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Wen 丨 Qizhihui
Editor丨Wisdom of Wonder
Wu Yongwei, who won the "Best Miss Photogenic" in the "Miss Asia" beauty pageant, could have walked on the bright road with her hard work, but her private life was criticized, and she became a widow just 13 days after marriage at the age of 21.
Before she fully came out of the pain of losing her husband, she was brutally abused by her in-laws, they thought that Wu Yongwei was a "daughter of Kefu", and in her grief, Wu Yongwei chose to beat herself up and make 30 boyfriends in a short period of time, and her misfortune was far more than that.
Finally, Wu Yongwei plucked up the courage to choose to remarry, but after marriage, her husband kept breaking "peach news", but Wu Yongwei did not care about her husband's "waves".
What made Ng Yongwei's first marriage last only 13 days? Why would she turn a blind eye to the "betrayal" of her second husband?
Unhappy marriage
Wu Yongwei met her future husband Weng Jiangpei when she was 19 years old, and the pure and cute image immediately fascinated Weng Jiangpei, but Weng Jiangpei's family has a big business, so he is extra cautious in choosing his spouse.
After two years of investigation, Wu Yongwei and Weng Jiangpei finally entered the palace of marriage, in order to serve her husband well, Wu Yongwei gave up her career and devoted herself to being a full-time wife at home, which also made Weng Jiangpei very gratified.
In order to thank his wife's decision, Weng Jiangpei arranged the wedding extremely luxurious, and the nine-layer cake was the most eye-catching, it is said that the meaning of this cake is long, but it backfired, and tragedy happened to them soon after marriage.
On the thirteenth day after marriage, Weng Jiangpei suddenly fell ill, and even though he was discovered in time, he died on the operating table, and overnight, 21-year-old Wu Yongwei became a widow.
Wu Yongwei still couldn't care about being sad, and the people of her in-laws' family scolded her with a split head and face, they thought that Weng Jiangpei's death was all caused by Wu Yongwei, and also labeled her as "Kefu".
However, this scolding actually aroused the hatred in Wu Yongwei's heart, as Weng Jiangpei's wife, Wu Yongwei decided to fight with her in-laws for family property, because Weng Jiangpei left an inheritance of hundreds of millions of yuan after his death, but because of the suddenness of the incident, Weng Jiangpei did not leave his last words.
But the Po family naturally did not want to let Wu Yongwei get this inheritance, so the two sides launched a ten-year lawsuit, but in the end, Wu Yongwei only got more than 9 million, which made it even more difficult for her to accept.
It was she who lost her husband, it was she who was behind the pot, and in the end she had not snatched the inheritance she deserved, for a while, Wu Yongwei felt that the world was very dark, and she began to hate her husband's departure, and recalled the bits and pieces of their past.
Young in love
In 1988, Wu Yongwei was fortunate enough to attend a party that changed her life, where she met her future husband, Weng Jiangpei.
At first, Wu Yongwei did not hope to be with Weng Jiangpei, because the two were not in the right household, the other party's family background was very superior, and there was a good career.
What makes Wu Yongwei care the most is that Weng Jiangpei is a full 30 years older than herself, and has had several marriages, and Wu Yongwei is just a young girl who has just become an adult, and it can be said that they stand together and are said to be father and daughter.
But Weng Jiangpei fell deeply in love with Wu Yongwei at the first sight of her, but she was also afraid that if she was with Wu Yongwei, the other party would only covet her own money, so Weng Jiangpei did not dare to easily talk to Wu Yongwei about marriage, but just launched the pursuit of love.
Because Wu Yongwei has not seen anything in the world, and her family is also very poor, she is always careful in doing things, and her heart is very simple, which also gives Weng Jiangpei an opportunity, whether it is in the workplace or in the love field, Weng Jiangpei will hold Wu Yongwei and soon chase Wu Yongwei into his hand.
Because Wu Yongwei has developed the good habit of being diligent and thrifty since she was a child, even with the rich did not change this, which made Weng Jiangpei like Wu Yongwei even more, after all, the other half he wanted was not to seek money, so he began to help Wu Yongwei in his career.
In order to allow Wu Yongwei to have a wider network, Weng Jiangpei will bring his little girlfriend with him every time he attends a large-scale event, but other business tycoons fancy Weng Jiangpei, not Wu Yongwei, so this method did not let Wu Yongwei grow.
So Weng Jiangpei began to find another way, it was at this time, the "Miss Asia" event began to register, and all kinds of beautiful women were active in it, so Weng Jiangpei came up with a new plan.
Without Wu Yongwei's consent, Weng Jiangpei signed up for the "beauty contest" for her, Weng Jiangpei's first purpose is to hope that Wu Yongwei can use this event to increase some fame, and the second purpose is to see if Wu Yongwei will get carried away after becoming famous.
Wu Yongwei was a little helpless after learning that Weng Jiangpei had signed herself up for the "beauty pageant", because she did not want to participate in such a high-profile competition, but she also did not want to embarrass the people she loved, so she forced herself to participate in the competition.
However, Wu Yongwei did not participate in the competition wholeheartedly, she deliberately made mistakes in the competition so that she could not be noticed, but who knew that even if she did not win the honor, she was accidentally named "Best Miss Photogenic".
This happened to make Weng Jiangpei very happy, because in his eyes, this honor is that the judges are very sure of Wu Yongwei's appearance.
So Wu Yongwei accidentally stepped into the entertainment industry, and with her excellent looks, she successfully won starring opportunities such as "Driver Boss" and "Look at the Present Dynasty", which also made her famous and became the focus of the character and will naturally be followed by various paparazzi.
This directly led to the romance between Wu Yongwei and Weng Jiangpei being made public, but this had no effect on Wu Yongwei, she had long been indifferent to fame and fortune and did not care about these, so she did not care about the aura brought by the entertainment industry.
This makes Weng Jiangpei even more happy, because in his eyes, the entertainment industry is mixed, and it is not easy to enter the entertainment industry and come out cleanly, which also makes Weng Jiangpei decide to marry Wu Yongwei in this life.
So the two entered the palace of marriage under the attention of everyone, but the tragedy and the abuse of the in-laws made this cheerful girl slumped, and even had suicidal thoughts.
Swing life
If you are not even afraid of death, then there is nothing to be afraid of, after waking up, Wu Yongwei began to indulge herself and live a dashing life, it is said that Wu Yongwei dated 30 boyfriends in a short period of time, although this matter has not been officially confirmed, but it is still quite explosive news in the ears of netizens.
Not only that, but among her 30 boyfriends, one is a friend she has played with since childhood, and the other party is a husband with a wife.
However, Wu Yongwei and the husband with a wife lived together for four years, and the other party did not choose to divorce the original partner, and Wu Yongwei, who had never received a title, realized that after being a junior for four years, she decisively chose to break up with the other party, but more incomprehensible things are still to come.
Wu Yongwei felt that what she did was very sorry for her lover's original match, so after breaking up, she actually came to the door to apologize to the other party, thinking that the two would fight, but there was a peaceful scene.
It turned out that the other party had long known that her husband had a lover outside, but in order to live a good life, it was not exposed, and now Wu Yongwei took the initiative to break up, which made her very happy, and the unexpected two also became girlfriends, and also helped Wu Yongwei introduce objects.
This kind of operation made everyone not understand for a while, but after all, it was someone else's business, and after sighing, he returned to his own life, but Wu Yongwei's story is not over.
After the introduction of a good girlfriend, Wu Yongwei met Chen Haitang, and the two saw each other as before, as if there were endless words, and after knowing each other for two months, they made a private lifelong agreement and smoothly entered the palace of marriage.
Life after marriage
Wu Yongwei lived very safely after marrying Chen Haitang, making the media feel that this time she finally found true love and could live happily, but there are still unknown secrets hidden behind this happy marriage.
In 2010, a "paparazzi" photographed Chen Haitang and other beautiful girls holding hands to have dinner at a high-end restaurant, and then entered the hotel together.
Such a move made netizens think that Chen Haitang must have betrayed Wu Yongwei, so the relationship between the two became an unsolved mystery, I thought that the two would divorce because of this, but a long time passed, and the two were still in love, which made netizens puzzled for a while.
Even doubted the authenticity of the photos exposed by those "paparazzi", because in the seriousness of normal people, a person will never tolerate his other half carrying him behind his back to find fun outside, but Wu Yongwei ignored what Chen Haitang did, thinking that this matter would pass like this, but Chen Haitang once again appeared on the hot search.
In 2016, Chen Haitang was photographed with a hot woman, and after separating again, the two also played "kiss goodbye", this time the fact of "splitting legs" is overwhelming, and everyone is waiting for Wu Yongwei's attitude.
I thought that Wu Yongwei would have a big fight with Chen Haitang, but Wu Yongwei's approach once again shocked the three views of netizens.
Under the reporter's interview, Wu Yongwei frankly apologized, she said that in the face of her husband's cheating, she must have not taken care of the other party, which made him go outside to have fun.
Such a move not only stunned netizens, but also scared Chen Haitang, once thought that Wu Yongwei had other plans behind her back, but then her life was as calm as ever, but Wu Yongwei was better for herself, and in the face of her husband's puzzlement, Wu Yongwei also gave an answer.
It turned out that Wu Yongwei thought that she had a bad relationship, and the life of having 30 boyfriends was very different from Chen Haitang's life now, so she didn't care about her husband's behavior of looking for fun outside.
Such an explanation also made Chen Haitang breathe a sigh of relief, the little two lived a stable and happy life in the doubts that everyone was puzzled by, and no one could believe that such a "generous" and "wavering" woman was once also a good child who was diligent and thrifty and filial to her parents.
Tragic childhood
Born in Hong Kong in 1969, although Ng Wing-wai was born in a big city, her family did not live well, and even her parents often worked several jobs to support the family.
Although this kind of life made Wu Yongwei very sensible, it also made her form an inferiority complex, which led to becoming the target of bullying by some "school bullies" when she was in school, but in order not to make her parents sad, she swallowed all her grievances in her stomach.
But this has increased the arrogance of those "school bullies", in order not to be bullied, Wu Yongwei had a wrong idea: "If you can't beat it, you will join." ”
So Wu Yongwei began to grow short hair and dress herself as a "tomboy", and she also began to try to bully other thin classmates, and those "school bullies" saw that Wu Yongwei's personality slowly became outgoing, and no longer went to her trouble.
But this kind of life has turned Wu Yongwei into a "bad boy", often called parents because of fights, her parents are already under great pressure, and now Wu Yongwei's ignorance has made her father, who has always been strong, also fall ill.
Unfortunately, Wu Yongwei's father did not overcome the disease and left the family forever, such a blow made Wu Yongwei suddenly wake up, in order to help her mother support the family together, Wu Yongwei also began to work odd jobs.
That is, when she was working, Wu Yongwei met Weng Jiangpei, and netizens deeply regretted what happened to her later, Wu Yongwei was originally a kind and hardworking child, but because of her tragic experience and wrong handling, she changed her life.
epilogue
It can be said that Wu Yongwei has lived a more wonderful life than most people, and now she has put away her ambitions and lives the next life with Chen Haitang safely, but if Wu Yongwei can make the right choice in the face of problems, she must have a better life now.
When we face difficulties and dangers, we must think twice and make the right choice, otherwise we will take the wrong step, which is the last thing everyone wants.