#2023高考季 #
Graduate exams are held every year, and there are many "strange things" this year. In today's society, the level of education is getting higher and higher, so the number of people who choose to enter graduate school to improve their academic qualifications is also increasing. It is said that the number of graduate students in this batch has reached 4.74 million, and the acceptance rate does not exceed 20%, which shows the pressure!
A post-95 girl, preparing for the exam after graduation, her parents felt that the postgraduate examination was stressful, in order to relieve her daughter's pressure and increase her confidence, they decided to accompany her to take the exam. But in the end, the results came out, and both parents who accompanied the exam went ashore, but as the main "horn" she fell off the list, such a result made her cry and laugh!
In today's society, the logic that as long as you have a dream and are willing to struggle, you will definitely succeed has obviously changed. After all, this big ship can't accommodate the dreams of too many people!
In the context of the new era, in this post-graduate school era, how should we treat the matter of postgraduate examination rationally, patiently and strategically?
About rationality: look at yourself correctly and accept frustration
Every year, millions of people will fail the postgraduate examination, including many students who take the second and third exams and the fourth exam. Do these people have to be arrogant and deny themselves? You know, there are many reasons why you can't go to graduate school, and it's not because you haven't worked hard enough.
In fact, a lot of pain in life stems from fighting too hard with yourself. A leaf of blindness, so that they do not know what they really need, and they cannot see themselves correctly, so they fall into endless self-blame and frustration.
Sometimes, what makes us feel tormented is not the difficulty itself, but our own excessive interpretation of the difficulty. Too much internal friction, carrying the weight forward, eventually leading to loss of direction!
We must understand that people's lives are very long, and the years of graduate school are only one of the stations. Just like a song, no one cares about certain syllables in the song, the whole song is the complete experience process, there is no need to stay too much for the fragment, otherwise it will become noise.
Life is like this, sometimes you try your best, and the results are still not satisfactory. Success doesn't have to be too important, it's important to have worked hard. In this life, only by learning to look at themselves correctly and accepting frustration can they truly grow!
About patience: Perseverance so that you will not fail yourself
Life is impermanent, with ups and downs. Falling into a trough is frustrating, but thinking about it the other way around, it is not the best opportunity to add value. Because at this time, you can clearly see where your weaknesses are and how you need to improve.
Those who secretly accumulate strength and accumulate thick and thin hair are often in awe. We have to remember that anything, to change from bad to good, takes a long process, and finally achieves a qualitative leap.
The entrance examination is a very patient thing, only by persevering and working hard can you not fail yourself. Of course, the graduate school entrance examination is not the end, on the contrary, after the successful graduate school entrance examination, it is the beginning of life. I believe that the emperor will pay off, and all the hard work will be rewarded!
Not successfully landing means that we still have shortcomings. The next thing to do is to find it and overcome it in a targeted manner. Maybe work a little harder, have a deeper understanding of the postgraduate examination, and the next person ashore will be you.
For those who do not successfully land, it is not necessarily a lack of competence. If we can let go of our less important preferences and vanities, and re-examine and target aspirations, it may be a completely different result.
About strategy: Life is not a slope, but a shortcut
Although persistence is very important, we must also understand a truth: you must not continue to walk to reach the peak! Brave the rapids and swim against the current, while the spirit is commendable, but it is not a wise move. For people to live thoroughly, there must be a strategy behind every challenge.
Make events appear in the right place at the right time. Life is not a slope, but a ladder, there are difficulties at each level, and no matter how hard you work before overcoming the difficulties to achieve a leap, you will spin in place.
The entrance examination is a complex process with multiple links, such as choosing a college, major, registration, preliminary examination, re-examination, etc. Many candidates are not defeated in their learning ability, but they have problems in choosing colleges and majors, or they can't grasp the key points at all in preparing for the exam!
So you may give more than others, but it doesn't help. The so-called wrong step, wrong step. If you fail the graduate school entrance examination, it is not that you have not worked hard enough, sometimes it may just be a little bit of bad luck.
To say that the shortcut to the success of the postgraduate examination, it is not for nothing, in addition to making enough efforts, you can also find a reliable postgraduate examination institution.
In general, the role of the postgraduate examination institution is to provide professional counseling. Accurate grasp of the key points, difficult points, hot spots, propositional ideas, etc. of the exam can help quickly sort out the knowledge points and test points, so that the review is more organized, more focused and more targeted.
Some of the better institutions can also provide some time-sensitive internal materials and internal information.
epilogue
There are always many accidents and helplessness in life, instead of lamenting and regretting, it is better to adjust your state, learn to learn from failures and let the tree of wisdom blossom.
Life is full of ups and downs, and in the vulgar period, in addition to self-transit, others can not help. For the entrance examination, we should be rational, patient and strategic. In due time, learn to borrow and find shortcuts, sometimes one choice is enough to change the whole life!
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