What are the "big" male stars in the entertainment industry doing now?

It's the first time I've heard that some fans call falling in love "career-minded".

A while ago, Song Weilong was in a romantic relationship, but he was on the hot search because of his career.

This has to start with the heroine of the love melon, Chen Qianyu.

Where does it come from?

Familiar, you can probably recognize it as the female partner in Song Weilong's upcoming drama "Lovesickness".

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Some netizens picked up that she is still the president of Shanghai film and television, and she wants to have achievements (the first in the drama in 19 years), and she wants RMB (the first in the krypton gold list of a certain game), in short, she is a proper rich second-generation Bai Fumei.

The so-called "career heart" turned out to be another love track to pave the way for his acting career.

Indeed, love, career, and public opinion are grasped with three hands, and Song Weilong is the biggest winner of this love melon.

One is a post-95s child with more experience in love than acting, and the other is a young, beautiful and golden-rich walking capital.

No, the entry of #赘婿# was immediately on the top of the hot search (how many people were tricked into thinking that it was "赘婿 2").

5G surfers should know that last year, the first year of your son-in-law was born 101.

Now Song Weilong is on top, and the "four major online reviews" should also be updated from time to time, and Chen Song's successfully made the list.

You must also see that the online review "Son-in-law 101" is not an inverted door in the popular sense, nor is it a serious selection, it is purely a pastime for fun people.

With the revenge of Guanfu's surname, he ridiculed a male star in the entertainment industry.

Today, simply break this melon and eat it, and come to a plate of your circle of the son-in-law universe.

The most uncontroversial online commentator is also He Dou, who "married" into a wealthy family a while ago, Dou Xiao.

In fact, looking at it alone, his conditions are not shameful.

The family conditions are not bad, coupled with the optimistic and delicate behavior, it is simply a walking emotional value manufacturing machine.

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In particular, he also knows some sincere romance, which is a fatal attraction for girls.

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If it weren't for the fact that the woman's home was too trenched, the word "son-in-law" might not have fallen on his head.

The low-end version is also Zhou Duan's and Duan Xingxing.

One is the little-known paste bean, and the only highlight after "Youth Has You" is that after the romance was exposed, it was hotly discussed because of "like a pig".

But what he was on his side was Zhou Yangqing, who Wang Sicong wanted to shout sister when he saw it.

The well-known rich second generation who once shocked Chen Weiting with a light and breezy phrase "Don't you have a starry sky top cinema".

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However, the son-in-law said that it is not only necessary to look at the gap in net worth, but also to see whether there is really a "poverty alleviation" reality.

Let's talk about Song Weilong mentioned at the beginning.

Speaking of which, in 99, he has been in the circle for 8 years, and he is almost the male protagonist. But the reputation of actual achievements has been empty, and so far has not made any reputation.

Last year, I tore my face with my old club Huanyu and made a hot search, but I suffered from too abusive resources, and the filming gap was nearly two years.

Coincidentally, this year's Song Weilong's resources are not to say soaring, it can be regarded as eating two big cakes.

One is "Acacia Order" by his partner Nose Sister, and the other is "Seven Hearts Jane" transmitted on the Internet.

It is not so much that his ability to tear resources after fighting alone is not self-taught, but more like an "old man" feeding resources directly.

Well, both are produced by Shanghai Film and Television.

For artists, in addition to resources, there is also fame.

Paste coffee actor Zhai Zilu, although he has played with Liu Shishi and Ke Jiajia, he is still wandering outside the 15th line.

But he undoubtedly found the fastest path to ascend in your circle——

Stamp yourself with the NABI logo and jump to "Ouyang Zhai" in a second.

Source|Bilibili@Ouyang Nana Nana, intimate interaction with Zhai Zilu in the vlog

As a result, Na fans collectively protested against the refusal to "alleviate poverty".

Also classified as Yu Bai Zhangshi and Zhang Linghe, who have just been removed from the "Four Great Sons-in-law".

Although the male star Bailu is only a limited line of entertainment, she can't stand that she has a top boss.

If Bai Lu hadn't killed himself, there would probably still be a place for him among the "sons-in-law".

There is also a category of sons-in-law, which is more than actual performance.

For example, Liu Haoran, who was ridiculed by the Zhou Liu clan. After meeting Zhou Dongyu after the three golden shadows, Mo said that he, who is the same age group is actually enough to choke.

But Liu Haoran is a ten-billion actor and national brother. Zhang Yan's Yan Xujia, Ma Zhang's Zhang Zhexuan, I can't even say a word of respect and blessing anyway.

Zhang Zifeng and Ma Sichun, although they are still far from first-line actors, they are also actresses with works and reputation.

As a result, one found a sleeping powder ugly idol, and the other found a black material band man.

Sister Ma, why don't you love soil

These two pairs are both official announcements that wash powder, subjective guest viewing, both belong to the large-scale wife killing scene.

Along the way, you will find that the woman may not be a wealthy family, but the man is either backward in career development, or paste, or even a collapse in word of mouth.

Son-in-law 101 is more like another ridiculous note on the strength of women and weak men.

In the entertainment industry, the strength of women and the weakness of men can be roughly quantified as the imbalance of resources between men and women.

Under this premise, the concept of "son-in-law" actually represents a kind of "transaction".

First, men are often the beneficiaries of resource skew.

The typical representative of this sense reminds me of Zheng Shaoqiu, who once paved the way with his ex-wife Shen Dianxia.

Shen Dianxia was born in Shanghai into a family of tobacco merchants, and her own family conditions were good.

As one of TVB's earliest artists, she began to host TVB's ace program "Happy Tonight" in 1967, becoming the first pillar of TVB and the pistachio of the Hong Kong people. At that time, he also formed the Silver Rat Team with six big coffee brothers such as Xie Xian and Chen Ziqiang, and Fat Sister was the only youngest sister in the band. Fame and good popularity, natural contacts are also wide.

1978 Happy Tonight Celebration of Taiwan

And when Fat Sister's career was in full swing, Qiu Guan still spent a bitter career start in a stage play with a monthly salary of 50, and caught up with Chinese films during the Shaw training class, and Cantonese films were cold, until they signed a TVB contract to be on the right track, and the two also intersected.

When Hong Kong action movies were not accepted, the 1976 version of "Book Sword and Revenge" became the starting point of his fame.

It is said that when the role was set, Fat Sister found the famous martial arts instructor Liu Jialiang to help Zheng Shaoqiu win the role, and also persuaded his friend Rowan to give up the opportunity to give up the theme song of the play.

Of course, Zheng Shaoqiu's own business ability is strong, diligent and clever, and the fat sister herself also praises.

Such a son-in-law who has real material in itself, what is lacking is just opportunities and springboards. Even if it is not self-reliant at first, the endurance after sucking blood is full.

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Second, in return, the woman must be able to draw some value beyond the "provision of love."

It is not difficult to find that not all online commentators are sarcastic.

Those who are not even qualified as artists themselves are naturally not redundant, but will only make people think that he is some kind of poison among actresses.

And some sons-in-law will still be blessed because they can provide positive value to the woman, or form a benign complement with it.

For example, Ma Zhang CP. At the beginning of the relationship exposure, not to mention fans, even passers-by were not worth anything for Ma Si.

But later, seeing that Sister Ma was getting better and better, the smile on her face became more and more, and she slowly shattered the puzzlement and worry of outsiders.

According to her, Zhang Zhexuan made her love herself more and became no longer humble.

In the past, when we were in love, we used to keep our mouths shut and eat losses, but now in this relationship, we are "becoming more and more quarrelsome" and more and more daring to express themselves.

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Another example is Xiu Jiekai and Li Chengxuan, this kind of family man who is originally warm and delicate.

We all know that Jia Jingwen's acting achievements far exceed her husband's, but Xiu Jiekai can find her own home in life.

Jia Jingwen is a little cook, and cooking dumplings in her own home is visibly rusty.

Source|"Mom is Superman"

And Xiu Jiekai just happened to cook a good meal.

She is also so detailed that she knows Jia Jingwen's wardrobe better than herself, and she will ask him anything she can't find.

Source|"Mom is Superman"

Before Li Chengxuan participated in the rejuvenation of Phi Ge's career, his career development was not as good as Qi Wei.

Considering that male stars have a longer career life than female stars, they take the initiative to become full-time milkmen in the years when their children need to be taken care of the most, so that their wives can work with peace of mind after returning after giving birth.

It is true that the wife's fame is greater than theirs, but the son-in-law may not be a shameful label for them.

Because in the relationship, they always have the value that can stabilize their position.

According to the rules of our ancestors, since they are named as sons-in-law, men must abide by the three virtues and four virtues, and don't spoil the way of the husband.

But some sons-in-law are restless and can always make some movement in marriage.

Zhong Liti has cried in front of the camera several times and was questioned about the discord with Zhang Lunshuo after marriage

It is known that Zheng Shaoqiu had cheated in marriage, and two years after the birth of his daughter Zheng Xinyi, he married Guan Jinghua, leaving Shen Dianxia alone to pull the eldest daughter.

It's hard to imagine how humble such a lively, confident and powerful person is in this relationship.

Later, he even quit TVB, accompanied him to Taiwan for Zheng Shaoqiu's career, not only served as an agent for him, found resources, but also took care of his living and living, and often drove him to deliver supper.

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She previously suffered from high blood pressure and heart disease, and after the divorce, she suffered from postpartum depression and diabetes.

What is even more chilling is that she has noticed Zheng Shaoqiu's changes since she was pregnant, and when she learned the news, he only indifferently advised:

"Be careful, watch out for my son."

Everyone in the world scolded Qiu Guan for being affectionate, and sighed that the fat sister was in love with the brain.

Indeed, the one who loves more in the relationship is to be a selfless great man while being an emotional beggar.

Shen Dianxia has said more than once in front of the camera that the warning left by this 14-year relationship is that women cannot be too strong.

Source|《Lu Yu Has an Appointment》

Familiar or not?

In the end of many women's strong and weak men's feelings, women are so introspective.

Chung Liti also attributed the same after two marriages.

Maybe I was too strong or not patient enough before

Still don't know how to give face to men

You are God in front of your friends, and I will do nothing

Source|《Lu Yu Has an Appointment》

But is that really the case?

Zheng Shaoqiu once explained that a small man like himself wants a little bird Yiren, not a big woman like Fat Sister.

This was later fulfilled in his marriage to Guan Jinghua. He did lead a stable life, and there were few scandals later.

But if you think about it, his statement is actually untenable.

Back then, Shen Dianxia gave up her career and self-esteem for him, wasn't she a little woman enough?

It can be seen that the fault is never that the woman is too strong, but the man is too bad.

A truly benign relationship never taboos which side is too strong and suppresses its own power. Instead, he will be honest with his weaknesses first, and then actively bridge the gap between the two.

The most successful case is Ouyang Zhenhua, who was once known as the "ancestor of hundreds of billions of sons-in-law".

His wife, Fu Jiexian, is the granddaughter of Fu Laorong, the "first generation of Macau's gambling king" (Stanley Ho's predecessor), and is a veritable wealthy family with assets of about 8 billion Hong Kong dollars.

And Ouyang Zhenhua, who was still running tricks on TVB that year, was naturally ridiculed by the Hong Kong media for many years.

Especially in the era when the artists in the same period had Tony Leung and Wu Zhenyu, Ouyang Zhenhua was not a standard handsome guy, and it was more difficult to get through.

But fortunately, he seems to have a wonderful audience.

In 1992, Ouyang Zhenhua played the leading role for the first time in "No. 1 Royal Court" and became a "master killer", and everyone finally began to pay attention to this actor with good acting skills, good looks and likableness, and affectionately called him Ouyang fat.

The millennium "Washing Wrongs" even made him win the throne of the emperor, and the ten-year dragon set finally survived the actual results.

He has been ridiculed for many years with the name of his son-in-law, and it is false to say that there is no wave in his heart, but Ouyang Zhenhua's choice of self-certification is to focus on his acting career and live a good married life more attentively (Zhang Jin is too).

Because of his hearty and humorous personality, Ouyang Zhenhua has a deep friendship with many actresses, but he has never seen scandals, and he is dead in guarding male morality.

Xuanxuan, a friend for more than 20 years, has commented on him, and he is the kind of decent gentleman who can safely open the corner of his clothes and pat his belly in front of him after eating. I have been in the circle for many years, but my body is not contaminated with the smelly problems of old fritters.

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Looking back, the infamy of his son-in-law in the past has pushed him to his current achievements, adding a bit of inspiration.

Nowadays, public opinion is obviously much more tolerant of the sons-in-law.

But it is also because of the lightness of the ridicule that I can't help but think of the weight of humiliation that has always been humiliating actresses marrying wealthy families.

The change from "redundant son-in-law" to "enterprising" symbolizes a subtle iteration of popular emotions. Now "soft rice and hard food" has become a capital that can be flaunted, and "big money" is still crucified and cannot be turned over.

I have no intention of washing away money worship, I just want to say, please be fair.

Zhang Linghe, who had just been removed from the "Four Great Concubines", was pity for the Emperor and only got scolding; Zhou Dongyu didn't lose anything, but what Liu Haoran lost was the popularity of the passers-by; Wei Daxun and Qin Lan were filmed, and everyone would only envy "your kid's vision for finding a girlfriend is really amazing"; And people like Yan Xujia and Zhang Zhexuan who have no popularity will only be said to have the ability to eat soft rice, and there will be no social harm that can destroy the career, but the sister-in-law will in turn be scolded for being blind in love.

After the scumbag with a bad track record is on the film, he should be praised as a model. And if you reverse it, what will happen to the woman?

Oh, it turns out that nothing has changed, or she was scolded.

Of course, in any relationship with unequal resources, "soft rice man" and "vanity woman" are originally insults given by society, and may not represent personal choice.

In Vanity Fair, these are mostly jokes, and there is no need to be serious.

I only hope that after the son-in-law is blown into the sky, no matter how women in the future marry Gao Pan, they will be stained because of this, and they will not only leave a bad name.

Becoming a wife was already a difficult road, and the future was uncertain. It would be pitiful if the dowry was only invective and ridicule.