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Editor/Eastview
preface
There are many good-looking stars in the entertainment industry, and one of them is an actor, although she is also a big beauty, but she is very low-key and has a personality.
In the case that everyone is afraid that marriage will affect her career, she chose to give birth to a son and a daughter for her husband in secret marriage at the peak of her career, and until today she and her husband have been married for more than ten years, and we still don't know anything about his husband's name and appearance.
After stealth marriage and childbirth, Gao Lu's career gradually declined, and since then the fig leaf of the entertainment industry has been unveiled.
Clear stream in the entertainment industry: Gao Lu who is indifferent to fame and fortune
As an actor, even a very small thing will be infinitely magnified by the media in the spotlight, perhaps understanding this truth, Collow never reveals his family situation to the outside world, only in this way can he protect his family.
Whether in career or feelings, Gao Lu has always kept a low profile, perhaps it is precisely because of the low-key reason that Gao Lu has been tepid in her career for so many years.
But it is undeniable that most female stars in the entertainment industry will intentionally or unintentionally expose their private lives, just to get topics and traffic in the entertainment industry, but there are also actors like Gao Lu, who only focus on their acting skills and never use their private lives to get traffic, which is a clear stream.
Gao Lu has been in the entertainment industry for 20 years, and her acting skills are beyond reproach, but her reputation has not been high, perhaps many audiences can know this person when they see photos, but they can't call her name.
Gao Lu does not fight in her career, and she is also a good wife emotionally, so that the melon-eating masses know little about Gao Lu's information.
Perhaps Gao Lu herself is the kind of woman who is indifferent to fame and fortune, and she cares more about the stability of her family than her career fame and fortune.
Now married for more than 10 years, Gao Lu has never revealed her husband's information, how can this low-key personality not be appreciated.
Actor Gao Lu's dream turned out to be painting
Gao Lu was born in 1982 and is an authentic Beijinger. Since childhood, her family conditions are very good, her mother is a drama actress, and her father is also a high-level technician.
She has been very good-looking since she was a child, with fair skin and very large eyes, which makes people feel like a beautiful girl at first glance, and becomes more and more temperamental when she grows up.
Because her mother is a drama actress, Gao Lu was also influenced by her mother, and she liked to sing and dance since she was a child, and she performed on stage with her mother when she was very young.
After performing with her mother a few times, her mother also found that her daughter was very talented in this area, and sometimes, when there were not enough actors, her mother would let her replace the stage.
As Gao Lu's performance got better and better, her mother began to let her participate in dramas, and also received some advertisements and learned to dub.
Although Gao Lu is very talented in acting, her dream has nothing to do with acting. She didn't want to be an actress, but she loved drawing so much that she wanted to be a painter.
But mothers know that their children have talent in acting, and with more guidance in the future, they will definitely be able to get better and better on the road of acting.
Therefore, her mother still hopes that she can enter an acting school, although Gao Lu is unwilling, but she is afraid that her mother will be sad and does not want to go against her mother's wishes.
Later, when Gao Lu talked to her mother, she said: "I will first go to the acting school, if I can be admitted I will become an actor, if I can't pass the exam, my mother can let me learn to draw."
Mom readily agreed.
After that, Gao Lu began to prepare for the exam, but she didn't expect to be really admitted to the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama.
In this way, Gao Lu embarked on the path of acting, she also liked acting, and the idea of learning to draw was put down.
Either don't do it, or do it and be a good actor
Although Gao Lu's road to becoming an actor is smooth sailing, she has walked for seven years on the road to fame.
In fact, Gao Lu's starting point is still very high, and before the start of school, Gao Lu starred in his first film and television work "Like a Dream".
In 2000, Gao Lu officially entered the Chinese opera study, although her starting point was higher than others, she was never proud and seriously studied acting courses.
Two years later, she was promoted to her junior year, and Gao Lu received an invitation to the TV series "Sunny Beauty", in which she played Xin Zhe as a young girl who had just graduated and went to work and continued to grow.
After graduating from college, Gao Lu had a dream, and she made up her mind that since she had chosen this path, she must be a good actor.
But everyone's success cannot be achieved overnight, and in the next two years, she did not receive good roles, ran the crew everywhere, and could only play some small supporting roles.
Although the sky is not going well, she did not give up, even if it is a small role, she takes it seriously, believing that one day someone will find herself, because opportunities are always left to those who are prepared.
It is gold that always shines, and finally with his own efforts, in 2006, Gao Lu was fortunate to participate in the TV series "Diao Barbarian Princess", in which she played the role of gentle and virtuous Wen Qiang, which was known by many people.
It was rumored that Su Youpeng, the star at the time, also pursued her, but Gao Lu responded clearly to this: "He is so handsome, why chase me, this is a very big scandal." ”
Gao Lu has always been like this, and never rubbed the heat of others.
Since playing this role, Gao Lu has become famous, and more and more crews are looking for her.
In the same year, Gao Lu also received an invitation from the crew of "Days Related to Youth" to play the role of Jin Yan.
However, Gao Lu did not become popular because of this drama, but this drama became popular with Bai Baihe, Tong Dawei and others.
Since then, Gao Lu has been acting conscientiously, not arrogant or impetuous.
In 2011, with the wonderful performance of "Home to the Nth Power", her career improved.
Finally became popular with the role of Xue Zhili.
That year, after winning the award, Gao Lu said with emotion: "This year is the seventh year of my Chinese opera graduation, and it is also my first time to win the award, and it is a great honor for me to be the best newcomer, and this award will inspire me to start anew as a newcomer when I take on every play." ”
Indeed, this is a fresh start for Collow, she is powerful, but she has always been short of a chance to be discovered.
In fact, as early as when Zhao Baogang directed "Struggle" and "Who is in charge of my youth", he was willing to invite Gao Lu.
It's just that all kinds of reasons have been missed, if Gao Lu could participate in these two popular dramas at that time, she would have been recognized by the audience long ago.
Fortunately, he did not miss Xue Zhili and made up for his previous regrets.
Married a husband outside the circle in a low-key manner, and gave birth to a son and a daughter
I thought that Gao Lu's career should prosper from now on, but what I didn't expect was that Bai Baihe's news of "postpartum slimming" caused Gao Lu's career to suffer a heavy blow.
It is necessary to understand that when an actor is exposed to a hidden marriage and has a child when he is popular, it will definitely have a serious impact on his career.
This is the case in the entertainment industry, as if many roles cannot be played after stars get married and have children, which causes many female stars to dare not get married and have children, which is undoubtedly very unfair to female stars.
Obviously has acting skills, but because of marriage and childbirth, he can no longer play the protagonist.
Aren't acting skills more important? What does the entertainment industry rely on to choose the heroine, people have to question.
"I am responsible for my own life"
In this way, Gao Lu missed a lot of opportunities and returned to the time when he played a supporting role, but Gao Lu was very indifferent to this matter.
In an interview, she said: "I met that person, I chose to marry him, this is my choice, marriage is only once I don't want to miss it, but the job is always there, I like it and I will always do it."
In the face of the pressure of public opinion from netizens, Gao Lu did not hide it, and directly admitted to getting married and having children.
Collow is an indisputable and extremely low-key person, and she does not want her marriage to be exposed to the public.
She said: "No one asked me, and my husband is an outsider, so I didn't tell the public about it, not that I deliberately wanted to hide it." ”
She said: "Yes, I was married and had children when I starred in 'The Nth Power of Home'. ”
And for Bai Lily's revelation, Gao Lu does not choose to retaliate like many people in the entertainment industry, she is very generous about this matter, she feels that this matter itself is a fact, everyone knows it.
After that, everyone became curious about Gao Lu's husband, after all, it is rare for a female star to be willing to marry and have children when she is popular.
What kind of charm does her husband have that makes her do this?
Later, Gao Lu revealed that his husband was not an insider, but a local of Shanghai, and his husband was a big straight man in life.
"Although my husband is a big straight man and can't speak sweetly, that's what attracted me," she said.
The two met through a friend's introduction, and her husband fell in love with her at first sight and launched a fierce pursuit of her.
In the end, her husband's sincerity touched her and married him like this.
After getting married, Gao Lu continued to film, took care of the family, and gave birth to a son and a daughter.
After becoming a mother as she wished, Gao Lu did not give up filming, and her relationship with her husband has always been very good.
Her husband is very supportive of her work, and the two understand each other, so they live happily together.
"My husband knows my job, understands what kind of person I am, and will not be jealous and angry because of things at work."
"My husband trusts and understands me so much that my career can get better and better."
Since then, she has starred in many TV series and left a deep impression on the audience.
In the well-known "Do You Know If It Should Be Green Fat Red Thin", she starred in the villain Lin Gaoshuang, which made people hate to gnash their teeth; played sister-in-law Wu Fei in "It's All Good"; in "I Am Yu Huanshui", played Gan Hong; In "Who is the Murderer", played Xia Jinlan and so on.
Although Gao Lu has always played some supporting roles and rarely can play a big heroine, she has never complained about it.
In her opinion, there is no difference between big and small roles, and playing her role well is the most exciting, and she hopes that she can play every role well.
Today, Gao Lu is still filming without forgetting her original intention, silently guarding and running her happy family.
Our idol should be like her, in her work, she is meticulous; In life, Gao Lu also lived as she wanted.
When we flip through Collow's social accounts, you'll find that the years are quiet.
epilogue
Gao Lu chose to have children in secret marriage when her career was just right, although it did have a certain impact on her career, can we say that she was unsuccessful? She does not seek to be popular, she only wants to live freely and happily, and now she is not a winner in life.
She is a smart woman, she knows from the beginning what she wants, she understands that life is her own, not someone else's, and never compares to others.
Dale Carnegie put it this way: "Choose your favorite lifestyle, follow your own pace, and you will live calmly and authentically."