My junior high school class was very good overall, and 34 out of 56 students were admitted to high school in the year of graduation, which was written in the school's centennial memorabilia.
I myself am worse, I am a middle school student, and I am not a class leader, but my popularity is not bad, and I was not bad, and some things surfaced at the banquet of the marriage of the class teacher and girl twenty years after graduation, and some students initiated a party thirty years after graduation and elected me to take the lead in organizing and implementing it.
After the joint efforts of me and the students of the organizing committee, 52 students came back from Tiannanhaibei, the party ceremony was full of feelings, it should be said that the consideration was relatively thorough, presented gifts to the teacher with enough respect, gave souvenirs to the classmates, showed the faces of those who were willing to show their faces, gave face to those who wanted to fight for face, and gave dignity to more ordinary students, especially took care of a group of female students and classmates who had a relatively tight life because of the party.
There are two more keys to handling well. One key is that the financial income and expenditure are open and clear, of course, I have tolerated the bad side of many members of the party organizing committee, the cohesion between students has been enhanced, and a classmate group has been established; And the key point is that this gathering did not produce any negative effects between men and women!
Since then, I have become the "legal" convener of weddings and funerals in the homes of my classmates.
For a period of time, there was more communication in the group of classmates, and the atmosphere was active, and then the classmates married their daughters, and as the first wedding banquet, the students came over to congratulate and sat at four full tables, and the happy main classmates couldn't close their mouths.
Time has passed, and thirteen years have passed since the graduation party, and the changes are still obvious and incomprehensible.
The classmate's WeChat group has no voice. Compared to the meeting when the group was first established, the group of classmates is now too lonely. At present, the WeChat group has only two functions, one is to inform the funeral among the same scholars. When there is a funeral at home on our side, except for those who need help, the host's family cannot come forward to notify colleagues, classmates, and friends who have courtesy and exchanges, and this notification falls on the head of me, an outsider, and WeChat group notification is also the most appropriate way; Another function of the WeChat group is the greetings on major holidays, and there are always a group of iron fans responding, but it is far less than the number of people who grab red envelopes after I send red envelopes.
Usually there is a lot less contact. In our age, female students have basically retired this year, except for department-level cadres or senior titles, most of the male students have also retired to the second line in leadership positions, and the general cadres of government agencies and undertakings have begun to play soy sauce, it is not good to sit in class, and there is no position for classmates to get together! Some classmates who are looking for life are still busy and easily do not want to disturb them, so they feel that there is less contact between classmates, and show the connection between threes and twos.
There were not two tables at the banquet. There are only two occasions for students to get together:
One is that the students working in the field come back, I usually call a few over at the will of the classmates, and there will be no more than one table;
Another occasion is the time for the same students to hold happy events, but compared to the years just after the thirty-year party, now female classmates see their grandchildren holding their grandchildren more, male classmates among the "three highs", diabetes, protein in the urine, stents in the forest, and one yang and two yang, in the last few banquets, I try to greet everyone, helpless often men and women get together at a table, can't pour a bottle of white wine, drink can't drink, but red and white wine is okay.
Now when the classmates get together, every time someone will slightly ridicule me that my popularity is poor, everyone is coming less and less, and I have to wake up and be vigilant, which makes people sometimes can't hang on their faces. Friends, are they right? The same hard work to take care of the classmates, people can't come, is the classmates bad affection? Or is there something else? Please express your opinions in the comment area!
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