Considerate talk|Britney was slapped chasing stars, and I stood in Venbanyama for this matter

Britney, the former American sweetheart "Britney", met this year's NBA top pick, a basketball talent who was pinned on high hopes by the Spurs, and Wen Banyama in a trip.

And then he was slapped solidly ...

What's really going on?

It turned out that according to Britney's narrative, she herself was a fan of Wenbanyama, so she rushed up very excitedly and patted Wenbanyama on the shoulder, but she didn't expect to be slapped by the bodyguard of the other party's protector, given that the other party has not publicly apologized, so she is now very angry.

However, there was a discrepancy in the account of Venbanyama, who said that he had been caught from behind, so the bodyguard quickly pushed the person away and urged him to leave the scene quickly, and it was not until a few hours later that Venbanyama realized that the person who had caught him was Britney.

Under the insistence of both sides, the truth of the matter has become confusing. It's just that the past divas and future superstars will obviously not lack crazy fans. From mutual accusations, all the way to fierce online wars, and even to each other's social media circles, it happened naturally, and it didn't even take much time to ferment. And such a big melon from the sky also made the media like a shark smelling blood, so excited that it couldn't help itself, and quickly pushed the wave to set off a wave of traffic frenzy.

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The first thing to be clear is that Venbanyama and his bodyguards must apologize for their actions, and there is no problem.

After all, Kong Wu's powerful bodyguard is suspected of using violence against a weak woman, no matter what justification he has, and no matter who the woman's identity is, he will suffer in the first place in the perception of the masses.

Moreover, the use of violence caused the other party to be hurt, and it turned out to be a misunderstanding afterwards, then apologizing is also a very appropriate way of behavior, which can make both parties have a step down, and can show that the parties are sincere, and it is also convenient for the team to carry out follow-up public relations.

But Britney has always claimed that she has not received any apology, which undoubtedly made the Wembanyama team lose its head start in the public opinion war. Not only that, but Vembanyama also laughed openly during the interview.

That's not quite the case.

Perhaps in the eyes of the French, who can humor everything, this embarrassment and laughter are over, but in Britney's side, it is mostly a great offense that does not reflect on and gloat after making a mistake. What's more, Britney, as a popular diva, is rare to encounter hot events that can eat traffic so ruthlessly, regardless of her own wishes, most of her team is unwilling to stop here, so she makes things bigger and bigger.

As a newcomer, Wen Banyama couldn't understand the twists and turns for a while, but the Spurs management has been around for many years, and it is really not appropriate to let public opinion ferment into this way. In any case, for him, it was more or less the first lesson of "Welcome to America."

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Secondly, whether the Wen Banyama side apologizes or not, their fault in this oolong incident is not very serious.

Let's start with the bodyguard of Vemban Yama. For him, the greatest responsibility is, of course, to protect the safety of his clients. From his point of view, a woman with sunglasses followed Wen Banyama all the way, and when she came to the noisy and complex environment of the restaurant, she suddenly rushed up and had unnecessary physical contact with Wen Banyama...

At this time, if you are this bodyguard, what should I do? Of course, he decisively stopped it! You know, the bodyguard is more nervous and overreacting, at most he just hits the wrong person, but if Britney is replaced by a murderer with a weapon in his hand, the consequences are unimaginable.

Although Britney didn't agree with this, she said this - "I was once besieged by 20 crazy fans, but I didn't let my bodyguards beat anyone!" "Sounds plausible, but... The rules of survival in the entertainment industry and the sports industry are originally different, entertainment stars still need to operate fan relationships, but the biggest capital that sports stars can rely on is their own bodies.

Who is Vemban Yama?

It was a peerless wizard that the Spurs had only been in exchange for a year, and the Spurs even begged the elder Duncan to come out and be his personal trainer. Such a baby, Spurs management is of course nervous about his physical health. And the accompanying bodyguard of the Japanese Banyama happened to be the director of the Spurs security center.

After knowing this information, does it seem understandable that the bodyguard brother decisively took action to subdue Britney? Perhaps his behavior was a bit drastic, but it was not only to protect Venbanyama's health, but also to ensure that he could focus on his sports training and competition.

To protect the Vembanyama is to protect the property of the spurs!

And what is the fault of Venbanyama? Didn't recognize Britney for the first time?

As a post-00s who grew up in a French-speaking environment, Britney, who wants to recognize Britney with no face and sunglasses at a glance, is too difficult, let alone in the noisy environment of a restaurant. Of course, he can only see Britney as an ordinary and somewhat fanatical star-chasing woman, so he strictly follows the instructions of the Spurs security team - "You don't care about anything when you encounter this kind of thing, hurry up and let us deal with it." ”

In fact, at different times in the same restaurant, Venbanyama was very gentle and almost responsive to other female fans who asked for their normal autograph group photos.

Different attitudes, in exchange for different results.

If Britney generously says "I'm Britney Spears, I want a group photo and autograph", could it be that the other party will refuse her? Come up and pat on the shoulder (or even other possible rash physical contact) without saying a word, and the bodyguard, of course, will be frightened.

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Therefore, the final conclusion is actually obvious, this oolong incident, Britney's own fault is greater.

Let's first think about this question -

Can celebrities chase stars be as crazy as ordinary people?

Obviously, of course not, and very not!

Some time ago, the Argentine team visited China, including Liu Xijun, Yuan Hong, and a number of big-name stars chased stars in a low-key manner, either posting photos of themselves in the stands, or showing off that they got Messi's autograph, and like Awakening, who contacted Messi through normal channels for a group photo, everyone was happy - this is normal and rational star chasing, and fans are mostly smiling and giving silent blessings.

Instead, a young fan rushed into the stadium to hug Messi because he flipped off the stands without authorization, and finally mentioned administrative detention.

It can be seen that whether in China or abroad, whether it is the entertainment industry or the sports industry, any irrational fanatical star-chasing behavior is not desirable.

Although Britney has been outdated, she was once a popular diva with the symbolic power of the times, and her words and deeds will naturally attract the attention of the media and public opinion. Especially in today's social media era, the phenomenon of rice circles is rampant, and anything, no matter how small, as long as it is amplified by the Internet, can become a storm of crushing bones.

Britney Spears herself has been the victim of this storm of public opinion.

Friends who are familiar with the American entertainment industry should know how Britney's native family sacrificed her to the entertainment industry as a commodity in an all-round way, and she has also collapsed many times because of this suffocating environment without any privacy.

If nothing else, in January this year, Britney suddenly hid her social media account, and some fans were worried about her, so she quickly called the police and asked the police to check her safety. But what did Britney Spears think about this at the time? She said: "I love my fans, but this time things went too far and my privacy was violated. ”

You see, she also knows to respect personal space and privacy, and should have been more empathetic to such an experience!

But now, in other words, she has become a fan, but she has taken the initiative to cross the balance and boundaries in the process of chasing stars, which will undoubtedly set a good example for her own fans.

I hope that everyone can rationally treat celebrities and star-chasing culture through this matter, and understand and respect the personal space and privacy of others...