How did celebrities break off relations?
After "Langya List" and "Pretender" became popular, the male protagonist Wang Kai became popular, and overnight, the number of people in the circle of friends increased to more than 1,000, but everyone who could talk about a little relationship asked to add his WeChat.
Wang Kai said that he didn't know how to refuse, but he felt that not adding others was a little too careless, but after adding it, everyone basically did not contact, and not long after, Wang Kai was distressed because of the atmosphere of "circle of friends", and in a fit of anger, deleted all his circle of friends.
"I deleted all the moments of friends, not leaving one, all I have to do is make myself disappear in the circle of friends, and never post a circle of friends again." He told the host.
Subsequently, among the more than 1,000 contacts, more than 900 were in a state of "broken relations", not watching their dynamics, not commenting or liking, not listening to them, although they were not deleted, but they would not contact again, nor would they tear their faces, just lie down and do not care about each other.
Because the circle of friends has become complicated.
Netizens said that the dynamics in the circle of friends are the best side of others, the side they want to show you, and even their own character image, will show you in the best state, and what they don't want you to see is the bitterness behind it.
Therefore, in the WeChat circle of friends, don't envy what you see, don't evaluate and speculate, why say so?
Because you have to know that you are actually not so important in the hearts of others, some people take others too seriously, but also take themselves too seriously, some people take interpersonal relationships too seriously, think that deletion is a punishment, and blocking is a relief, but in fact, you have thought about it, people don't care about your opinion at all.
So, this is the decency between adults, everyone does not tear their faces, if you delete me, I will not feel any sadness, because I will not care about you either.
When Yang Ying married Huang Xiaoming, she met the diva Liu Jialing, so she added Liu Jialing's WeChat, and everyone was starring in the movie "Di Renjie", so Liu Jialing gave face.
However, 3 months later, Liu Jialing "deleted" Yang Ying's WeChat account, and when Yang Ying went to send New Year's wishes to Liu Jialing, she found that the other party deleted herself.
This made Yang Ying very speechless, and she didn't know what she had done wrong? Later, in front of Liu Jialing, why did you delete my contact, Liu Jialing said that she changed her mobile phone, and Shen Teng said that you are taking your own shame.
Because a person wants to break off friendship for you, that is, it comes very thoroughly, will not tell you, let you retain self-esteem and decency, once you pierce this layer of "decency", everyone is embarrassed.
And Liu Jialing said, in fact, some people who do not often contact, I keep it is useless, if Liu Jialing really wants to be friends with Yang Ying, you can also add it back after changing the number, but she does not, so the severance between adults, "mutual decentness" is the final bottom line.
If a person has not been in contact for several years and suddenly gets married and asks you to drink happy wine, you should also refuse, do not shy away, and do not give red envelopes, you say: "I have participated in other people's weddings 8 times, divorced 7 times, for your happiness, I don't attend as well." ”
Finally, send a blessing, as long as you don't go to the wedding this time, the other party will understand that you don't want to come and go, but also retain everyone's decency, do not tear your face, and do not delete each other, so this is an adult's decency.
Not deleting WeChat is to avoid embarrassment next meeting! But a lot of people you probably haven't seen in more than a decade. How many more than ten years can there be in life? It can be said that the fate of meeting in the future may be numbered!
But if you feel uncomfortable, delete it immediately!
Your feelings are the most important, irrelevant others, don't care what they think, because life is yours, it doesn't matter if you delete or not, what you want is to be happy, I want me to think, I don't want you to think, if you can do this, you will be a lot happier.
The adult world is always full of drama, and there is really a shelf life between people, so just get along with like-minded people.
What do you think?