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Having given birth to four daughters, how much suffering you suffered at the beginning, how many blessings you should enjoy now

author:Aunt Wang is in Shanghai

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We have four sisters, because my parents gave birth to four girls, and I was always scolded as "no one." Now, all four daughters are doing well, and my father is finally raising his eyebrows.

Having given birth to four daughters, how much suffering you suffered at the beginning, how many blessings you should enjoy now

When my father was 20 years old, he married my mother, my mother was only 16 years old at the time, and my 16-year-old mother was still a child and didn't understand anything, but my father was a kind person, although he didn't love my mother, but he was still good for my mother.

Later, my mother gave birth to four daughters, and I was even more unpopular with my mother-in-law, and when I was eight years old, we separated from my grandparents.

After the separation, it happened that the production had been divided into households at that time, and the family was divided into more than a dozen acres of responsible land, and my parents had to go to work in the fields, and the housework fell on the eight-year-old me and the six-year-old second sister.

Having given birth to four daughters, how much suffering you suffered at the beginning, how many blessings you should enjoy now

Every time Mom and Dad came back from work, Mom was not satisfied with us, either beating or scolding, Dad always protected us.

I remember once, I boiled a pot of porridge paste, the porridge cooked in the pot outside, the pig food cooked in the pot inside, the pig food overflowed, overflowed into the porridge.

I was burning the pot underneath, unaware of it, and when Mom and Dad came back to eat, the porridge turned into pig food, and Mom was very angry, not just because she was hungry, but also because food was so precious at that time, so I wasted a pot of food.

Mom probably didn't mean it, she washed the pot on it, and accidentally threw the spatula in my face, and the spatula was very sharp and stuck under my nose, and I was bleeding a lot, much blood.

My mother was also scared, and treated my wound with brown sugar, and when my father came back, my father saw the wound on my face and lost his temper with my mother for the first time. Just for this matter, Dad ignored Mom for a month.

There is a family in our village named Zhou, and their family has three sons, and his field is in front of my house, and every time he passes in front of my house, he always says something cool. It was laughing at my father that he didn't have a son, and the man said, "A farmer can't do without a son!" ”

He also occupies my family's land, and his family's land is connected to mine, and every year he has to gouge a little more in my family's land to turn my family's land into theirs.

My mom wasn't convinced, she wanted to fight with him, my dad was talkative, my dad said forget it, and the more my dad let him, the more he had to get in, and finally most of my family's land was taken over by their family.

His reason was strong, he said: "Your family has no son anyway, what do you want to do so much?" ”

The honest father was so angry that he couldn't speak, and his mother went to argue with them, and his father also advised his mother not to quarrel.

Having given birth to four daughters, how much suffering you suffered at the beginning, how many blessings you should enjoy now

The three sons of the old Zhou family all dropped out of school early to farm at home, while my father's four daughters and my father all studied for us, two college students, one junior high school student, and one junior high school student.

Because Lao Zhou had three sons, built a house for his son, married his daughter-in-law, and was overworked, he fell ill and died in his 60s. My father's four daughters are very filial and are now living happily.

I am my father's eldest daughter, in fact, my father loves me very much, after marriage, my father is most satisfied with me: I have a good reputation in my in-laws' family, and everyone is saying that I am virtuous.

Dad appreciates the second sister the most, because the second sister has been very smart and diligent since she was a child, and her father raised her as a son, and the second sister has always been difficult to do, and has always been the pride of her father.

Our third sister is the most promising, she has been very self-disciplined since she was a child, she studied very hard, and her father taught her since she was a child, she must study hard and strive to jump out of the farm. The third sister lived up to expectations, was admitted to college, found a good job, and her father is now the most satisfied with her.

Dad is the most pampered to the little sister, and every time he gets tired after returning from work, he has to put the little sister on his lap and sit. The pampered little sister was not pampered and proud, she was admitted to the technical secondary school, graduated from the technical secondary school, came to Shanghai to work, studied herself with a university diploma, and later found a good job in Wenzhou.

Having given birth to four daughters, how much suffering you suffered at the beginning, how many blessings you should enjoy now

Dad is still quite satisfied with our four sisters, at least the four of us are better than the three sons of the old Zhou family, and they are more filial than them, and Dad is now happy. How much suffering you suffered when you were young, how much blessings you will enjoy now!