"The most correct decision I made in my life was to give birth to my daughter at the age of 41."
This was Chen Chen's heartfelt exclamation after giving birth.
Friends who followed her earlier may know that the love story between her and host Cheng Lei was a fairy tale in the hearts of many people a long time ago.
The two met on TV, and the relationship without any quarrels for 7 years made countless people feel envious, but in the end they were separated.
Now many years later, Chen Chen gave birth to a child for her husband, who is 2 years younger than herself; Cheng Lei married a wife who was 18 years younger than himself and retired from the screen.
Chen Chen was born in a well-off family in Zhejiang, and her family was very attentive to her education, even a little harsh.
Before Chen Chen went to kindergarten, her mother bought her a set of "Commonly Used Chinese Characters", determined to complete all of Chen Chen's primary school.
So most of the time, Chen Chen stayed at home to read, and over time she became a little introverted.
This was not a good sign, so her parents began to find ways to exercise her courage again.
After communicating with the kindergarten teacher many times, Chen Chen was often pulled up on the stage by the teacher to speak.
Finally, under the various adjustments of her parents, Chen Chen became a generous little girl, and when she was 4 years old, she was already able to be a little host at the evening party held by the kindergarten.
Before going on stage, Chen Chen's heart was very apprehensive, and he even didn't understand why his parents had to let themselves do these things, and why he couldn't sit quietly under the stage and watch the show like other children.
But the moment she stepped on stage, she realized: I belong here.
In the following years, from kindergarten to primary school, she was indispensable for all the activities hosted in the school, and even in elementary school, some people ridiculed her as the school's "royal host".
In the examination of junior high school, Chen Chen's performance was very good, and his results could be admitted to the best public-funded junior high school in the local area. But her parents sent her to a private Chinese school.
"It's too time-consuming to go back and forth, you can live on campus in the future and spend more time studying."
Before leaving, her parents also bought her a whole set of various English dictionaries, what it means is self-evident.
"I memorized it all before the third year of junior high school."
Although they knew that Chen Chen could understand what they meant, their parents couldn't help but instruct.
Such a growing environment made Chen Chen suffer a lot of pressure, and she would also feel resentful on some tired nights, why she had to work so hard since she was a child.
I finally stayed up until the summer vacation, thinking that I could take a little rest when I went home, but as soon as I returned home, my parents threw her a set of rolls.
"Do I have to study all the time? Don't I need a break? ”
Emotions exploded in an instant, and Chen Chen cried and questioned his parents.
Seeing this, the parents did not say much, but quietly waited for Chen Chen's emotions to calm down.
"Of course, learning is not the only thing in life, but only by studying well will you have the opportunity and the right to choose the life you want in the future."
The father comforted.
Chen Chen, who heard this, did not immediately agree, but when night came and her thoughts flowed, she realized the reality of her parents' words.
The next day, after apologizing to her parents, she plunged into intense study, at this time, she released the pressure of "persecution" and devoted herself to fighting for her future.
After graduating from high school, she lived up to her parents' expectations and was admitted to Shanghai Overseas Chinese University.
However, this short-lived goal in life has been accomplished, what should be done next? Chen Chen, who had been studying all day and had no time to take care of others, was a little confused.
But as Chen Chen's parents said: "The knowledge that is remembered in your mind will one day guide your future." ”
In his junior year, "Little Shenlong Club" came to select a small host, and the experience of being a host when he was a child and the solid English skills accumulated in junior high school suddenly made Chen Chen stand out.
In this way, when Chen Chen did not have any preparations, she embarked on the road of hosting.
This experience not only determined her future career direction, but also brought a person to her: her first love, Cheng Lei.
Cheng Lei is a young man from Shanghai, and his parents are both teachers.
It stands to reason that the final career path of children born in such a family configuration will be more conservative, but Cheng Lei has always had his own ideas, he has been very interested in the entertainment industry since he was a child, and what he wants to do most is to become an actor.
In 1990, Cheng Lei was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy through hard work.
This year, he is 19 years old, everyone may be a little shocked to say it, he and Xu Zheng are still roommates.
However, Lei did not get along with Xu Zheng much due to personality reasons, and Xu Zheng once said in an interview that Cheng Lei had little sense of existence in college.
So when I saw him take up the post of host many years later, it was still a little unbelievable.
After graduation, Cheng Lei hosted excellent programs such as "China's Got Talent", and he was an introvert who didn't know why he became humorous and funny as soon as he stood on the stage.
In short, he has gained a lot of attention and love, and he can be regarded as fulfilling his ideals to a certain extent.
It was also at work that Cheng Lei was familiar with Chen Chen, who was still in school but was fortunate enough to intern at the TV station.
Cheng Lei once said that the first time he saw Chen Chen, he had an inexplicable liking for this girl, and later no matter what help Chen Chen needed, he could always appear at the first time.
As an official host, he also gave Chen Chen a lot of help in his work.
With the help of Cheng Lei, Chen Chen's progress was rapid.
After graduation, she saw the opportunity and entered Oriental Satellite TV, and became a real colleague with Cheng Lei.
In 2002, Chen Chen was transferred to "Entertainment Online" to host the program, she was a little apprehensive in her heart, but Cheng Lei was always there to comfort and help her practice.
Under such interaction, the relationship between the two slowly changed, and it was logical to fall in love with the blessing of everyone.
Seven years flew by, and everyone was looking forward to the day when the two announced the good news, but they broke up.
There are different opinions about the reasons for the breakup, some people say that Cheng Lei found out that he had a family genetic disease and did not want to drag Chen Chen down, so he proposed to break up.
But judging from the fact that Cheng Lei got married later, I am afraid that this statement is not the truth of the matter.
But no matter what, the two can be regarded as a peaceful breakup.
There is neither quarrel nor avoidance between the two, and they often appear together in some shows after the breakup, which is decent.
Later, Cheng Lei went around and married a girl named Wang Mengmeng, gave birth to a big fat boy, and lived a happy life.
After the breakup, Chen Chen inevitably encountered a period of emotional trough, so she began to paralyze herself with high-intensity work.
In the end, she successfully appeared in the circle with shows such as "My Type Me Show".
Before everyone knew it, she had even come out of her emotional hurt and had a new relationship.
It was when he went out to interview musicians, and Chen Chen met guest Yu Di.
Yu Di is a Sichuan baby, 2 years younger than Chen Chen.
He was obsessed with music, devoted almost all of his energy to the music career in the first half of his life, and went abroad to participate in various competitions at the age of 20.
After walking around, he returned to China and began to contribute to the opera career.
Because of his dedication to work, he has never had time to think about his personal problems.
Seeing that Yu Di is in his thirties, his family often feels anxious about this and arranges one blind date after another for him, but he is unwilling to go.
"I am a person who believes in fate, if that person does not appear, I am willing to wait, but I don't want to settle, I am afraid that I will regret it."
With such belief, he finally waited for Chen Chen.
Chen Chen's personality is very lively, although he is 2 years older than himself, but many times his performance is not as calm as himself, but it is such a Chen Chen that deeply attracts the attention of Yu Di.
In addition to being lively, Chen Chen's thirst for knowledge also surprised and admired Yu Di.
At all times, her thinking is always learning, which not only makes her look very wise, but also makes her very understanding and tolerant of others.
After the two met through interviews, they often contacted each other and became acquaintances.
After chatting a lot, the two developed a good impression of each other, so "Cupid, the god of love", quietly descended to them, and the two developed from love to cohabitation.
It's a lifelong commitment to each other.
But due to the different growing environment, there is inevitably some friction between the two.
Chen Chen is a Zhejiang girl, from the snack is Huaiyang cuisine, the taste is light; And Yu Di is a proper Sichuanese with no spicy and unhappy.
Once Yu Di took Chen Chen home to meet his parents, and in the face of a table full of dishes, Chen Chen did not move a few times, but just ate a large bowl of rice.
Afterwards, Yudi was a little angry, feeling that she was rude to her family, whether she disliked them.
"You forgot I can't eat spicy?"
A small question full of grievances suddenly pulled Yu Di's sanity back, and this time I was so happy to go home that I forgot that my girlfriend couldn't eat spicy.
But fortunately, Chen Chen is a person who puts everything on his lips and never hides it, and it is precisely this that allows the two to solve it at the first time even if there is some small friction.
With the passage of time, the relationship between the two did not dim because of the disappearance of freshness, but because of the continuous running-in and getting along more and more comfortable, the two married low-key.
That year, Hunan Satellite TV's music program "Sound into People's Hearts" was in full swing, and a singer named Yudi did a big thing in this program.
At that time, one of the parts of the program group was: each singer prepared a song to sing to the most important person in his life.
And the object of the embergance singing is Chen Chen, and a song "Soft Talk" reveals the relationship between the two.
Everyone found out that every time Yu Di played, Chen Chen would sit down low-key, but because she was really low-key, everyone never noticed that anything was wrong.
Although the daily life of the two is very low-key, this does not mean that there is no passion and ritual between the two, on the contrary, their lives are full of "sugar".
Every festival they have walked hand in hand, every festival related to couples, they will write down some small feelings to record the mood of the moment.
In 2020, the crystallization of their love was born, and Chen Chen happily announced the good news to everyone on social platforms.
As a husband, Yu Di turned his wife's dynamics in seconds and confessed affectionately: Hard work!
It is reported that when Chen Chen gave birth to her daughter, she was a real elderly mother, and the 41-year-old doctor did not recommend her to have a child, but in order to bring new life to the family, she resolutely chose to bear this hard work and risk.
On Women's Day this year, Chen Chen also appeared on a program, and the host asked curiously: Why did you choose to take this risk in the first place?
"I never felt like it was an adventure, it was courage because of love." Chen Chen replied.
There are too many misses in this world, but each miss may be to meet someone who suits them better, and those who have briefly occupied their lives should let them stay in the gap in time.
In the end, Chen Chen and Cheng Lei both achieved happiness, and this was the best ending.