When people reach middle age, the focus of life is placed on work, family and children, reading has become a "dessert" in daily life, while replenishing energy, more than one point of practice, let me lean down to be friends with children; walk into the hearts of children and families, listen to their voices. ——Zhao Shu, pediatrician at Anshan Central Hospital
"Every day when children write homework, it is also the time when my lover and I read. Sometimes I accompany my children to class, and I also use this time to go into the bookstore and pick out two books that interest me. Or take the book with you, my daughter studying inside, and I'm out charging. Over time, it becomes a habit. Parents are the best teachers for their children, and we want to lead by example and set an example for our children. Zhao Shu said that the impact of reading on herself has penetrated every field of daily life. Since she had a daughter, she has also become more empathetic to her profession. At work, the parents of the children are panicked and anxious about every problem encountered by the children in their growth, and she is very understanding and has more patience. In order to express professional medical knowledge more easily and easily for parents to understand, she flipped through a large number of related books, for which she recommended a series of works by Cui Yutao, she said: "This series of books is very rich, and every family can prepare one. There are a lot of medical knowledge explained above is very life-like, in daily life, parents encounter related problems do not have to be so nervous, even if it is a baby, they also have their own way of expression, understand their way of expression, but also convenient for parents to solve problems. ”
In daily education, Zhao Shu admitted that she has paid more attention to her children's self-cultivation from the original focus on achievements. "We are also parents for the first time, how to be a good mother, there is no school, teachers to teach, can only refer to their parents' education methods." But the times are different, and the education methods of the previous generation do not have much reference value for us to educate the next generation. The only way to open the book is to see how those education experts have answered these questions, and then combine their own educational philosophy and the characteristics of children to teach according to their aptitudes. Zhao Shu said that learning is uninterrupted, and it will not be because you grow up and enter the workplace, you will graduate from school, and there is no need to learn again. Each age group has different problems to face, and reading is the most effective and convenient means of learning. To learn without thinking is to be reckless, and to think without learning is to perish. Blindly reading books without thinking will not be able to make reasonable and effective use of book knowledge because you cannot deeply understand the meaning of books. However, if you blindly dream and do not study and study, you will eventually build a tower on the sand and gain nothing.
On weekdays, in addition to reading some professional fields and family and education books, Zhao Shu also likes to read some science fiction books, including some extracurricular books recommended by her daughter's school, which she likes to read. She said that the opening of the book is beneficial, the benefit of reading is silent, no need to worry, no need to be anxious, we face a variety of problems, the book has long listed the methods of solving the problem, just waiting for you to find, and eventually become a reference plan to guide your life.
Recommended Books for Readers:
"Growing tall is no longer a dream"
"A good mother is better than a good teacher"
Cui Yutao Parenting Encyclopedia
"Cui Yutao Illustrated Family Parenting" (set of 10 volumes)
The Three-Body Problem
My First Diary