Ten years of cold window, now a fight. Some people are inscribed on the gold list, and some people are named Sun Shan.
What really widens the gap between children is often the word "self-discipline".
A class teacher once said this to students:
"There is never a regret medicine in the world, people who fail are because they have not worked hard in the past, and time will always favor those who are prepared!" When you indulge, self-disciplined people always bury their heads in the effort; He runs forward, you go backwards, and the gap between them grows; Whether it was or is now, the world will always reward those self-disciplined children! ”
Self-discipline and non-discipline will really lead a very different life.
Often good grades do not depend on talent
It's years of self-discipline
Learning, in essence, is a self-discipline struggle. Those children with excellent grades are all serious and hardworking.
Brush questions, endorse, from morning to night... Even during the holidays are reviewing, preparing, doing exercise books...
Learning is never a one-time thing, and behind good grades are super self-discipline and diligence.
In 2021, Wu Jingqin, a boy from Hainan, scored 900 points in the exam, and was the only candidate in Hainan Province with a full score.
And this top student with full marks has a good habit, that is, self-discipline. His daily routine is very regular, he gets up immediately when the alarm clock goes off, and he never sleeps up; He knows when he is and what to do; He is always able to complete the learning tasks efficiently. Even after the college entrance examination, he does not indulge in fun.
Grades are not deceptive. The same is learning, how much effort you put in, how much will be rewarded.
Self-control determines your grades. No matter how high the talent is, without self-discipline, the talent will also be vulnerable.
Reading is a shortcut to changing your destiny
Effort is another name for miracles
Dong Qing said:
"Not reading in exchange for a lifetime of humility and bottom."
In this year's college entrance examination, Principal Zhang Guimei sent another 152 girls out of the mountain. She said:
"Save one girl, save three generations. The value of my life is to save a generation. ”
She desperately let the Dashan girls study, relying on strict cramming education, led these girls of Huaping Girls' High School to achieve remarkable results.
In order to change their destiny. Don't get stuck in the mountains, be independent. Today, these girls who have walked out of the mountains are shining in all walks of life. Become a teacher, lawyer, doctor, policeman...
Survive the hardships and difficulties of learning
to reap the rewards of life
Self-discipline is of course bitter! It requires time, energy and effort, as well as loneliness and temptations.
When others sleep in, you get up early to endorse; When others play games, you read books and do problems. You envy their relaxed life, no study, no games...
But there is a good saying: "What makes you cool now will surely make you miserable later." ”
Aristotle once said:
"What ultimately determines who we become is what we do day in and day out. Then you will find that excellence is not an act, but a habit. ”
There is no such thing as a free lunch and no happiness earned without hard work. Behind all the excellence is self-discipline deep in the bone.
If you want to be better, if you want to be envied, you have to be truly self-disciplined. Self-discipline + persistence is the only way to success.
As the famous poet Bingxin said:
"The flower of success, people only admire her current brilliance, but her buds were soaked with the tears of struggle and sprinkled with the blood of sacrifice."
Write at the end
The philosopher Kant said:
"The so-called freedom is not to do what you want, but to dominate yourself."
There are no shortcuts in life, only on your own. And managing the radius of life is empowering yourself.
Expand the cognitive radius infinitely, effectively control the radius of ability, and reasonably shrink the radius of desire. Only in the process of constantly enriching oneself can we reap the most well-deserved happiness.
Being excellent is not an act, but a habit.