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Miss Pan, the kindergarten teacher, never imagined that the seven-minute private video shot with her lover was slipped by her own hand to the owner group of hundreds of people, and when she reacted and was ready to withdraw, she found that 120 seconds of gold had already passed, and she thought that others would not recognize it, but it was not until the moment her husband contacted her that Miss Pan came back to her senses, and the video was not taken at her own home.
If I don't break up the group chat, I'll kill myself
The owners of Nanjing's high-end community "Shimao Riverside" exploded on May 21. At twelve o'clock in the afternoon of this day, Miss Pan, nicknamed "Momoda 1-3" in the group, sent a short video, and because it was lunch break, many people did not notice what the content was. A few minutes later, an owner curiously opened the video, but what she saw immediately shocked her, it turned out to be an indecent video of a man and a woman. Since the video was sent by Miss Pan, the relationship between the two is not bad on weekdays, so she immediately contacted Miss Pan and asked her to quickly withdraw the video.
After Miss Pan learned that she had posted the video to the owner group, she broke out in a cold sweat and quickly opened WeChat to withdraw it, because it was recorded yesterday when she had a fishy affair with her lover! What's more, her husband Mr. Wu is also in the group! But at this time, the withdrawal time of WeChat has passed, and the video cannot be withdrawn. And at this time, there were already owners who were familiar with Miss Pan, and found that the female protagonist in the picture was herself, and the male protagonist was not her husband Mr. Wu.
Miss Pan was anxious for a while like an ant on a hot pot, and suddenly, she thought of asking the group owner to dissolve the group chat, so she immediately contacted the group owner and asked him to do as he said immediately. The group owner naturally felt inexplicable, and said to her that you are responsible for the video you posted, don't come to me, this WeChat group is where everyone chats and notifies things, where it is said to disband. Miss Pan had no choice, so she threatened the group leader and said: If you don't break up the group chat for me, then I will kill myself immediately!
However, seeing that she was so emotional, she was not sure what to do, but she disbanded the group according to her request. But paper can't contain the fire, and disbanding the WeChat group is completely covering up the ears and stealing the bell, and there is no point in it. This video was circulated on the Internet, and Mr. Wu naturally saw it. The fact that she had an affair was still revealed, and the good wife character she was trying to maintain collapsed in an instant.
"Hand shaking" leads to the revelation of things
Ms. Pan is a kindergarten teacher, young and beautiful, and her work is easy and decent. Her husband, Mr. Wu, is an executive of a company that is well paid and gives her money every month. Due to the importance of his position in the company, Mr. Wu often returns home only once a week.
When she first got married, it was okay, but after a long time, Miss Pan gradually became dissatisfied, and often vented her emotions to Mr. Wu, asking him to put off his job to accompany her. Mr. Wu also felt that he really owed Miss Pan, and every time he came back, he would buy her expensive luxury handbags, imported perfumes and cosmetics, etc., no matter what financial needs Miss Pan had, he would meet them.
It stands to reason that Miss Pan is already very happy, but she is very dissatisfied with her husband snubbing herself, and cannot give up her work to accompany her at any time like the president of a film and television drama, and often loses her temper with her husband. Ms. Pan and her husband Mr. Wu met on a blind date, and she was attracted to Mr. Wu's wealth and wealth at that time. Soon after the two fell in love, Miss Pan immediately proposed marriage. The husband has been away from home for many years, and the two have been married for six years without children, which makes Miss Pan, who is alone in the empty house, ripple in her heart.
She began to regret marrying her husband, otherwise she could date a handsome guy and have a romantic love story, instead of living an empty and boring life now. Husband Mr. Wu can't give himself anything except money, romance, gentleness and thoughtfulness. At this moment, it happened that a new male kindergarten teacher, surnamed Liu, had just graduated from college this year, young and handsome. Because male kindergarten teachers are very rare, everyone welcomes Xiao Liu's arrival very much, and several unmarried female colleagues secretly send Qiu Bo to him, wanting to win Xiao Liu's favor.
Miss Pan is already married, and she is afraid of being gossiped by her colleagues, so she snubbed Xiao Liu and did not even add WeChat. But after returning home in the evening, Miss Pan was immediately annoyed, because Xiao Liu was completely in line with her vision, young, handsome, and gentle to others. However, in front of so many colleagues, she did not dare to show it. Just as she was regretting it, a WeChat notification interrupted her thoughts.
It turned out that Xiao Liu wanted to add her WeChat and initiated a friend application to her, and Miss Pan's heart trembled, and she immediately passed Xiao Liu's application. Xiao Liu's first words when he came up were to care about her, asking her if she was in a bad mood today and was there anything sad. The sensual Miss Pan was immediately moved by his intimate thoughtfulness, and the two of them chatted on WeChat since then, and soon developed into nothing to talk about. As soon as Xiao Liu graduated and her salary was low, Miss Pan used her husband's salary to buy gifts for Xiao Liu, invited him to dinner, and went out with him.
Gradually, Miss Pan felt that the time had come, so she tentatively asked Xiao Liu if she could come over to accompany her at night, she was afraid alone at night, and Xiao Liu agreed very happily. After that, things were so logical, the two developed into lovers, and later they often had sex at Miss Pan's house.
Originally, all this was unconscious, her husband Mr. Wu did not notice the improper relationship between the two at all, and would notify his wife of his itinerary at the end of each business trip, but he did not think that this became a more unscrupulous push for the two.
May 20th, originally just an ordinary day, is highly sought after because of the homophonic "I love you". Many girls have a soft spot for this day, and Miss Pan is no exception. On May 20th, the romantic Xiao Liu prepared many surprises for her, and later proposed to use a video to commemorate. Miss Pan was in the middle of the day, so she agreed to him and took a six-minute video with her mobile phone. After Xiao Liu went home, he got up the next day and thought that he had forgotten to save a copy for himself, so he asked Miss Pan to send it to himself on WeChat. Miss Pan was in a daze, and with shaking hands, she sent the video to the owners of the community.
The betrayer will be spurned by society
After Mr. Wu saw his wife's indecent video, his first feeling was anger, and then his mood gradually calmed down. He has been married to his wife for 6 years, has never treated her badly, and all the demands on her are take-and-take. But not only was she not satisfied, but she also betrayed herself and took her lover to sleep on the marriage bed of the two. It can be said that there is no shame in the heart, and the shame of the lack of honesty is interpreted to the extreme.
Mr. Wu immediately returned to Nanjing on the nearest flight that day, and only disappointed in the marriage, he decided to divorce his wife. We often say that the greatest anger is speechless, Mr. Wu did not have any hesitation, or even bothered to rebuke his wife, he did not listen to Miss Pan's tearful performance, but resolutely threw her out of the house. Divide property with her, and divide boundaries.
Soon, the kindergarten where Miss Pan worked also moved. The kindergarten issued an announcement: "Everyone has heard about the recent incident, the kindergarten department is also actively dealing with it, and the relevant teachers have left. Because her influence was so bad, Miss Pan was about to be expelled from the kindergarten, and her "deeds" had spread throughout Nanjing and even the whole country, and there was no longer the possibility of becoming a teacher. After returning home, she was also pointed at by neighbors, so that everyone looked down on her, and her parents also felt that they had not educated their daughter well.
Ms. Pan originally had a job as a kindergarten teacher, with little pressure and free time on weekdays, and a husband who loved herself and was willing to give everything for herself, which can be described as a happy life that many people envy. However, Ms. Pan rightfully felt that she deserved it, and repeatedly accused her husband of owing herself.
You know, with Mr. Wu's conditions, it is not a problem to raise 3 and 5 lovers, these things are simply easy for him. But Mr. Wu did not cheat on him, he maintained a devout heart for marriage, was loyal to his lover, and responsible for his family. But he didn't expect that the sweetheart he loved in the palm of his hand had already shared a different dream with him, carrying him and other men behind his back, turning clouds and rain on their beds.
If it weren't for Miss Pan's slippery hand that led to the revelation of the matter, poor Mr. Wu didn't know how long he would have been blinded. Because of love, he ignored his wife's strange attitude towards him, and felt that he was not good enough, and his wife took his own money to support other men without knowing it.
Miss Pan also paid the price for her marital infidelity, respecting her husband who loved her and decisively divorced her, unwilling to have anything to do with her anymore; The easy and decent job was lost, and she could not survive without a skill; I and my family can't raise my head for a lifetime, and I want to be forever spurned by others, and I point to my spine and scold! As for that gentle and reliable Xiao Liu? Long ago quickly escaped from Nanjing after the incident, blacked out all contact information with her, the original strong love, sea oath mountain alliance, is just a lie to cheat money.
Is it all caused by WeChat?
Sent the wrong WeChat message again? Perhaps this is the first reaction of many friends after seeing the Miss Pan incident, after all, in recent years, there have been too many people who have collapsed and had accidents because of the wrong WeChat.
On September 6, 2021, a kindergarten teacher in Sichuan Province, Teacher Yang, posted an indecent video to the home-school exchange group during her lunch break, although she immediately apologized and deleted the video, but this has seriously affected the image of teachers, so her defense of "wrong video due to clicking the wrong link" looks so pale. In the end, the kindergarten dismissed the teacher after considering many aspects such as social impact.
There is also the incident of inappropriate speech by a university teacher who made a lot of noise before. Late one night, a college teacher suddenly sent a message coldly. The students who were preparing to sleep instantly got up and discussed it in a variety of tongues. It wasn't until a few minutes later that the teacher explained that the WeChat account had been stolen and that a friend from the police had found it. But the withdrawal time had passed, and he could only watch the news spread across the country overnight. Eventually, the school announced an investigation into him, and the teacher was also suspended from school for probation.
However, we can find out, can these be said to be caused by WeChat? The problem of personal behavior can not be blamed on WeChat, isn't this an obvious dumping behavior. If she is a little more loyal to her family and marriage, how can Miss Pan be exposed. If they are deeply aware of their responsibilities as teachers or public officials, they will not be dismissed or removed from their posts. Only by walking rightly and sitting upright, always paying attention to your image, can you not be afraid of anything being exposed to the sun.