Just now, at 20:54 on July 5, Li Silin, Li Min's (Li Meilin)'s own sister, posted that Li Min died at home on July 2 due to depression, and died on the 3rd. #歌手李玟轻生去世#
Li Min's last Weibo is still cheering himself up with lyrics.
"Hurt has been blurred, blood and tears have been blurred, doubts have been repeated, and fate has been promised. Life has to face a lot of difficulties and pains, bravely challenge, to pursue, you are a warrior. ”
From the news revealed by Li Silin and the comprehensive analysis of Li Min's recent developments, it can be inferred:
The last straw that overwhelmed Li was either "the problem of a dislocated pelvis and a displaced hip in her left leg that afflicted her for 40 years" or "a precarious marriage problem with the Canadian veteran Ruth."
In short, Li Min's world may not be as sunny as we think.
She was born afraid of being abandoned, and her pelvic and leg bones were often dislocated, and she worked to make her mother happy
有人说：“米国有自由女神，中国有CoCo李玟”。
In an era when "most Chinese women did not dare to laugh in front of men, but only dared to wear tights in front of their husbands", Li Min appeared on the TV screens of hundreds of millions of households during the Chinese New Year in the millennium, wearing a squin red dress with an open waist and dancing and singing.
The dumbfounded shape, dance, singing voice and style made Chinese audiences from 8 to 80 years old remember Li Min.
Li Min's sunshine seems to grow from the bones: it is easy for others to wear sexy clothes and dance sexy dances, but Li Min only makes people feel the sunshine... Her heartfelt smile and vigorous vitality emanating from her blood are like a living "sun goddess".
But few people know that Li Min's childhood had a very serious "psychological shadow" - fear of being abandoned by his family.
Li Min's original name was Li Meilin, Li Silin is her second sister, and she also has an eldest sister named Li Qiulin.
Before Li Min was born, it was still an enviable, happy Kochi family: his parents were both Peking University graduates, his career was like a day, husband and wife loved, and he gave birth to two well-behaved and cute daughters.
But heaven can't see the happiness of the world, just before Li Min was born, Li Min's father suddenly died of a sudden illness.
After Li Min was born, someone suggested that her mother give her away, but her mother refused, and she resolutely took her three daughters from Shenzhen to Hong Kong to make a living.
Li Min grew up a little before he knew this past and saw the difficulties of his family.
"I knew from a young age that life is hard."
Li Min is insecure: because the eldest sister in the family is the smartest and can always get the first place in the grade. The second sister is the most considerate and is often praised by her mother, only she can't do anything, and she is often sick, which is a "burden" at home.
Li Min once recalled the experience of childhood illness:
"I was born with a defect in my left leg, and when I learned to walk, my mother noticed that something was wrong with me and sent me to the hospital for surgery at the age of two, but unfortunately the operation was unsuccessful. One of the most uncomfortable was when the doctor used a very thick iron rod to pass through the root of my left foot... I remember crying every night at that time and falling asleep because I missed my mother and sisters... I remember that there were more than two hundred children in my hospital room, and their screams and cries were unforgettable. ”
Li Min's strong insecurity can be seen from this description: what she said was "My mother found out that something was wrong with me and sent me to the hospital at the age of two..." And, in the hospital, the children's cries made her feel "abandoned". And, in order not to be like others, she began to know how to hide her pain.
While enduring the pain, Li Min was very afraid that he would be abandoned.
In order to protect her youngest daughter, the mother told her that "it's okay to laugh more in front of outsiders, and talk less." Li Min has been "always laughing" ever since.
Li Min probably didn't expect that he had the "life of being a star".
At the age of 16, she was selected to represent the school in the "Miss Chinese Miao Ling Competition" and won the championship. At the age of 18, he participated in the "12th Hong Kong Rookie Singing Competition" and won the runner-up... Many companies asked her to sign a contract, and her mother found someone to calculate it, changed her name, and officially debuted.
But Li Min's body is not suitable for singing and dancing.
Li Silin once revealed that Li Min was severely dislocated from his pelvis at birth, and the operation was unsuccessful. In fact, every time she sings and dances, she will have a lot of pain, which she has endured for more than 40 years.
But Li Min never hesitated about her artistic path: she signed with Sony at the age of 21, sold 1.8 million albums at the age of 23 and swept the Asian Grand Prix, and was invited by Michael Jackson as a guest at the age of 24... The speed of her success is beyond the reach of ordinary people, and the pain she endurs while running hard is unknown.
Everything was originally just to get my mother's love and find a place in this world for myself.
The shift in the focus of life: the "love brain" hurt her
He achieved major success in life in his 20s, which is believed to have cured Li Min's fear of "being abandoned by the world".
(She said, "I just want to bring out the best in me, as long as everyone is happy, and the pain is worth it.") ）
For more than 40 years, Li Min has probably found a way to relieve physical pain and overcome mental barriers.
But she didn't expect that there was another kind of suffering waiting for him in life, and this suffering was wrapped in a layer of "the sweetest sugar coating in the world", which caught her off guard.
In 2010, Li Min, who was worth hundreds of millions of dollars, married Le Yumin (formerly known as Bruce), the CEO of the Canadian boyfriend Libiao Brand who had known him for 9 months.
Bruce is 16 years older than Li Min and has two daughters, Li Min does not care, she loves this family with all her heart: learning to cook for her stepdaughter, and doing IVF for Bruce 9 times.
Judging from Li Min's resume, Li Min has not participated in commercial performances for two years after marriage. During her 6 years of marriage, she maintained the rhythm of attending events every two years... She put most of her energy into her family.
Li Min, who does not go out to work, makes chicken wings for her husband at home, gets up early to wait for her husband's interview to appreciate, and arranges surprises for him every day like a little girl.
At this time, Li Min had changed from a "free goddess of liberty" to a "sweet marriage slave".
This situation continued until 2020, when 520 in this year, Li Min suddenly cut her hair short and wrote this "strange" paragraph on social media:
"It takes great courage and time to heal broken hearts. Courage is not innate, it needs to be constantly learned, improved and strived for in practice... I'm still learning and fighting. I hope...... Hopefully..."
Later, we learned through the Hong Kong media that the cause of this paragraph was "Bruce cheating": there has always been a "junior" in the 9-year marriage.
Li Min and Bruce separated, but the mental torture still made her lose 84 pounds.
Or, 8-year-old Li Min, who was able to endure the horror and pain of an iron bar passing through her ankle, because she still had a belief at that time: as long as I endure the pain, I will not be abandoned by the world.
But 48-year-old Li Min couldn't bear the pain of her husband abandoning her. At this time, she also had obstacles to singing and dancing... Bruce's "abandonment" probably made her feel "useless" again.
"My life is singing, my voice is taken away and I feel like I have no life"
Some people say that Li Min chose to marry because he lost his voice.
This is not the case, Li Min married for love, but Li Min did suffer from "stage phobia" before and after marriage.
Around 2012, she often had voice instability, and while accompanying Bruce at home, she also continued to practice every day in order to recover her vocal cords and mentality as soon as possible.
In January 2016, Li Min defeated himself and walked on "I Am a Singer Season 4". As soon as she appeared, she shocked the audience! Netizens suggested: "I am a singer should be changed to "Variety Li Min Show" in the fourth season, how did Li Min kill the whole scene in seconds? ”
However, as soon as the program was recorded, Li Min was diagnosed with acute bronchitis and completely lost his voice.
So, she took another break, started learning from a vocal teacher from scratch, and even applied for biology on her own, wanting to study her voice.
In 2022, Li Min, who believes that he has recovered his "success", once again appeared on the stage of the Hundred Flowers Awards to sing.
However, the nightmare came true now - "Dao Ma Dan", which has been sung for so many years, is out of tune.
Li Min and the organizer both solemnly apologized, saying that there was a problem with the ear return.
But now we know that there may be another real reason: her breath is unstable, she has repeatedly rushed to the edge of breaking the sound, and the beat is inaccurate... "Queen of Heaven" Li Min still can't sing after all.
Since entering the industry, Li Min has always been very strict with himself. As long as she is on stage, she will only eat bananas throughout the day to maintain her strength. When dancing, one leg could not be strengthened, she used the other leg to support the whole body, under the "Man song hot dance", it is a pain that others cannot see.
She is willing to put in all the effort to sing and dance, and she considers it her "destiny", she said:
"My life is singing, my voice is taken away, I feel like I have no life."
As you can imagine, this incident is likely to be the last straw that overwhelmed her.
Li Min is a simple and persistent woman.
When she won Miss Chinese at the age of 16, she said:
"I don't think I'm beautiful, I'm beautiful in the dress my mother sewed for me."
Li Min had no scandals, talking about her love experience, she said shyly: "My first love is Andy Lau, but he doesn't know." ”
The first boyfriend Li Min introduced to her mother was his husband, and Jin Xing once teased her:
"Your mother raised you as an x-daughter."
Li Min is sexy, open, and hot on the surface, but in essence, she is a fairytale princess living in an ivory tower.
She has a crystal heart: as long as there is a little haze in her heart, she chooses to hide it. He loves very few people, and the things he loves are simple, but as long as he loves, he will "bet" his whole life.
Perhaps, Li Min has never come out of her childhood fears": she has never been a "sunshine goddess of liberty", but has always been a "little girl who fears abandonment". How sunny her smile is, how much her heart hurts all the time.
In this world, there is no place for such a good Li Min to live.
The beautiful person has passed away, except for sighs, there are only wishes: COCO, may in heaven, you can find the home that makes you smile and protects your life! [Thanks]