Wen | Yan Mojun
In the "Holding Hands Door" incident, Miss Dong strolled through Taikoo Li Street with her fingers interlocked, and her enchanting figure and smug expression of spring breeze came to her face.
Miss Dong's family is absolutely wealthy, tens of thousands of yuan of bags are commonplace, and a wide range of jewelry even needs to be stored in a safe.
520 are too lazy to show affection, directly speaking with a consumption bill of 430,000, and Taobao spent 1.06 million in two years.
Miss Dong said: Everything is effortless, and the end point of others' struggle is your starting point.
I can only say that Miss Dong is comforting everyone that ordinary people can't reach her starting point after struggling for several lifetimes.
The "holding hands door" incident confirmed a saying: a wife is better than a concubine, and a concubine is better than stealing.
Ni Weiqiang in "Mature Year", he is such a person. The red flag does not fall at home, and the colorful flag outside is fluttering.
Ni Weiqiang, who has 2 wives and 2 lovers, is the most selfish, the most self-interested, and the worst, but why is he still living so wonderfully?
Ni Weiqiang's "The red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flag outside is fluttering"
2 wives.
Before Zhang Chunmei, Ni Weiqiang had a wife.
Zhang Chunmei was not Ni Weiqiang's first wife, but she was saddled with the infamy of the mistress, and she forcibly entered the Ni family with the help of Mrs. Ni with Ni Sinan.
Zhang Chunmei is dignified, beautiful, capable, and is Mrs. Ni's favorite daughter-in-law.
"The second brother saves you a wife, I will be your daughter-in-law, I am alive, I will not change."
This is Mrs. Ni's biggest recognition of Zhang Chunmei.
2 Lovers.
Many years ago, Ni Weiqiang had a crush on a rock girl, which was his lover.
Mrs. Ni couldn't look at this girl's origin, and felt that she was a swinging woman, an ancient woman of wind and dust, and broke up the love between the rock girl and Ni Weiqiang with a stick.
In addition to this rock girl, Ni Weiqiang also has a lover, that is, Zhou Qin.
On Valentine's Day, Zhang Chunmei smelled a different perfume on Ni Weiqiang's body.
Ni Weiqiang rarely wears perfume, except for foreign friends, but that Valentine's Day, he sprayed particularly heavy perfume.
It was the smell of two perfumes, and he sprayed perfume again, just to cover up the other smell, to cover up the fact that he was cheating.
"It's just that on that day, Wei Qiang took the initiative to ask for public grain. Chunmei half-pushed, half-pushed, came twice in one night, one by one, he took medicine, especially brave. When he was over, he held his head and asked, 'Is it comfortable?' Chunmei said comfortably. ”
He was happy with Zhou Qin outside, and he had to pay public food when he went home, but he coped with it easily, and even felt that it was an honor.
The disguise and dignity of a middle-aged woman
When people reach middle age, there are old people, there are young people, there are jobs outside, and families inside, it stands to reason that they should have a sense of crisis.
But why does a middle-aged man like Ni Weiqiang seem to not see his sense of crisis?
By middle age, women have a crisis than men.
"Your period has been delayed by 79 days."
Her regular holiday, without warning, stopped.
As she got older, she gradually realized that menstruation is a medal given by heaven to women, and a bloodless woman is basically equivalent to quitting the battlefield of life. The river dried up, the riverbed was bare, and she became neutral ever since.
Zhang Chunmei once said:
"The affair between husband and wife is a testimony of each other's passion for life, the integration of each other's body and mind, and the ability to experience each other's love. However, when people reach middle age, especially when women no longer ovulate, the physiological demands on their husbands will decrease. ”
She has become a neutral person, in terms of sex, due to the influence of estrogen, menopause will follow, she has lost her sexual desire, will be cashed out to talk coldly, Ni Weiqiang has more reason to turn a blind eye to her.
She cares about family and children.
At this age, Ni Weiqiang's career is mature and stable, but his heart still longs for freshness, longing for power, longing for conquest, and passion makes him want to move.
Mrs. Ni and Zhang Chunmei are like a mother and daughter, Ni Sinan is also well arranged by Zhang Chunmei, everything in the Ni family is well taken care of by Zhang Chunmei, Ni Weiqiang does not need to think about the family, nor does he need to take care of the elderly and children, all his energy is focused on the desire to take off his pants.
Male desires are uncontrollable
At the age of almost 50, women tend to ignore themselves, just like Zhang Chunmei, she cares that this man is her husband and the child's father, and when Ni Weiqiang comes back to deal with her, she has to say that she is comfortable.
Because she has to take care of the overall situation, the marriage framework between her and Ni Weiqiang must be retained.
The vast majority of women, they are loyal to their families, they are concerned about love, and they are not just passionate about sex.
It is said that women are "thirty like a tiger and forty like a wolf", in fact, most women only perceive a few days a month from changes in their bodies.
As for those thoughts, those desires, they can be contained.
Men, on the other hand.
Whether it is Hu in the "Holding Hands Door" incident, or Song Siming in "Snail House", or Ni Weiqiang in "Mature Year". They can't control their desires and are willing to be ghosts under their skirts.
When Hu and Miss Dong arrived in a foreign land, they were carried away by love; When Song Siming compared his wife with Guo Haisao, he completely disliked his wife, which could not allow him to show "strong desire" or let him have absolute "possessiveness"; Ni Weiqiang was outside with Zhou Qinqing, and for Zhang Chunmei, there was only something left to deal with.
Simply because, their original match reached middle age, the color decayed, there were more wrinkles, the pearls were yellow, and the spots appeared.
And the flowers and plants outside are too young, too beautiful, too attractive, they can't resist the temptation of desire.
There is a saying that goes, "A man is an animal that thinks in his lower body".
Women often roll the sheets after they decide to have a formal relationship with a man, while men will roll the sheets before considering whether to have a formal relationship with a woman.
Men are the thinking mode of first down and then up, to rise from physical to spiritual, more to consider the all-round fit with this woman, whether it is worth a long-term intimate relationship.
The bowl, such as Zhang Chunmei, suddenly will not bleed and has no value, Ni Weiqiang looked at Zhou Qin in the pot.
He couldn't control himself.
Ni Weiqiang is the most selfish and the worst
"Zhou Qin has always been rebellious, even if she does not marry Ni Weiqiang, at least, she must have individual phased results - she can have children directly. But this is exactly what Wei Qiang is not willing to give, originally the number of Spring Dinners together is not much, he also strictly guards every time, wearing two condoms. This made Zhou Qin very uncomfortable. ”
If Ni Weiqiang dislikes Zhang Chunmei's old age and decay, then does he love Zhou Qin?
Don't love.
He was naked to Zhou Qin.
Zhou Qin wants a child, but Ni Weiqiang doesn't want to, he already has Ni Sinan, even if there is a successor, another child will only add a burden to his life, so he will use two condoms every time he has sex with Zhou Qin.
Men who have extramarital affairs give far less than they take, and their hearts are ruthless.
Is Ni Weiqiang's selfishness just to Zhou Qin?
For Zhang Chunmei, who gave birth to him, he is also extremely selfish.
"You were still married, I was stupid enough to have children, in fact, I understand now that you were with me just to escape your first midlife crisis. From youth to middle age you toss once, from middle age to old age you toss again, but can you not let women cover the bottom for you every time! ”
Zhang Chunmei's words vividly showed Ni Weiqiang's selfishness.
Ni Weiqiang is such a selfish person, why did the Yingying Yanyan outside still pounce
Miss Dong Hu in "Holding Hands Door".
One is Miss Dong, who is less than 30 years old and has white skin, and the other is Lao Hu, who is faltering and nearly 60 years old, which looks like a father and daughter pairing, but Miss Dong and Lao Hu brazenly show affection with each other on the street!
A man and a woman who are obviously not compatible with the young beauty and the old man have become a couple, Miss Dong, what does she think?
So, Zhou Qin in "Mature Year", what does she think?
Ni Weiqiang has a successful career, is a university professor, academic leader, just hired a doctoral supervisor, has a small reputation in the circle, mainly studies "encryption", is a very talent.
Zhou Qin was the first doctor he recruited.
With such a position, Zhou Qin could get too much from him.
Power, status, fame and fortune.
It is said that "men have forty-one flowers, the more they live, the more attractive they are, the older they are, the more mature and stable", Zhou Qin can feel the meticulous love from Ni Weiqiang's body, even if it is a man's usual trick for the flowers and plants outside, it is also true love, and the romance that falls into practice.
What's more, Zhou Qin got more than this romantic love in Ni Weiqiang's body.
She got the ladder and continued to climb the ladder.
Isn't Miss Dong's figure also Hu's power?
Don't tell me that these cheating of them are true love, true love that age is not a problem.
After Song Siming and Guo Seaweed in "Snail House" were together, Guo Seaweed left a drop of "aunt blood" in Song Siming's car, and Song Siming's heart was completely boiling, and he hated to love Guo Seaweed desperately, because he thought it was Guo Seaweed's first time.
Ni Weiqiang in "Mature Year", what he wants is never an equal love, he wants a glorious life of "having a wife and a concubine". So, on Valentine's Day, he was outside with Zhou Qinqing and me, and when he went home, he had to "take the initiative to hand over the public food."
The home is the framework for maintaining marriage.
Outside, it's all about taking what you need.
Zhang Chunmei at home took care of Mrs. Ni without expecting anything in return, arranged Ni Sinan, and Zhou Qin outside figured Ni Weiqiang's money, Ni Weiqiang's power, and Ni Weiqiang's "seed" wanted to have a child.
Ni Weiqiang's conditions, even Zhang Chunmei felt that it was a blessing for his career, not to mention Zhou Qin.
I hope that Zhou Qin can recognize Ni Weiqiang's selfishness as soon as possible, grow his own branches, and become self-reliant.