How to cultivate a good temperament?
1. No matter when and where, you must hold your chest up, work your waist and abdomen, straighten your chest, and not lower your head and waist.
2. When speaking, slow down the speed of speech, speak clearly, and be resolute and firm. Observe the other person's performance as you talk. People who speak too fast tend to lack thinking and are prone to speechlessness.
3. Think more when you're okay, don't always look down and play with your phone.
4. The eyes must be firm, when expressing your position, you cannot lower your head, you cannot turn your eyes, that is a manifestation of weakness and cannot be respected by others.
5. When standing, straighten your neck, so that there is naturally a kind of aristocracy. The so-called will be the top, the view of the mountains and small.
6. When walking, stride meteors, can't lower your head, look sick, gassed.
7. Even when you are with friends, try to be rigorous, do not laugh easily, and do not make some low-level jokes. Keep this in mind, especially in front of ladies.
8. When entering a lady's room, be sure to knock first, even if it is your own family. It is also a gesture of elegance.
9. Be bold and speak your point of view in front of the other person. At this time, look directly at the other person, do not wander, this will reveal the hesitation in your heart.
10. Finally, from now on, try to cultivate your temperament!
Remember the story of Cao Cao?
According to the book "The World Speaks New Words", although Cao Cao was the prime minister of a country and later became the king of Wei, he was not very satisfied with his image. Because Cao Cao was not tall and ordinary in appearance, he lacked some self-confidence in front of a group of majestic civilian military generals.
Once, as King of Wei, he had a diplomatic mission: to receive Xiongnu emissaries who had come all the way. Cao Cao frowned over this matter, and in front of the envoys of ethnic minorities, he could not lose the face of a big country. What to do? In the end, he thought of a way to let a person disguise himself and replace himself to meet the envoy.
This imposter is his subordinate, the famous man Cui Yan. This Cui Yan, burly and dignified-looking, was a beautiful man who was one of the best in a hundred miles at that time. That day, he dressed up as a great king and sat on the throne symbolizing power, but his heart was pounding. And Cao Cao himself, dressed in the clothes of a guard, pretended to be the king's attendant, holding a knife and standing beside Cui Yan.
After this meeting, Cao Cao sent someone to ask the Xiongnu messenger: "What do you think of this person King Wei?" Unexpectedly, the messenger replied like this: King Wei is good-looking, noble and elegant. But I think that the man standing next to King Wei and holding the knife is the real hero.
Such an example, there is also the President of the United States, Franklin. Roosevelt. Even if he is in a wheelchair, he will have a very powerful aura, which is unparalleled temperament!
