Wood show in the forest, the wind will destroy, this is the experience left by the ancestors to do things low-key, in the work, excellent does not necessarily bring more opportunities, sometimes, achievements and slander will accompany each other, how to adjust the mentality is the topic that every excellent person needs to face. Today's protagonist is Kan Lijun, a famous host of CCTV.
Speaking of Kan Lijun, she is the "old man" of CCTV, she not only hosted three CCTV Spring Festival Galas in 1989, 1990 and 1991, when the Spring Festival Gala was in its infancy, it was through Kan Lijun that this hosting mode and hosting method was determined, affecting the next generation of hosts. However, as the so-called people's hearts are unpredictable, behind these glorious achievements and all the attention, Kan Lijun is under unimaginable pressure and pain from ordinary people, not only being ostracized by red-eyed colleagues and leaders, but also being arbitrarily criticized by others about her marriage choice.
Kan Lijun was born in a happy family, Kan Lijun's father is the first generation of pilots in the mainland, her mother is a staff member of the tax bureau, the husband and wife have a very high level of education, Kan Lijun has been exposed to it since childhood, and she has become a generous girl. Family education and parental edification have a great impact on a person's personality, Kan Lijun has been in good conditions since childhood, which gives her the confidence to be spoiled in the future, as Kan Lijun's talent is gradually revealed, she was exposed to the stage performance at the age of 18 in the Beijing Engineering Corps, Kan Lijun looks dignified, elegant temperament, and more valuable is that she has the talent for hosting.
Soon after, she started as a newsrunner, and at the Mid-Autumn Festival in 1980, Kan Lijun, as a newsrunner, emerged at the first Rising Star Music Gala, she did not follow the regular newspaper screen, but used some playful and lively language to interact with the audience, from which different programs were connected, this "from the top to the bottom" model is very familiar to today's audience, but it can be called refreshing at the time.
This innovative way of reporting the curtain made Kan Lijun quickly become the first sister of the host, and some people honored Kan Lijun as "China's first host", but Kan Lijun's excellence made some colleagues dissatisfied, they were full of jealousy of Kan Lijun's unique hosting ability, they could not see Kan Lijun's efforts and research, but thought that Kan Lijun was too lucky.
Not only colleagues ostracized her, but even the leaders were hostile to Kan Lijun, and when some large-scale performances invited Kan Lijun to host, Kan Lijun's leaders were worried that Kan Lijun's influence would threaten his status, and only arranged some small activities for Kan Lijun for her to participate. But Kan Lijun does not disdain to compete with these people for fame and fortune, she takes every job seriously, and constantly refines her hosting skills according to her own plans and considerations.
Finally, Kan Lijun ushered in a bigger stage, Kan Lijun was discovered by CCTV, CCTV invited Kan Lijun to host the Spring Festival Gala, on this national stage, Kan Lijun for three years in a row Spring Festival Gala, became a well-known famous host in one fell swoop. In 2004, Kan Lijun entered CCTV, this time Kan Lijun is not only a host, but also a producer, chief planner, from front of the stage to behind the scenes, Kan Lijun's excellence in exchange for more opportunities and challenges, she continues to climb up on the road of life, harvesting joy and achievements. However, such an excellent Kan Lijun will still be talked about, in the early years, her ability and charm in hosting was hated by some young people, and now she uses unshakable results to make those who think Kan Lijun just "lucky" have nothing to say.
However, meanness is the pass of the mean, and those who are jealous of Kan Lijun began to slander her love life again. Pointing fingers at other people's private lives is a very unseemly thing, such as guessing that Kan Lijun's vision is too high, and now she must be miserable alone, such as speculating that Kan Lijun must be in love with someone, so she has never married like a jade. These speculations contain a malice, that is, Kan Lijun must have a bad place to live, so that some people can put away their jealousy that they have nowhere to release.
Today's Kan Lijun, work for her, is a way to create value, this freedom allows her not to wear her mind and mind for some trivial things, so if women want to jump out of the trap of social stereotypes, they must have a skill, only independence can be exchanged for greater freedom.