Li Min passed away from the world, and this absurd world is not worthy of an angel after all

The night of July 5 was a sleepless night for many people.

As soon as the news of CoCo Li Min's depression and suicide came out, whether he was a fan or not, no matter how old he was, the reactions of the people around him were surprisingly consistent - first doubt, then shock, then grief, and finally still doubt, resolutely unwilling to believe that "Si people have died" is a real thing.

It is difficult for people to accept that such a sunny, enthusiastic, optimistic "good mood" girl will die in such a way. If she is so sunny, enthusiastic, and optimistic, it is difficult to overcome the beating of fate, then what can she do to be safe in the quagmire of life?

Of course, you will also hear voices like: Ah, as for? It's just a drama, 108,000 miles away from our lives, it's better to cry than to cry herself. So many people die every day, why should the whole network mourn when she dies?

That's not what it says. Not all fate needs to be born after getting along face to face, there are always some people who we are not masked, but some of the things she conveys have unknowingly seeped into the blood and soul of you and me.

Leslie Cheung, who died 20 years ago, Wu Mengda, who died of illness two years ago, and Li Min, the queen of heaven who died now.

Her "Good Mood" and "Di Da Di" are summer cool BGMs embedded in the memories of a generation, her "Moonlight Lover" and "365 Days of Thinking of You" are magic shortcuts that make classic movie images instantly come to mind, and her red hair, her healthy wheat color and her signature sunny smile burst with vigorous vitality that always heals some duffled moments just right...

Due to too many rotten melons, many people have sneered at the star industry, almost ignoring the core value that stars convey to society - dreaming. The reality is full of boring, bleak, and rugged, so it takes a bright dream to hedge the kind of unbearable and soothe the tired and scarred real people.

The reason why Li Min is loved is because she has never deviated from such norms and original intentions, and has overcome obstacles with strong self-discipline and unremitting pursuit, and has lived a veritable human ideal.

She is diligent: her thin and delicate figure is still wearing the performance skirt of the Oscars more than ten years ago, which must be the result of years of unremitting management of her body;

She is strong: she has had a problem in her left leg since she was a child, but she has not only never sold misery, but she has also been able to swallow pain, overcome weaknesses, and deceive everyone for more than 20 years with her flexible and hot dancing;

She is honest: as a mentor, when she sees the unfair treatment of trainees in variety shows, she will call for justice and will never tolerate the dark operation under her nose;

She is dedicated: due to objective reasons, the live singing is not satisfactory, although most of the audience as a layman can not hear any big problems, but she still posted a Weibo initiative to apologize, and the words are full of respect and respect for the stage;

She is low-key: she has not had a scandal in the thirty years since her debut, has always been conscientious in making music, and has never let gossip lace dominate the crowd, which is in stark contrast to the sexy flamboyance on stage;

She loves: married to a man 16 years older than herself, treats her two daughters as her own, and runs her small family with sincere sincerity and a big heart.

She is sunny: from 18 to 48 years old, from little girl to big sister, what remains unchanged is her hearty smile, and everyone she sees is infected, as if her smile can dissolve all haze. Until the day of her death, she also reported to fans that she was safe in her usual gentle and optimistic tone, saying that she would continue to work hard.

Coming up with any of the harsh standards in the secular sense, CoCo is a perfect score player with a top one. No wonder she can become an undefeated diva through the years, because she is completely a ray of light that illuminates the people of the world, and is a worthy female role model.

But others only know admiration and admiration, and only she knows the pain of creating and maintaining this beauty.

To become a qualified dream maker, we must have the consciousness to go against the current, to put it bluntly, that is, to regard "anti-humanity" as natural, to eat less, to move more, to study diligently, to practice hard, to restrain desire, to fight aging, to endure the intolerability of ordinary people in all aspects and all times. Even if these are done, there is still the man's evil intention to put a cold gun in an unexpected place...

In short, in this era of material desires, in this world where gravity is the unifying law, it sounds good to become the embodiment of truth, goodness and beauty, but it is very difficult to act. She has to endure a lot, but she may not be able to usher in a great return.

So on the one hand, the weak flesh, on the other hand, the weight that increases with age, the slightest carelessness, her world will collapse. Li Min, who seems to be sunny and strong, is more difficult than we imagined, and more fragile than we thought.

Let's go into the fairy cave of metaphysics and sigh: God has given everyone's fate is different, energy is always conserved, the brilliance that cuts through the long sky will inevitably be difficult to last long, and those who stumble, light and dark, may not be able to live a hundred years long.

So is it, legends have legendary pathos, mortals have mortal luck.

You don't have the self-discipline and desperation like Li Min, I want to eat snacks in two lines, and I want to be paralyzed in the first half of the day's work, destined to create any shocking achievements, but I can't leave any injuries of excessive effort;

You don't have the tolerance and kindness like Li Min, often the dark physique explodes, one moment I think of A hateful gritting his teeth, swearing that he will never forgive in this life, and then he sees B friend circle showing off this and that, and immediately decisively blackens it...

It can be said that the negative energy is bursting, but this is also proof that we are rolling in the dark places of human nature, and it is not too strange for people to give birth to any bad eyes, so they can be avoided in time after being sensitive to some nearby troubles.

You know, the embodiment of truth, goodness and beauty has many incompatibilities with this bustling world, the former is a flower that needs to be carefully cultivated to bloom, and the latter has never been a top-level excellent greenhouse with water and soil.

Therefore, "Eyes must be rewarded" is not only careful eyes, it is also a self-protection mechanism; Anger, jealousy, grievances, acting... It's not necessarily the devil stirring, but our body's self-purification system is removing emotional garbage or as a signal to remind us to make new adjustments to our lives in the present.

Even the downhill road is not bad, anyway, no matter how hard you try, no matter how smooth it is at a certain stage, life always has to go downhill, that is just early to go early to practice, early to adapt early, and the earlier you go, the lower the rising cost will be.

For example, Zheng Xiuwen, who is also a well-known self-disciplined perfectionist in the circle, suffered from depression around the age of thirty, and his work was suspended for several years, but fortunately, he was still young, his physical endurance was strong, and the collapse of his spirit would not easily shatter everything.

And Nicholas Tse, don't look at the quiet and warm male appearance of the years now, he can do a lot of absurd things when he is young, what smashed the guitar, the top bag case, and the emotional swing, the whole young ignorant is so restless.

Outsiders looked at the frown, as the authorities, their hearts should also be in a messy state for a long time, and there was a flood of power, but they often got angry. Later, with the increase of experience, the heart slowly sank, faded the impetuousness and resentment, and began to talk about gratitude and contentment.

Compared with the amazing good as always, the good that has slowly grown after the process of "broken to repair" and "trial and error to self-improvement" is often more and more stable.

This is the small damage of the red dust world! All the obscurity, filth, frustration and miasma have a meaning of existence. As an individual, you cannot wipe them out, nor can you treat them as if they do not exist, and nobility and virtue are not substitutes for these things, but as weights that hold a certain balance at the other end of the scale.

It's good to fight, but you still have to rest; Kindness is good, but not showing fangs is not enough to force back the dark beast of human nature; Correct is good, occasionally make mistakes will remember more firmly; It's good to be sensible, but don't do it all at once, others still think that your contribution is justified...

Kurt Cobain, who ended his life at an even younger age, famously said that it is better to burn calmly than to survive.

In my twenties, this sounds magnificent, but now I feel that it is better to die than to live, not necessarily to waste time without farming.

Life is quite complicated, it is not a fire of the fire, nor a sprint race full of energy, but a long-distance run, the test is endurance, the so-called stay green mountain without worrying about firewood, otherwise there will be no such thing as a late bloomer; It is also a journey, the scenery along the way is ever-changing, at this moment the mountains and heavy water are doubtful, maybe the next second will be another village.

That uncertainty is helpless, but it is also its charm, those who wear halos also need to be dusty with the light, and ordinary people can also usher in their own highlight moments, how good.

Compared with burning happily and pursuing the extreme, having a fluid perspective on life, maintaining a delicate sense of balance and a mind that "no matter what is high or low" is a life-saving formula that is more conducive to living.

But then again, looking beyond the personal dimension and looking at the whole society, Li Min, a perfect superstar who regards high standards as the norm, is also a balance between the mediocre and the bustling world.

Because of CoCo, Leslie Cheung, and Michael Jackson, we can know that in such an ordinary world, there are really people who can interpret beauty so vividly, and then face a trivial and troubled life, and suddenly there is an inexplicable force.

It can only be said that people have their own lives, and some people come with a great mission, and in the face of their departure, in addition to regret, they are more grateful.

Good people will go to heaven.

But I still want to say to everyone who sees the article: we should be infinitely closer to good people, but at the same time, we don't have to be too indifferent with our own bad.

Author: Miss Bovary

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