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On the road of life, you never know, surprises and surprises will come first.
On July 15, bad news came from the Internet celebrity circle, "Spicy Xi Shi" Sun Bold, left this world forever, only 29 years old, causing heated discussions on the Internet.
The best years of youth, what did she go through?
Why did the good deeds leave this world, and the fans felt unworthy of it, and the wording was full of anger and regret?
Onlooker comments:
"Is the nostalgia written by her husband sincere, or the tears of a crocodile"?
"This marriage is redundant"
"Poor woman"
Can't help but sigh, what did Sun Bold go through?
Known as "Spicy Xi Shi", she is famous in Shili and Baxiang with outstanding appearance, and runs a spicy mixed shop.
It is worth mentioning that Sun Bold's few lives, behind the smile, are tears and grievances.
"Warriors" charged for love
Sun Dao, whose real name is Sun Jinghuan, is a very hardworking girl.
Some people call her "bold", others call her "spicy Xi Shi", she has outstanding appearance and lively and cheerful personality.
Short videos are on the rise, and more and more people are entering the ranks, hoping to get a piece of the pie.
Sun Bold is one of them, she seriously studied to shoot videos, gradually accumulated fans, and became a well-known "Internet celebrity" in the county.
On her personal social platform, there is a top video.
tells her experience in her first marriage, the sadness and unspeakable pain of distant marriage, spread out in front of everyone.
As the saying goes, a good childhood heals a lifetime, and a bad childhood needs a lifetime of healing.
Why isn't marriage the same thing? What kind of people you meet, what kind of life you live.
The quality of a man, in a way, determines a woman's happiness index.
After reading Sun's bold narration, my mood could not be calmed for a long time.
I feel sorry for her experience, and I admire her attitude towards life, but unfortunately it is infatuated and wrong after all.
Before Sun Bold, he lived a very happy life.
She is the youngest child in the family, with two older sisters, which can be described as a collection of thousands of pampering.
His parents would be partial, his sister would give way, and Sun boldly spent one of the happiest days.
Later, as she grew older, love came like a day, and marriage events were in front of her.
At the age when her relationship first opened, she met a man who thought she was a "happy man".
The love is sincere, and the love is forgetful.
The persuasion of his parents and the advice of his sister were all left behind by Sun.
It is no exaggeration to say that at that stage, anyone's words were a deaf ear to her.
In 2013, Sun boldly wore a wedding dress and entered the palace of happiness.
She got her wish and married her sweetheart, despite the family's objections.
Not long after marriage, the crystallization of love arrived, and the world of the two became a family of three, Sun boldly looked forward to the happiness of the future, and the whole person was complacent.
She feels that her pillow person is the best man in the world.
As everyone knows, under the filter of love, few people can see the true face of the parties.
During her pregnancy, the true face of this man was exposed, and the sound of arguments accompanied her throughout the pregnancy, and she was heartbroken.
What is right and wrong? Sun Bold didn't care, she couldn't figure out a question from beginning to end.
He himself is a distant marriage, and there is anxiety and anxiety in the marriage, why is the husband so righteous, is it because his mother's family is not around?
Gamble and lose all bets
In addition, Sun Bold's courage is very small, and he always feels that patience will pass when he encounters things.
The husband seems to have grasped the shortcomings, and hurt even more brazenly, as if all this is "deserved"!
Why do you say that? From a rational point of view, marrying far away is a big gamble.
From the moment the woman gave up everything and went to the rest of her life, she was doomed to pay for her actions.
In the eyes of many people, in the face of love, there is not so much "said".
Is that really the case? No, the union of marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also the integration of two families.
Parents' persuasion at certain moments should be taken to heart and carefully considered.
Girls in love, few people can be truly rational.
Maybe the other party's nice words will instantly choose to let go, and then there will be follow-up intensification.
From the man's point of view, is there a clear understanding of "gambling"? It can only be said that it varies from person to person.
After all, in the hearts of most people, the whole process of marriage is to marry a chicken and a dog with a dog, and the woman should follow the man to live.
So what does the word distant marriage mean?
Basically, not too many people think about it, of course, everything cannot be generalized, and most people still cherish the abandonment of the other half.
After all, a girl marrying far away, in addition to having happiness, is more trivial.
It takes tremendous courage to leave a familiar place and head to an unfamiliar city to start over.
There is no social circle, no good friends, except for the husband and in-laws, the feeling of isolation and helplessness, I believe that those who have experienced it should feel the same way.
In addition, whether or not a marriage can be happy depends entirely on the man.
What kind of attitude the husband has towards his wife, the other relatives of the in-laws are basically the same.
Sun Bold and her husband are arguing more and more, what does this say? Is it possible to guess that during this period, the in-laws did not interfere too much, and the contradictions between the little two gradually grew?
Or in other words, the in-laws know what is going on, but they feel that the woman's parents are not around, there is no need to pay attention to it, and it is understandable that the son has absolute initiative.
From beginning to end, this group of people did not think about how embarrassing and helpless Sun Dao's position was.
She not only has to run in with many relatives, but also runs her own small family.
For the man, it is just a "new person" joining.
But for Sun Dao, it is difficult to integrate into a new family.
Later, every time there was a quarrel, Sun's bold husband would apologize and repeatedly promise to love each other.
The result? Her heart softened and she was directly pinched, and the other party became more and more unscrupulous.
Because even if it is wrong, there is no need to pay any "price", and three or two good words will be coaxed back.
As the days passed, Sun Bold gradually lost his temper.
Such forbearance is not exchanged for love and change, but intensification.
For 7 years, she and her husband lived in the greenhouse for 7 years, and everything she had fantasized about was slapped hard by reality.
Bed made of brick and wood, with rat holes under the bed.
Wind and rain all year round, it is such an environment, she has not complained, and firmly believes that the days of "sharing happiness and suffering" will become good memories in the future.
Fate tricked and regretted death
The man's parents are crop men, and although their lives are hard, they admit to dryness.
Sun boldly felt that since he chose her husband, he should accompany him through the most tormenting days of his life.
But sincere dedication is exchanged for "ruthlessness" and "indifference".
Not only does she have to take care of the children alone, but she also has to run the house and work in the greenhouse.
As a bystander, anyone who sees it will praise a man who marries a good daughter-in-law and must love it well.
Sun's bold husband disagreed, and if he didn't agree, he scolded.
It seems that this woman's contribution is what should be done, and there is no gratitude and love in her words and deeds.
Under layers of pressure, Sun boldly endured in order to give his child a complete home.
The man filed for divorce, and even said very indifferently: "Even if it is a divorce, the family's money is burned, and it will not give you a penny."
I can't imagine, for seven years, what is this girl's marriage? What is she in this house? Nanny? Servant? The child's mother?
In the quarrel, the child hid in the corner and cried, she felt sorry for the child, and finally decided that the long pain was not as good as the short pain.
It is not a good thing for children to live in such an environment.
On November 28, 2020, Sun boldly filed for divorce with the court, and at that moment she felt more relaxed than ever.
Facing the future life, she is positive and sunny and opened a spicy mix shop in a small county.
Business is getting better and better, and life is getting more and more promising.
During the process, the man went to the store many times to make trouble, and even went to the Sun family to do it with the woman's parents, with the purpose of robbing the child.
Finally, in 2021, on October 27, the court ruled down, and the two people completely drew a line.
It may be the fatigue of work, or it may be the creation of fate.
Just when Sun boldly decided to manage her future life, in February this year, she was diagnosed with cancer.
Looking at the diagnosis sheet in her hand, she did not dare to look directly at every word on it.
In the camera, Sun boldly held his daughter and cried, because this road was really too difficult.
For the sake of loving her own people, for the sake of her loved ones, she actively cooperated with the treatment, and in just a few months, the whole person lost a lot of weight.
But the disease did not spare this poor woman, and finally Sun boldly left this world.
I don't know how my ex-husband feels when he sees this scene?
A warrior who charged for love, after leaving embarrassed, encountered such a change.
At an age like a flower, he should have been happy with his children and family, but he suffered physical and mental torture.
7 years is one of the few "youths" on her life path, but in exchange for such a result.
I have to say that Sun Bold is really distressing, and at the last moment of her life, she is still strong and brave.
I hope she will go well all the way and will not be so hard and aggrieved in her next life.