#夏日生活打卡季#
【Kuyoshi Reading Notes】
♥ In fact, 90% of housework is maintenance management
♥ Housework = useful = fun
♥ Briefly summarize and summarize what disengagement is.
● Break - cut off the way of bulky items.
● Giving away – discarding unwanted items.
● Detachment - In repeated disconnection and renunciation, get rid of the obsession with things.
♥ The object itself comes with "three rooms" - hand, time, space
♥ To make housework easy and fun, the first step is to throw things. The so-called "storage" is only "moving" things, and does not actually reduce or reduce the energy, time and space required to maintain and manage things.
♥ "Storage" can't clean up a home
♥ The first misunderstanding of housework is not anything else, but "storage". Many people will feel that things are a messy room, as soon as they are put away, it immediately becomes much neater. Many people usually use storage boxes and storage boxes to arrange the messy bits and pieces into categories. But, I dare say, storage didn't solve the problem
♥ "Forgetting" and "obsessive things" are rejected by the heart. Items that are "needed, suitable, and enjoyable" are what the heart expects. The former makes our hearts decay and wither, while the latter fills our hearts with abundance. The latter allows people to establish a comfortable and pleasant relationship with objects.
♥ The so-called storage, it seems that after cleaning up, you can sit and ignore it. In a sense, storage is a catalyst for forgetting. More and more storage boxes are needed, more and more space is occupied, and the home is becoming more and more cramped and crowded.
♥ It's easy to buy things, it's hard to maintain. If you do not pay attention to management and maintenance, it is easy to become a hotbed of dust
♥ The simplest thing is that there are no things in the home that need to be labeled, managed and maintained
♥ What we need to do before rectification and storage is:
● Reduce debris.
● Streamline clutter.
●Selected sundries.
♥ Hassle-free, simple, enjoyable, fun.
♥ Focusing on housework requires concentrating large or entire chunks of housework. But we first have to realize that we don't have whole or large chunks of time. The iron rule of housework is "decentralizing housework". Do a little bit every time, do a little bit every time, and it will be done smoothly every time. However, this also has a prerequisite, when there are too many things, they cannot be reluctantly "scattered", and "scattered" will become a large amount.
♥ People have three major needs - appetite, sleep desire, excretion desire (including sexual desire), these three needs are closely related to survival needs. Of course, in addition to this, there are social needs as human beings.
♥ Bookkeeping for the sake of bookkeeping is worthless
♥ Housework is nothing more than cooking, tidying, cleaning, and shabu-washing. I don't know when housework began to be limited and regulated by some boxes—seriously, hard, and delicately. But the expectation of housework contained in these words is mandatory and reluctant. In other words, unrealizable fantasies.
The so-called "serious, hard, and delicate", how much time is not enough, even if there is enough time, the housework will never be done.
But how can chores that are intriguous be sloppy, perfunctory, and casual? Just thinking about doing housework is enough to be big. But once you do, you can't help but regret and chagrin. To do housework seriously, hard, and delicately, our bodies will be very hard. Once we are sloppy, perfunctory, and casual in doing housework, our hearts will be sad. No matter how you think or choose, housework is always a burden, even a futile effort.
However, housework is also full of rewards or praise. With beautiful cute cutlery and a mouthful of fragrant meals, there is simply no greater joy. The freshly cleaned home, clean and refreshing, wrapped in a refreshing sun-scented sheet and entered a sweet sleep.
Sweet.
Clean.
Relaxed.
This is the reward that awaits us after housework. It is also a gift from housework.
Therefore, housework must be full of pleasure and surprise
【Book Title】Family affairs are abandoned
【Author】 [Japan] Eiko Yamashita
【Publisher】Hunan Literature and Art Publishing House Published in 2019
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