The follow-up inheritance battle of "Grandpa and Sun Love" was staged, the heroine became the biggest loser, and the tragedy of the lack of father's love

No one expected that "grandfather and grandson love" seemed to be successfully completed, but it caused another storm.

Two months ago, 66-year-old Taiwanese music creator Li Kuncheng died, and everyone thought that his and Lin Jingen's "grandfather and grandson love" had come to a successful end.

At that time, Lin Jingen said on social media that Li Kuncheng was still listening to her broken thoughts in the end, and staged a picture of deep husband and wife.

Li Kuncheng's son Li Zhuoxuan is also quite generous in the disposal of inheritance, although his father left tens of millions of inheritances to Lin Jingen, he still said that "his father has given himself a lot."

However, less than two months after Li Kuncheng's death, this inheritance battle between his stepson and stepmother still began, and the two sides completely tore their faces.

Although the two sides eventually reached a settlement, there is no doubt that Lin Jingen lost all the battles.

Tracing the source of this "grandfather and grandson love", we can find that the original family that lacks father's love is the culprit of this tragedy.

The protagonist of "Grandpa and Sun Lian" died, and the stepson and stepmother set off a battle for inheritance

First of all, shortly after Li Kuncheng's death, his son Li Zhuoxuan suddenly published a public post on social media, accusing Lin Jingen of throwing things at home and destroying the old house.

When the police and ambulances arrived, they were unwilling to follow, the lights in the house were shattered, and the ashtray was smashed on the ground.

What's more, Li Zhuoxuan broke the news that Lin Jingen forged documents and Li Kuncheng's signature, and transferred the house to his own name.

Regarding this, Li Zhuoxuan released a recording in which Lin Jingen said: "I will do it." ”

As for Lin Jingen and Li Kuncheng getting married in the hospital, Li Zhuoxuan said that it was not a deep relationship between husband and wife at all, let alone "signing for hospitalization", but just to compete for family property.

However, despite the uproar between the stepson and the stepmother, reconciliation was finally ushered in.

On June 20, Li Kuncheng's son publicly stated on his father's social media that he had reached a settlement with Lin Jingen.

Li Kuncheng's property in Taichung is owned by Lin Jingen, and after deducting the loan, there is still room for profit of about 10 million Taiwan dollars (about 2.3 million yuan).

The copyright of Li Kuncheng, as well as the vinyl records that account for the largest part of the property, belong to Li Zhuoxuan, who said on social media that these cannot be immediately realized, and once there is a follow-up, it will be donated to charity.

Throughout this "grandfather and grandson love", Lin Jingen is undoubtedly a complete loser:

Not only did he pay for ten years of youth, but he also made a lot of rebellion, and even lost the ability to survive independently, and finally only got a house that was mortgaged 4 times and had little value left.

Whether this "yearless love" that has exploded public opinion is really happy, perhaps the answer is clear only to herself.

The original family that lacks father's love is the root cause of the tragedy

Why did Lin Jingen, who was 17 years old, walk with Li Kuncheng, who was 40 years older than him?

In fact, the root cause of the problem lies in her native family.

Lin Jingen grew up in a single-parent family, her parents divorced when she was very young, and she has been living with her mother.

But then her mother could not bear the financial pressure to raise her, so she had to send her to her father.

Since she was a child, she lacked her father's love, and she was in adolescence at that time, how could the father and daughter get along happily, the two sides often fought each other, and even Lin Jingen was sometimes beaten by her father.

However, at this time, Li Kuncheng, who is already a "veteran of the love scene", appeared, not only can have a lot of common topics with Lin Jingen in music, but also makes up for the lack of fatherly love in her heart, I am afraid that this is the root of this "grandfather and grandson love".

It can be said that the lack of a native family is the key to Lin Jingen's choice of Li Kuncheng, who is 40 years older than himself.

Perhaps Lin Jingen's situation is a little extreme, but in fact, it is not uncommon for fathers to be absent from their children's home education in modern society, which adversely affects the growth of children.

Many fathers do not take on their share of responsibility.

Daughters grow up healthily, and fatherly love is indispensable

As the first male in his daughter's life, the father constructed his daughter's first impression of a man.

And on top of this basic impression, the daughter will also learn how to get along with the opposite sex from the father, and it is precisely because of this that the way the daughter gets along with the opposite sex when she grows up will be closely related to the father's behavior.

From the perspective of child development psychology, the father's behavior in family education will have a great impact on the child's future mate choice.

And those girls who lack father's love from an early age are more likely to fall in love early in adolescence and more difficult to establish long-term stable relationships as adults.

But on the other hand, if, like Lin Jingen, the father fails to play a positive role, it will have an indelible negative impact on his daughter.

For example, the concept of choosing a mate is unhealthy, it is easy to form a giving personality, and even lose confidence in marriage, lose the ability to judge the correct view of marriage and love, and so on.

Therefore, "father's reign" is crucial to the daughter's upbringing, and "reign" here refers not only to spatial existence, but more importantly, to "psychological presence".

That is, being able to appear when your daughter is in need, and being able to participate in her daughter's activities frequently, has a positive impact on her daughter.

As Freud said:

"I can't imagine a child's need more intense than having the protection of a father."

For children, the presence of the father is crucial, the healthy growth of the daughter, and the father's love is indispensable.

Epilogue:

The lack of fatherly love is far more harmful to children than imagined, although the situation like Lin Jingen is slightly extreme, but the influence of fathers on children in the original family can be seen.

Finally, I hope that every father can try to give his children more companionship and help them establish a healthy concept of mate choice.

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