"I must not let my son be blind, even if he loses his family."
This is what Ni Ping said in an interview.
From her narration, the audience learned how difficult Ni Ping's life was.
I finally had a perfect marriage and gave birth to a son at an advanced age.
The family of three should have lived happily, but they did not expect that their son was seriously ill.
In order to treat his son, he did not hesitate to go bankrupt.
Unexpectedly, her son's illness did not heal later, but her marriage with her husband had problems.
It was also because of this interview that her ex-husband Wang Wenlan became divorced when her children were seriously ill.
A scumbag who "abandoned his wife and abandoned his son".
However, this is not the case.
Wang Wenlan is not a scumbag who abandoned his wife and son, and he also lost his family to save his son.
Even after the divorce, I also contributed money and efforts.
This marriage brought him not only that short-term happiness, but also endless pain and helplessness.
At a chance gathering, Wang Wenlan met Ni Ping.
At that time, Ni Ping had already experienced a failed marriage and two relationships.
Especially the years with Chen Kaige.
Because I loved each other too much, I always bent over in those years.
Put down your body to take care of the Chen family.
She has also always regarded herself as "Mrs. Chen", thinking that Chen Kaige will marry her sooner or later.
Unexpectedly, Chen Kaige would abandon her and marry her again.
This also made Ni Ping heartbroken, especially when she recalled the days when she was with Chen Kaige before.
I felt that I did not have a trace of dignity at that time.
It is also this relationship experience with Chen Kaige, plus a failed marriage before.
It made her whole person look a lot haggard, and her eyes were no longer radiant, but full of thoughts.
Wang Wenlan is a photographer, and he can always look inside through the surface.
The first time I saw Ni Ping, I knew that the woman in front of me must have experienced a lot.
After learning about Ni Ping's past, he was deeply touched in his heart.
So he left Ni Ping's contact information and took the initiative to enlighten the other party.
Later, this heartache was transformed into love.
Wang Wenlan does not care about the identity of Ni Ping's second marriage, the past has always passed.
Therefore, after understanding that he was moved, he began to pursue Ni Ping.
His gentleness and thoughtfulness, as well as kindness and righteousness, touched Ni Ping.
So in he said: Let's live together.
Ni Ping agreed.
Ni Ping's parents are patriarchal, so they are not good for her at all.
At an early age, she suffered a lot of grievances.
She was later sent to a childcare kindergarten.
After this incident was known by her grandmother, her grandmother felt sorry for her and took her back to the countryside to raise her personally.
Therefore, Ni Ping grew up with her grandmother.
Wang Wenlan understood the relationship between Ni Ping and her grandmother.
So he bought four acres of land in the suburbs of Beijing and built a courtyard house.
After the yard was built, he asked Ni Ping to take his grandmother over and live with him.
This move moved Ni Ping.
In the end, the two tied the knot.
In the year of marriage, Ni Ping was 38 years old, and Wang Wenlan was 44.
Although both of them have entered their middle and old age, they are still like a young couple.
They would ride their bikes through the streets and alleys, holding hands to find small restaurants hidden in corners.
The days were dull and happy.
Later, Wang Wenlan also co-published the photo book "Days of Bicycles" with Ni Ping.
The love is intense and hot.
At that time, Ni Ping's biggest wish was to have a child with Wang Wenlan.
So after learning that I was pregnant, I was very happy.
But Wang Wenlan was a little worried.
Because Ni Ping was 39 years old at the time, she belonged to the advanced maternal age.
It is too dangerous to have a baby at this age.
So he took good care of Ni Ping throughout the pregnancy.
After a hard pregnancy cycle, Ni Ping gave birth to a son.
The two named the child "Huzi".
Originally, a family of three could live happily.
Unexpectedly, the child had just reached the full moon and found out that there was a problem with his eyes.
The tiger's eyes secrete a covering film that obscures his eyeliner.
If left untreated, you are not only at risk of blindness, but also life-threatening.
This was like a thunderbolt hitting Wang Wenlan and Ni Ping's hearts on a sunny day.
While they are sad, they must also be strong because the children need them.
After that, Ni Ping and Wang Wenlan took the child to major hospitals.
The goal is to find a treatment plan that can treat the child's eyes.
However, none of the hospitals said that Huzi's disease could be treated.
They can only take their children every once in a while to clean the lamination that has grown in their eyes.
In addition, Huzi takes a lot of medicine every day to inhibit the development of the disease.
Later, Ni Ping felt that medical care in the United States was more advanced.
So he discussed with Wang Wenlan and took the child to the United States for treatment.
But before they went to major hospitals, they had exhausted their savings.
It also owes hundreds of thousands of foreign debts.
If you go to the United States, you need more money, and two people can't take it at all.
In this regard, Ni Ping said: Sell the house.
I thought Wang Wenlan would agree.
I didn't expect Wang Wenlan to refuse.
He thinks that the house is the last guarantee left for his children.
In case the son can't be cured, there is still a house.
However, Ni Ping did not understand.
The two men quarreled because of this.
In fact, at that time, Wang Wenlan's pressure was also great.
In order to make money to treat his children, Wang Wenlan had to make money desperately.
But the money earned is simply not enough.
Once he wanted to go and refuel the car, but he had no money.
The pressure of life and the child's condition are like two mountains pressing on Wang Wenlan.
Under excessive pressure, the relationship with Ni Ping will inevitably have a rift.
On weekdays, two people will quarrel if they don't deal with a word.
are suppressing their emotions.
Seeing that the more money is owed, the child's illness has not improved.
Wang Wenlan had the idea of having another child.
Ni Ping, however, disagreed.
Whether to sell the house or not, whether to have a second child. Under the number of contradictions, they quarreled more frequently.
Ni Ping believes that Wang Wenlan just doesn't want to treat the child anymore.
Wang Wenlan wants to leave the last guarantee for the child. He was afraid that the child would not be cured.
Both parties were exhausted by the child's illness.
In the end, after a big quarrel, he chose to divorce.
The son lives with Ni Ping.
After the divorce, Ni Ping took the child to the United States.
After arriving in the United States, I rented a friend's house.
After settling down, he took Huzi around seeking medical treatment.
To ease economic pressures.
She brought her mother to the United States, where she accompanied the child for treatment.
He returned to China to make money desperately.
Ni Ping's situation is difficult, and the outside world also feels sorry for her.
Especially after learning that Wang Wenlan refused to sell his house to save his children.
Wang Wenlan became a complete scumbag.
However, this is not the case.
At the time of divorce, Wang Wenlan left all his property to Ni Ping.
He took on most of the debt.
He said to his son: I have always loved you.
After that, he worked hard to earn money and handed over the money he earned to Ni Ping every month.
So that the other party can treat the child.
Later, Ni Ping married Yang Yaya with her child.
Wang Wenlan, on the other hand, is still unmarried.
In his heart, his son's healing was the first thing, and his partner had no time to take care of it.
In 2014, Wang Wenlan received a call from Ni Ping.
I learned that my son's eyes have been completely cured and there is no risk of blindness again.
This news made him happy and relieved.
The mountain that pressed on my heart finally moved away.
After that, Wang Wenlan earned money, in addition to paying living expenses for his son.
All the rest were saved up for the marriage of the children.
When his son went to the United States for graduate school, Wang Wenlan also took a lot of money.
Judging from these efforts, he is not "abandoning his wife and son".
But if a man wants to "abandon his wife and son", he will not be so concerned about his ex-wife and son.
He chose to divorce, perhaps because he was overwhelmed by his son's illness.
Wang Wenlan in the eyes of the public is a complete scumbag.
However, the real Wang Wenlan is a very good person.
He was born into a military family.
Very smart since childhood.
His uncle was a photographer and was influenced by his uncle.
He also developed a great interest in photography.
When he was in elementary school, his parents went to study in the Soviet Union and brought him a camera when they returned.
After that, he took pictures everywhere with him.
Badaling Ming Tombs Reservoir is full of beautiful scenery left by him.
In 1968. Wang Wenlan responded to the call of the state to go to the countryside to join the queue.
When I went, I didn't bring much luggage, but there was a camera inside.
Life in the countryside is hard, and he relies entirely on photography to maintain his inner joy.
In 1974, Wang Wenlan joined the army and became a photographer in the army.
In the years when he was in the army, he was present everywhere such as the Tangshan earthquake and the Yunnan front.
Basically, wherever there is a disaster, go wherever it goes.
On his hands, he left a lot of valuable news photos.
In 1980, Wang Wenlan joined China Daily.
During his work, he took many photos of ordinary people at the bottom.
Every time a work comes out, it has caused a huge response.
At that time, because of his excellence, he was very famous in the photography industry.
He has also won the National Photography Gold Award.
So before falling in love with Ni Ping, he was a very good existence.
And Ni Ping is his first girlfriend, that is, his first love.
He has feelings for Ni Ping.
It is a pity that their feelings have cracked due to their son's illness and the pressure of life.
He was also forced to divorce at the beginning, it was too much pressure.
Perhaps it was very irrational to choose divorce at that time.
However, he is not an irresponsible scumbag.
Before the divorce, he took on huge debts to treat his children.
After the divorce, he did not ignore it.
Instead, he gave the money he earned to Ni Ping to treat his children.
Moreover, he did not remarry after the divorce, and after the child recovered from illness, he did not consider personal problems.
How can such a person be a scumbag?
It can only be said that the drive of fate made him and Ni Ping miss the marriage.
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Do you think Wang Wenlan chose to divorce at that time, did he do something wrong?