How can you solve your physiological needs without getting married? Yu Feihong: I have a regular partner, and Dou Wentao has accompanied me for 20 years

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preface

In the big dye tank of the entertainment industry, the marriage and family of many actors are erratic.

After seeing the separation and union of many actors and couples, some middle-aged women with financial independence have long looked down on the marriage relationship.

Like the ageless goddess "Yu Feihong", she combines beauty and talent, but has not been married for many years and has always remained single.

This makes many netizens wonder, what did Yu Feihong experience? What caused her to make such a choice?

Some hosts even boldly asked: You have never been married, how to solve the physiological needs of single women?

Yu Feihong did not panic, but calmly said:

So if you have a regular partner, why not choose to get married?

In what way has her regular partner been by her side?

The acting path that is not favored by parents

Yu Feihong was born in the 70s of the last century, and her parents were both highly educated cultural people.

Whether it is daily living habits or schoolwork, his parents are very strict with him and must abide by the rules.

Therefore, she has been a good girl since she was a child, and she has never gone against the wishes of her parents, and she is used to doing this.

Once, she was walking down the street with her mother, was discovered by a scout, and went up to talk to her, asking if she wanted to make a movie with herself.

His mother saw that something was wrong, thought it was a human trafficker, pulled Yu Feihong and walked away.

Later, the scout inquired and found their home.

She formally introduced her profession to her parents, did some ideological work for Yu Feihong's parents, and showed them the script.

Only then did he reluctantly agree to let 8-year-old Xiao Yu Feihong make the movie "Bamboo"

Although it was his first time to perform in front of the camera, his performance was very good, and it also attracted Cui Xinqin's attention.

Cui Xinqin was a college student in Beiying, and after graduation, she stayed on to teach.

Therefore, when she was in high school, Teacher Cui wanted to film the drama "Murderer and Coward", and insisted on inviting Yu Feihong to participate in the heroine.

After the filming of this drama, Yu Feihong completely fell in love with acting.

She thought that she would take the road of artistic performance in the future, and she enjoyed the feeling of showing herself in front of the camera too much.

So, she mentioned to her parents that she wanted to apply for the college entrance examination volunteer, and apparently, her request was refused.

Seeing her daughter so persistent, her soft-hearted parents relaxed and promised her that she could apply for the Hokage.

However, when she participated in the Hokage interview exam, she had a small situation and was thrilled to miss Hokage.

There are only a few days left before the college entrance examination, how good this is, she had to confess to her parents.

Unexpectedly, this time, his parents did not blame him, but used all their strength to solve problems.

There are always more solutions than difficulties, and at the request of a family, the hospital made a special case for her and agreed to let her go to the college entrance examination.

But there is a hard requirement, must do a good job of strict protective measures, must not have any omissions!

Not only is his appearance outstanding, but he is also the first student sent abroad to make a movie in the entire Beiying that year.

19-year-old Yu Feihong, after filming "Joy Luck Club" in the United States, was favored by many local directors in the United States, and wanted her to stay and continue to cooperate.

But she was not interested in international development, so she went straight back to Hokage.

After graduation, she chose to stay in school as a teacher, and that year she also filmed "Heaven and Earth" with Andy Lau.

It's just that the response this time is not very good, and the box office is also dismal.

After three years, she filmed "Holding Hands" again, playing a third party in the play, and this time became famous overnight, so the drama path gradually expanded.

After the explosion, her resources were so good that she participated in the "Shocking Fairy" in "Xiao Li Feidao".

In 2013, starred in the urban drama "Big Husband", and actor Yang Jue played a pair of siblings.

In 2014, he participated in "Daqing Salt Merchant", playing the spicy and strong Mrs. Zhengfang in the play.

In 2016, he played a handsome and draggy domineering female officer in "Father's Identity", and netizens called the femme fatale and defeated the enemy with one move.

In 2023, the crew of "Qing Yu Nian 2" officially announced that Yu Feihong played the role of Empress Nanqing.

Netizens said that the crew really chooses actors, and I don't know if I can see her and Chen Daoming's rivalry scene, full of expectations.

52-year-old her, it has been 44 years since her debut, her film and television masterpieces are one after another, and her acting career is quite hot.

But her emotional experience is extremely cold, and apart from the well-known campus relationship, there seems to be no other relationship.

There are countless suitors of the immortal goddess, but she is always single

1. Romantic campus love - Liu Yunlong

She is so beautiful, naturally she is pursued by many seniors, and even some students outside the school pity her.

But Yu Feihong has a soft spot for his partner Liu Yunlong.

He is sunny and handsome, knowledgeable and cares for Yu Feihong warmly like a big brother.

Liu Yunlong also had a good impression of her, and after a long period of contact, the two who had mutual feelings confirmed their relationship.

It's just that their love is not as sweet as imagined.

But how could Yu Feihong, who was finally admitted to the North Shadow, give up easily? What's more, acting is the love of her life.

For this reason, the two of them quarreled because of disagreements, and even made a fuss about "breaking up".

2. The suitor who is willing to give everything for it - Wang Shuo

After graduating from school, Yu Feihong shot many classic works, performed well in the play, and attracted countless fans. Even the great writer Wang Shuo has admired her for a long time.

Later, he and Yu Feihong developed into close friends, and the two often made appointments, chatted about the world, and walked and chatted.

One day Yu Feihong told her that he liked a novel "Ginkgo, Ginkgo" and wanted to remake her into a movie.

After Wang Shuo found out, he went back and read the novel and adapted him into a script.

Then he called and told Yu Feihong that everything was ready and that he would see how you were going to shoot.

In 2009, the movie "Love Has an Afterlife" adapted from the novel "Ginkgo, Ginkgo" was successfully released.

The whole drama was directed and acted by Yu Feihong, and Wang Shuo pulled sponsorship for her to create momentum.

Wang Shuo's hands-on efforts did not further develop the relationship between the two of them.

Yu Feihong openly said: Wang Shuo is the kindest person she has ever met.

They can only be friends, and they will never stop at friends.

3. Soul mate who has been silently accompanying for many years - Dou Wentao

Yu Feihong treats feelings rationally, she will not fall in love easily, nor will she find someone to spend the rest of her life casually because she is lonely.

The appearance of Dou Wentao made her even more determined not to get married.

When Dou Wentao first met her, it was when Yu Feihong's new drama "Love Has an Afterlife" was screened.

Because the plot of the movie tells about "human and ghost love", it has caused a lot of controversy, and fans have complained about Yu Feihong, and the comment area has scolded.

Only Dou Wentao, a die-hard fan, dares to support Yu Feihong in many scoldings.

Therefore, the two of them became close and became good friends, and Dou Wentao has always hidden his thoughts of liking Yu Feihong in his heart.

As long as I can accompany Yu Feihong and solve her problems, I will be content.

Later, Yu Feihong also participated in the interview program "Three's Company" hosted by Dou Wentao

In the program, there are two particularly outstanding Q&A.

First of all, as the host of the show, Dou Wentao asked: Why have you never been married?

And I have a regular partner who has been with me for 20 years.

The second question was quite poignant and bold, and one of the guests asked her:

"You've always been single, so how do you solve your physiology?"

Yu Feihong did not find this a difficult question to talk about, nor did he show any displeasure.

Instead, she smiled and said:

I think that life, just like you eat and drink Lasa, it is the ordinary life of people, and there is nothing to explore additionally.

For women, it's actually more about being emotionally united, and maybe for you men, it can be separated.

In just two sentences, it shows her attitude towards the relationship between the sexes, and she does not pick it out, just hiding a part of it for the other party to experience.

Such an answer, a textbook standard answer, well done!

She is not devoid of human fireworks, but she sees sex, marriage and self-needs too clearly, and is just true to herself.

Women who are marriageable but unmarried also live happily

In their circle, there are some people with pure hearts and desires, who also do not expect a happy marriage, but pursue a person's freedom.

Xu Jinglei, now also 47 years old, more than half of her life, is still like a clear and beautiful girl, always living according to her heart.

She said: When two people are together, they are maintained by feelings, not by marriage.

There is also the famous old drama bone Chen Jin, who agreed with her brother when she was young that no one should marry in this life, and they would take care of each other.

There is also a "thousand-year-old beauty" Wang Zuxian, who is 56 years old, unmarried and sterile, and has already embarked on a "road of cultivating immortals".

After two failed relationship experiences, she was disappointed and publicly said: There is no word marriage in my life dictionary.

epilogue

They all have their own attitudes about marriage, which is never a necessity and has to be accomplished.

Some people believe that the end of life is a family, surrounded by companions, children and grandchildren.

But there are also some people who believe that the pursuit of spiritual prosperity without marriage and infertility is also a way to live.

Of course, not talking about marriage, carrying out love to the end is also a gesture.

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