Dong Jie first talked about the divorce turmoil, but the comment area overturned, netizens: She was scolded, not surprised
2023 is destined to be an extraordinary year for Dong Jie. At the age of 43, she ushered in the second spring of her career and became popular again.
Recently, in an interview, Dong Jie happily shared her live broadcast results. When I recalled the divorce turmoil again, the sadness and sincerity that could not be hidden between the words:
"That decade was really messy. 10 years seems like 20 years for me..."
But the comment area is uniform, helping her to recall online, and even feels that she was scolded by herself:
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Now, looking at the "divorce war" and "son grabbing battle" 11 years ago, the two closest people ended hastily and sadly.
It also made them, who had stood at the top, all fell into the quagmire, and neither Dong Jie nor Pan Yueming was the winner. And this endless pulling finally came to an end.
On Dingding's birthday, Pan Yueming sent a video to celebrate his birthday, and immediately, Dong Jie also forwarded the dynamic: He must be getting better and better.
After 11 years, Dong Jie finally returned to Pan Yueming.
This century reconciliation instantly triggered heated discussions on the Internet.
There was a lot of trouble when they divorced, but now they finally let go and shook hands and made peace.
On the bodies of Dong Jie and Pan Yueming, Sister Pickpocket seems to have seen many divorced couples, how deeply they once loved, how strong their hatred was.
They also blamed each other, separated in embarrassing ways, and for a time did not communicate with each other. But I forgot the sincerity and true love that I used to be together, and in the end, both were defeated and each ended up scarred.
Perhaps releasing the past does not necessarily mean forgiveness, but at least time will wash everything and dilute the unpleasantness that has happened.
Letting go after many years is just a "release from prison" for oneself.
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As we all know, since Wang Xiaofei and Da S announced their divorce, the two have torn each other apart like a horse-grabbing serial, which is ironic.
No, a few days ago, the two had another turmoil, and Big S warned Wang Xiaofei again.
The cause of the incident was that when Wang Xiaofei celebrated her son's birthday, she released positive photos of her two children.
In the photo, Wang Xiaofei is holding a pair of children, her face is full of smiles, and her happiness is overflowing.
But I didn't expect that such a warm and happy moment would be fleeting.
Da S was quite dissatisfied with Wang Xiaofei's act of privately posting positive photos of her children and prepared to file a lawsuit. Helplessly, Wang Xiaofei had to delete the photo with the children, leaving only a blurry back.
This also provoked many netizens to hold grievances for him.
Some netizens who couldn't get angry also picked up the big S double standard, and they used a photo with their daughter as the cover when the book was published.
A simple birthday party caused the former husband and wife to fight each other, and there was really no love between the two.
Such a scene has long been common among audiences. Since the divorce of the two, Da S took Wang Xiaofei to court for failing to fulfill the divorce agreement. Wang Xiaofei also turned on the bombardment mode, which was bound to completely tear the decency of Big S.
It pointed out that Da S and Gu Junye not only lived in their carefully renovated house, but also did not change the mattress, mocking Gu Junye as a soft rice man.
For a time, Gu Junye became the "laughing stock" of the whole network.
Not to be outdone, Da S angrily accused Wang Xiaofei of cheating in marriage and pierced his true face.
In this way, the two of you come and go back and forth frequently to fight back, exposing all the past grievances, which is jaw-dropping. But looking back, it is clear that the two people swore an alliance and swore a sea oath, and they loved it vigorously, and they met four times and decided for life.
Big S's shrimp peeling theory caused the whole network to complain, Wang Xiaofei has the strength to protect his wife, full of love.
In the past, they have also loved each other deeply and witnessed the happiest moments. But the person who loved you the most is now hurting you the most.
I have seen a sentence: "Marriage is not a lottery ticket, even if you lose, you can't tear it up." ”
Why do the beauty, commitment and longing when they are together end up in a reverse and old and dead do not communicate with each other. The reason for this, presumably only the parties concerned know it, and as bystanders, we only feel sorry.
A marriage has come to an end, and getting together and dispersing may not be a good choice. Everything in the world can be forgiven, and hatred does not have to fill the rest of life.
After all, the future is more critical than the past.
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If life is only like the first sight, what is the autumn wind and sad fan.
I always think that holding hands is a lifetime, but not every marriage can reach the other side of happiness. Not all those who have loved deeply will walk through this life hand in hand.
But since the road of marriage cannot go on, you may wish to remove the shackles and soothe the hatred and pain of the past.
This is the case between Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun. At the beginning, Wang Yuelun announced his divorce on Weibo and rushed to the hot search.
"Due to long-term personality incompatibility, the relationship has broken up for many years, and they have broken up peacefully, and both parties will still be friends and parents of their beloved daughters in the future."
Word by word, although there is reluctance, but also give the other party enough dignity. Despite the rumors, this divorce turmoil does not seem to affect Wang Shiling.
After all, for them, divorce only cuts the relationship between husband and wife, and does not change the "family affection" relationship at all.
Wang Shiling went to school in the UK, and Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun were still with him throughout the process, and no one was absent.
Wang Yuelun will visit the UK from time to time, and there is no lack of love and companionship.
On the front foot, Wang Shiling took advantage of the holiday to return to China, play and enjoy food in Changsha.
On the back foot, Wang Yuelun rushed to accompany him, snuggled in his father's arms, with a smile on his face and a sense of happiness.
On Children's Day, Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun appeared together and accompanied Wang Shiling together on this special day.
No wonder netizens are sighing, "Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun can be truly responsible for the child's life, and did not let the child become a victim of feelings." ”
It is undeniable that the process of children's growth is haunted by the love of parents, which is undoubtedly not to reduce the impact of divorce on children.
Under the love and care of Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun, Wang Shiling has become more and more excellent.
Not long ago, Wang Shiling also won the school's design scholarship.
Divorce only means that the relationship between husband and wife has ended, but the love for children will not stop. Time has passed, and it is difficult not to admire the way Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun get along after their divorce.
They did not tear each other, let alone hysterical, but got along like old friends for many years.
Marriage is a compulsory lesson in life, from choice to management, from divorce to aftermath, all of which test our wisdom and luck
But no matter what the outcome is, don't dwell on the past, bravely get out of the quagmire, and live a good life in the present, which is the wisest move.
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There is a lyric in "Decent" that resonates with countless netizens, "Breaking up should be decent, no one should say sorry", when you love, you are fully engaged, and after separation, you should also exit dashingly.
Those who can still be friends after divorce are not because they don't love deeply, but because they look down, let go, and completely wave goodbye to that lost relationship.
After a relationship breaks down, it is inevitable that there will be hurt, reluctance, or unwillingness.
Divorce does not mean the end of our lives, it just helps us screen out the less suitable part of our lives.
Thinking about it the other way around, this is not the beginning of our lives. Marriage is not the whole of life, divorce is not the end of life, you have to try to make yourself happy.
As Sun Yi said:
"I think my life is very good now, the child is also very good, she still has a father and mother and a family."
Say goodbye to mistakes in order to have the qualifications again and pursue your own life.
In life, we also yearned for a good marriage. The beginning of every love is extremely beautiful, but helplessly, not all feelings can end well.
If a relationship really comes to an end, you might as well leave it at that.
In a decent way, cut off the fetters of the past, say goodbye to the past self, let go of others, and let go of yourself.
We must believe that every arrangement of life is the best ending. Separate from each other, rejoice in each other, and leave the best of yourself to the one who is more worthy of it.
I believe that the galaxy is hot, and even if you miss the moon, you can find your own sun. Step over, go forward, and new scenery will be waiting for you.