuina with Ding Fengshan; At the same time, he also likes to sing Beijing classic Kunqu opera, and has also been appreciated by Mei Lanfang.
He is famous not only for his Tuina skills, but also for his kind and gentle side, whether rich or poor, he will be able to Tuina, so he is widely acclaimed.
He was born into a wealthy family, excelled in Tuina, painting, calligraphy, etc., and also served as the head of the accounting department at the Jiangnan Shipyard.
The acquaintance between Weng Ruiwu and Lu Xiaoman was introduced by sculptor Jiang Xiaolu.
The cause was that Lu Xiaoman was not in good health, suffering from stomach pain and asthma, and he was pale when he hurt, and he would often scream.
Her husband Xu Zhimo was very worried and distressed, so he visited famous doctors, but to no avail.
By chance, I heard my friend Jiang Xiaolu talk about Weng Ruiwu's strong massage, so he wanted Weng Ruiwu to help with treatment.
Weng Ruiwu's Tuina technique is very powerful, and after Tuina, Lu Xiaoman has improved, and the whole person's mental state has recovered.
In the process of Tuina, Lu Xiaoman's beautiful face and graceful posture made Weng Ruiwu feel affection for her.
But Xu Zhimo didn't know it, but he was very grateful to Weng Ruiwu, and begged to come over to treat Lu Xiaoman later.
The communication between the three became more and more, especially Lu Xiaoman also found that she and Weng Ruiwu had a common hobby: singing.
Because of this hobby, the three of them and Jiang Xiaolu starred together in a play called "Three Halls Trial".
The protagonist is played by Lu Xiaoman, Weng Ruiwu is a small student, and the other two roles are played by Xu Zhimo and Jiang Xiaolu.
Weng Ruiwu and Lu Xiaoman's relationship is indeed extraordinary, but her husband Xu Zhimo is very calm, and he also defends their relationship.
Xu Zhimo works in Peiping, but Lu Xiaoman has to be treated in Shanghai, and he can only travel between the two places by transportation.
And on the days when he was not at home, Xu Zhimo would ask Weng Rui to take good care of Lu Xiaoman at noon.
The two of them often smoke at home, and on days when the husband is not at home, someone accompanies them to do the same thing, and can use Tuina to relieve their pain.
This made Lu Xiaoman's dull and boring life a lot more comforting, and he no longer felt lonely.
Weng Ruiwu also lived up to his trust and took care of Lu Xiaoman's life completely.
Selling property, love is deeply rooted
When Xu Zhimo went to participate in the forum, the plane he was riding in crashed, and finally the plane crashed and died.
After the news came, Lu Xiaoman was heartbroken, and he didn't slow down for a long time, so serious that he couldn't even get off the ground.
Lu Xiaoman not only has to bear his physical pain, but also mental pressure.
Because she had not been treated by Xu Zhimo's family before, she was not even allowed to attend the funeral, which added to her grief.
Lu Xiaoman could only ask Weng Ruiwu to attend Xu Zhimo's funeral.
Weng Ruiwu saw Lu Xiaoman's state like this, and he was very uneasy, so he moved over to live with Lu Xiaoman.
And this action made his friends feel unreasonable and unreasonable, and even "cut off friendship" with him, coercing him to break off relations with Lu Xiaoman.
But Weng Ruiwu didn't care at all, and focused on Lu Xiaoman.
During the period of cohabitation, he accompanied Lu Xiaoman to raise her body and meet all her requirements.
With Xu Zhimo in front of him before, he had to suppress his emotions, but after Xu Zhimo died, he was taking over the burden of taking care of Lu Xiaoman in a bright way.
He can pet Lu Xiaoman wantonly, or he can spit clouds and mist with her on the bed, talk about the world, and become her spiritual pillar.
If the man is unmarried and the woman is unmarried, this situation cannot be said.
But at this time, Weng Ruiwu was married and had 5 children with his original wife, but these added up to nothing compared to Lu Xiaoman.
In order to meet Lu Xiaoman's smoking and extravagant life, he did not hesitate to sell his ancestral family property, and even the living expenses for his wife and children were extremely compressed.
But the pressure of life at home and the brocade clothes and food that Lu Xiaoman needs make this rich son still unable to bear it.
He could not support it by selling his property alone, and he could only work a few jobs.
Even though the situation was difficult, he still devoted himself to Lu Xiaoman and regarded her as a treasure.
She likes to drink milk, and it is human milk, so Weng Ruiwu found a milkmaid to take care of her.
She wants to buy expensive shoes, and Weng Ruiwu must be satisfied even if she sells her property.
In order to relieve her sadness of not being able to have children, he even fostered his youngest daughter in Lu Xiaoman's house.
Devoted to her, love but not love
Weng Ruiwu's original wife was deeply injured in this situation, but she was unable to say anything, and she was depressed, and finally died in 1951.
Weng Ruiwu's eldest daughter, Weng Xiangguang, rushed directly to Lu Xiaoman's house and angrily reprimanded: "Why does the father treat the mother?" If you divorce early, your mother can find a good person again and live a comfortable life instead of dying young. ”
Then she said to Lu Xiaoman: "Why are you holding on to my father?" ”
Seeing his daughter crying like tears, Weng Ruiwu was also very sad, and he couldn't say anything to explain.
And Lu Xiaoman could explain to others, but he couldn't say anything to Weng Xiangguang, just cried together.
With the passage of time, excessive work also made Weng Ruiwu's health worse and worse, and his spirit became more and more weak.
In 1961, Weng Ruiwu suffered from lung cancer and knew that he did not have much time.
Even so, he was most relieved of that woman, Lu Xiaoman.
So despite his still illness and weakness, he insisted on finding his friends and asking them to take more care of Lu Xiaoman.
At the same time, he also instructed his daughter to continue to support Lu Xiaoman, which was his last wish.
In the end, Weng Ruiwu passed away.
Just when everyone thought that Lu Xiaoman would be sad and painful like before, she surprisingly did not react, and she didn't even shed a single tear.
This makes many people feel worthless for Weng Ruiwu, 30 years of feelings and wholehearted dedication, in the end did not impress each other, can be described as love.
Written at the end:
Weng Ruiwu and Lu Xiaoman have lived together for 30 years, but they have never married.
There is a saying that Weng Ruiwu is "black and white service" to Lu Xiaoman, black is big smoke, and white is rice.
In this life, Weng Ruiwu was extremely infatuated with Lu Xiaoman, selling her property, abandoning her family, and taking care of her for 30 years, but in exchange for a cold watch.
Lu Xiaoman's performance made people feel helpless and confused, not knowing how the other party thought.
But love is not blindly giving, it requires the joint efforts of both parties to support and go on together, so as to obtain true happiness.
Author: Sunflower
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