#Summer Life Punch Season#Recently, in a restaurant in Ningbo, Zhejiang Province, a 12-year-old girl helped her mother carry a case of beer, but just a few steps away, the bottom of the box suddenly broke, and the beer inside fell out and shattered.
The mother next to her saw it and hurried over, she walked into the floor full of beer foam and glass slag, picked up her daughter, and led her out of the danger zone. The other customers in the store all gathered around and expressed their concern. Another customer quickly moved to the bench where he was sitting, let the girl sit down, and then, together with the girl's mother, carefully checked the child's feet to see if there were any injuries.
The whole process, there are no accusations and lessons, only heart-warming interactions.
After watching this video, netizens said that it was really warm. It's nice to have such an emotionally stable mother. Many netizens said that if it were themselves, they would have been scolded long ago. Or parents scolding and customers persuading.
But some netizens said that this was originally a very normal human reaction, and it actually felt as if it was a precious thing and too magical.
A small thing actually caused heated discussions among netizens. Looking at the messages in the comment area, I suddenly remembered an incident that happened when I was about 10 years old.
That day, my mother fried the eggs, she helped me serve the rice, took a piece of egg and put it on top, and then served it to me. When I was taking the rice bowl, I accidentally slipped my hand and the food fell to the floor.
My mother was so angry that she scolded me while picking up the bowl that had broken in half on the ground, using half of the bowl, loading the unsoiled food on the ground and serving it to me.
It's been decades since I remember it. I felt very ashamed at the time, especially the companion next door, who looked at me with a pair of round eyes, and made me want to get into the cracks in the ground.
Of course, this incident will not affect my love for my mother. You know, in those days, there was a lack of clothing and food, and it was very good to have food, and it was also a luxury to be able to scramble an egg to eat. But, I think, in my young mind, it was still a hurt. The reason why it did not cause special psychological problems is because my parents made me feel very favored in other ways. The beauty of the memory far outweighs this occasional little hurt.
Now is no longer the era of material poverty, but there are still a large number of parents who will blame their children for the first time when they unintentionally damage items, instead of paying attention to their children's current feelings. Why is that?
I think most of these parents still "inherit" the way their parents educate them. So the same reaction was made at the first time. But, in the seventies and eighties, we will understand our parents. Now after 00, they have a high sense of self, and they may not be able to understand their parents. They may feel that their parents care more about things and less about themselves, so they feel hurt more.
Therefore, for children, parents are emotionally stable and can pay attention to their feelings for the first time, how beautiful it is to be able to do so. Such children have a greater sense of security. And a child with a sense of security can use more energy to explore this unknown world and have more connections with this world.