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In this issue, I share a classic love movie "Love Notebook" with book friends.
The film tells the story of a pair of green plum bamboo horses reunited after world war II.
Now with the book jun, let go of the fatigue of the week, enjoy a good movie on the weekend, and give this week a perfect ending
It's a love story, super sweet.
The handsome and poor woodworker Noah, and the 17-year-old beautiful and cheerful rich lady Ellie, fell in love.
Noah loved fiercely, Ellie loved passionately, and the two young men began to miss each other for a second.
In the passionate love, even the quarrels have the taste of honey, and the eyes in the heart are stuffed with the beauty of the other party.
It's also a marriage story, touching to the heart.
Ellie suffers from Alzheimer's disease and forgets everyone, and Noah takes the "Notes of Love" and tells her the story of "Young Noah and Ellie" every day.
Incredibly, at last, Ellie remembered Noah, and the two went to heaven embracing each other.
Ellie: "Do you think our love can take us with you?" ”
Noah: "I think our love can make us omnipotent." ”
This love comes from the Douban 8.5 high-scoring movie -
"Love Notebook"
Admittedly, in an impetuous society, feelings will encounter all kinds of temptations.
May the love of the people with one heart and the white head that is inseparable seems to be getting farther and farther away from us.
But this tear-jerking movie tells us:
True love is never settled, and being loved wholeheartedly is happiness.
In true love, we are all free to be ourselves, and our feelings will always stand the test.
01 True love never settles
I once saw such a sentence:
"If that person ever appeared in the world, everyone else would become a general."
Noah and Ellie did the same.
They were forced apart for seven years because of Ellie's parents.
After that, they all had another seemingly suitable person.
Ellie meets her fiancé who is rich and loves her, but she always sees Noah's shadow in her fiancé;
Noah also has people who warm each other, but his heart is empty, and he admits that he has no spare strength to give love.
True love is loved by you, and you can no longer fall in love with other people.
Because, except for you, everyone else is going to be.
A lot of people, get into marriage, not because of love, but because of age.
Women, in particular, are single after 30 years and are looked at differently.
A 32-year-old friend of mine was always forced to marry by relatives and friends, and later his parents forced him to choose a marriage partner.
She was embarrassed: "Do you think this marriage can be married?" ”
In fact, she knew the answer herself.
When you meet a good person, you are naturally full of joy, so why hesitate?
Many people feel that whoever marries is married, but it is just a partnership to live a life.
It is not, the consummation of life is never as simple as getting married and having children.
To be with someone who loves you and to have a child like you and like me is the joy of life.
The marriage that will be completed is like a pool of stagnant water, which cannot stir up any ripples.
Just like Ellie's mother, she also loved wildly, and later chose a marriage that would be completed according to the family arrangement.
Life is good, life is smooth. Only without enthusiasm, she forgot love and had no happiness.
Just a tight wife and mother, living the life that everyone thinks should have.
Even Ellie questioned, "You don't understand love at all." ”
Love always makes people extremely happy, but marriage is a difficult practice.
In a place of chicken feathers, the people who accompany the rest of their lives are will be ready, have children, work and life, how can they be exquisite?
Jon Chan said:
"40 years old, I don't hate to marry, I'm happy, for the rest of my life, I don't want to settle down."
In secular standards, we will always have a lot of generals.
However, those who choose not to settle down have the courage to work together in the life of chicken flying and dog jumping.
Just like Noah Ellie, there are only feelings that should be married, there is no age and requirements for marriage.
As Noah asked Ellie:
"You don't care what other people think, you ask yourself, what do you really need, what do you want?"
In the end, they chose to go along with their hearts and be happy together.
The so-called true love must not be done.
Life is really hard, but because of you, even if life is sour, it can make a cup of sweet lemon juice.
02 True love is up to you
Gao Xiaosong said:
"The best love is when two free souls fall in love with each other."
This kind of love will make us feel comfortable being ourselves.
Ellie's future, arranged properly by her parents, became an elegant lady of high society, married to a rich man of comparable talent, but never asked her: "What do you want?" ”
Ellie loves to draw, and she looks forward to a studio where she and Noah's future house can see the river.
However, Ellie, who left Noah, never painted again.
It is not until she returns to Noah that Ellie comes to life completely, and she will laugh wildly and speak her mind happily;
In the studio that Noah had prepared for her, she even found inspiration for painting in an instant.
In love, it is very happy to meet someone who makes us free to be ourselves.
The diving queen Guo Jingjing married into the Huo family and was envied by many people.
But few people know that her mother-in-law, Zhu Lingling, took the initiative to leave the rich family that others squeezed their heads and wanted to marry.
There are many good things in the big compound, but it is not easy to have freedom.
Zhu Lingling likes sports and photography, but how can Mrs. Huo go out at will and not pay attention to the image?
Even if you wear jewelry at a cocktail party, you need to arrange and sign an IOU from the butler.
For the sake of freedom, she chose to leave.
What is enviable is that she married a rich man for the second time and found the freedom to be her true love.
The couple often held hands to visit the cheap supermarket, behaved intimately, and Zhu Lingling's face had a girlish bright smile.
Remarried at the age of 50, the most she said was happy:
"I made myself back, we were very compatible, we were accommodating to each other, and my husband was very encouraging and supportive of me to continue photography and do charity work."
Many times, we always think that the love of the door is easy to be happy. You don't have to bother to understand my world, and I don't have to bother to integrate into your life.
However, good love will make people see each other's souls.
Through the worldly standards, across the responsibility and obligation, you and I can be the most true and free self in front of each other without scruples.
I don't need to restrain myself in order to maintain a good image; you don't need to deliberately suppress yourself in order to worry about the other person's emotions.
As Noah said to Ellie:
"We always quarrel, but I'm not afraid it will hurt your feelings, and in less than two seconds we'll be reconciled, and then we'll argue again."
Life is not easy, and we have to face it every day, but I do, I want you. ”
You can be yourself unscrupulously in front of me, happy excellent, embarrassingly boring, that's all you.
I can be myself in front of you, positive, low-key helpless, that's all me.
The so-called true love is the freedom to be yourself.
Life is full of chickens and dogs, marriage is a chicken feather, but fortunately, in front of you, I never need to hide.
03 True love, stand the test
At the end of the film, Ellie remembers Noah.
They said "I love you," slept in each other's arms, clasped each other's hands, and went to heaven together.
Love, omnipotent, fulfilled their desire to leave together.
Many people will think that such sensational love probably only exists in the movie.
So, I want to tell you the story of my grandparents.
Grandma married her grandfather at the age of 20 and has been in the same boat for more than fifty years.
I knew from a very young age that every morning, my grandfather would squeeze toothpaste for my grandmother and pour warm water to wash her face.
The neighbor old lady was always envious:
"I've never seen such an old and loving couple as you, wherever they go, holding hands."
They had held hands since they had held hands and had not let go in their entire lives.
When Grandpa was 70 years old, he had Alzheimer's disease, and like Ellie, no one knew anyone.
The elderly grandmother always took care of her grandfather herself, despite opposition.
As unbelievable as the movie is, Grandpa miraculously recovers his memory when Grandma is in danger.
That time, Grandma fell unexpectedly, and there was no one in the house.
In a critical moment, Grandpa suddenly regained his memory and said that he was going to see a doctor.
Grandma worries:
"I'm afraid you don't know the way."
Grandpa was anxious, and he clearly called out his grandmother's name:
"You let me go, I'm going to save you."
That day, it was still raining, and my grandfather, who had been demented for more than two years, was so deep and one foot shallow, coming out of the chaotic memory;
Go to the clinic ten minutes away from home, find the doctor he once knew, and shout, "Quick, save my wife." ”
Later, my grandmother was rescued, but my grandfather lost his memory again and did not know three questions.
Everyone was amazed that we could not explain Grandpa's sudden awakening in science.
But whenever I think about it, I burst into tears.
Some memories disappear over time and are ruthlessly consumed by disease.
But some love will cross time, surpass science, and be imprinted in the heart.
Even if you forget the past, you still remember to love you.
When we were young, we always thought of love:
Only by paining the heart can we understand the wind, flowers, and snow; only when the liver and intestines are broken, can we feel the oath of the mountains and the sea.
As I get older, I understand that good love never hurts.
There is a kind of true love, which begins in youth and is inseparable from the bald mandarin duck.
Noah said to Ellie:
"I'm an ordinary person, but the best thing I can do is love you with all my heart."
This love is to hold hands for a lifetime, and the white heads are inseparable.
May you, in this movie, cry, warm, and always believe in love.
Meet the person who holds hands and no longer lets go, and wholeheartedly accompanies you to old age.