#头条创作挑战赛#
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As parents, we like our children to be obedient and well-behaved.
However, ideals are beautiful, and reality is reversed. Especially after entering puberty, why does the child begin to become disobedient? Why did the former little sheep become the little hedgehog of today?
This is because children grow up with their own ideas and know how to refuse.
Adolescence does not care about physical development and psychological changes, so that the child's behavior also changes. When he was young, the child was ignorant and did not have strong self-discrimination ability, and he obeyed his parents' words and did what he was told, and he was a cute little sheep. And in adolescence, the child begins to "wake up" with his own opinion. Self-awareness has increased, with their own thoughts and opinions, they have begun to use their own brains to examine themselves, self-judgment and others and the world around them, and see the world with critical and skeptical eyes no longer obedient (understand rebellion). He feels that he has grown up, become assertive, and is a small adult, and hopes that his parents at home will treat him as an adult, give him respect and equality, and desire a free and easy life, and do not want to be restrained.
And before our parents could react, they began to rebel. The old educational concepts and education methods or the methods of staying in the child's early childhood are no longer suitable for them, if they are still using the previous methods, such as preaching, nagging, ordering, strict management and other education methods, it can only cause contradictions and conflicts between parents and children.
Good education is to adapt their own education methods to children, and parents must also learn to grow up and adapt to changes. Instead of letting the child adapt to your way of upbringing. Do not think that the previous way of education is very correct, it is because the child is still too young, in a weak position, does not have the right to refuse and the ability to resist. And in adolescence, the child grows up and has his own ideas, and the child dares to say "no" to the parents and dare to "resist". Therefore, parents should change themselves, whether it is attitude, or education methods to adapt to the growth of children, help and correct guidance, to adjust the relationship between parents and children to ease the conflict between parents and children.
Conclusion:
And change starts with learning now today.
Learning is like a spring seedling, not seeing its increase, growing day by day,
Dropping out of school is like a stone sharpening a knife, not seeing its reduction, and sometimes losing money.