What is it like to marry a TCM husband?
On July 10 (interview time), Changchun, Jilin, the woman wanted to surprise her husband after learning that she was pregnant, and pretended to be unwell to let her husband take her pulse. Netizen: So happy!
Some netizens shared their true feelings about marrying a Chinese medicine husband.
1. Personal doctor.
There is a headache and brain fever can not hide his eyes, will give me professional advice in time. It is said that it is difficult to see a doctor now, one is the cost problem, and the other is that there is no professional technical guidance around them. I don't know how to see and what to see. These things, which take a lot of time and even detours in ordinary people's homes, do not exist in my family. If you have any questions, just ask him directly, even if it is not within his professional scope, there are many colleagues and classmates to help.
2. Hospital connections.
Last year, my family member was suspected of having a tumor. In our city, if you can't find a suitable relationship, you have to queue for a long time. And the inpatient beds were particularly tight, and after his advice, they chose to have a few but better skilled hospitals for the first examination. The report is then brought to the big hospital, which greatly reduces the time of treatment.
3. Good income.
His income is much higher than mine, and the welfare benefits of the hospital are quite good. It can ensure that family life is worry-free.
The bad side -
1. I am often home alone.
Because of the nature of his work, he often has to be on duty in the hospital and cannot come back to sleep at night, so it is a luxury to want them to accompany us more. Marrying a doctor has to learn to face many things alone.
2. The child's education is absent.
Although my husband is a more family-oriented person, he is very busy with work after all. Most of these things such as accompanying children to class and tutoring homework are borne by me, and you must be mentally prepared to marry a doctor, but after the birth of the child, these problems are something I have not considered, by the way.
3. Still worried about his body.
That's right, it is said that doctors cannot treat themselves, this is the truth, because the work pressure is relatively large, I still have to worry about his body. After the doctor's operation, people are also tired, their spirits are always tense, and sometimes they don't care about eating a good meal.
In short, there are no two sides to everything, since you choose a doctor to love someone, you must have the courage to take on more family work, make yourself stronger, and let him feel at ease to contribute to society at work.
So, would you be willing to marry a TCM?