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I'm Zhang Xiaoyu, an ordinary housewife living in a small town. I have a 9-month-old son named Xiao Ming. He is the first child of me and my husband Xiaogang, and he is also my biggest heart. Our family lives in a small brick house, which is simple but has a warm atmosphere that permeates every corner.
Just when Xiao Ming was just learning to crawl, I began to notice the bruises that appeared on his body from time to time. At first, I didn't pay much attention to it, thinking it was a fall he accidentally fell while crawling. But over time, these bruises become more frequent and sometimes appear in seemingly uninjurious areas, such as the back and inside of the arms.
I started to get worried, so I decided to talk to my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law lives in a village not far from us and is a kind and kind old man, and I have always had a lot of trust and respect for her. She is always smiling and gives people a warm feeling.
One afternoon, I took Xiao Ming to my mother-in-law's house, ready to talk to her about my concerns. When my mother-in-law saw us, she had the same smile on her face as usual, she put her arms around Xiao Ming and asked gently, "Xiao Ming, what are you doing here with grandma?" Do you want to eat the cookies made by your grandmother? I smiled and nodded, and then told my mother-in-law about my doubts.
"Mother-in-law, I have noticed that Xiao Ming always has some bruises on his body recently, and I am a little worried." I whispered.
After hearing this, the smile on my mother-in-law's face seemed to be a little stiff, she glanced at me, then looked down at Xiao Ming, and said softly: "It may be that the child moved too much and accidentally fell." ”
I listened to my mother-in-law's words and felt a little uneasy, but I still chose to believe her. After all, she is an elder and should know how to take care of the child is the best. So, Xiao Ming and I left my mother-in-law's house, although I still had some doubts in my heart, but I still tried not to think too much.
However, the appearance of bruises did not stop, but became more frequent. Whenever I found a new bruise, it was like being stabbed by an invisible knife, and the pain was unbearable. I began to feel the need to go to the hospital for a check-up to see if there was something wrong with Xiao Ming's body.
So, I made an appointment for an afternoon and took Xiao Ming to a nearby hospital. The doctor carefully examined Xiao Ming's body, and finally came to a conclusion that shocked me: the bruises on Xiao Ming's body were not caused by falling, but by someone deliberately beating him.
When I heard the news, my heart almost jumped out of my throat. I couldn't believe that my beloved son was being abused. I remembered the question that my mother-in-law had avoided me before, and I couldn't help but feel a surge of anger in my heart. I decided to go home and discuss with Xiao Gang to see what to do about it.
When I got home, my heart was very heavy. I looked at Xiao Ming who was playing, and my heart was full of helplessness and guilt. How do I tell Xiao Gang, and how do I deal with this? My heart was full of trouble, but I knew I couldn't turn a blind eye to the problem anymore.
I decided to find a good time to tell Xiao Gang the news, even though I knew it would cause him a lot of shock and pain. I knew that as a father, he would be angry for Xiao Ming, but at the same time, I was also worried that he would blame me for not finding out about the problem in time.
After dinner, I chose a more private time, when Xiao Ming was already asleep, Xiao Gang and I sat in the living room. I gently told him about the doctor's diagnosis and waited for his reaction.
After listening to my words, Xiao Gang was stunned for a while, his eyes full of anger and pain. He gritted his teeth and whispered, "These people are simply shameless! How dare you hurt our son! ”
I knew Xiao Gang's inner torment at the moment, so I gently took his hand and comforted: "We must be calm, find out this culprit, and let them get the punishment they deserve." ”
Xiao Gang nodded, his eyes revealing firm determination. We decided to go to my mother-in-law the next day to see if she knew the truth about the matter.
Early the next morning, Xiao Gang and I took Xiao Ming to my mother-in-law's house. When my mother-in-law saw us, her face was a little pale and her eyes flickered. My heart sank, and I began to wonder if she knew what was going on.
"Mother-in-law, I want to talk to you about yesterday again." I said.
The mother-in-law was stunned for a moment, then a smile reluctantly hung on her face, and asked, "What's the matter?" ”
I looked into my mother-in-law's eyes and said in a serious tone: "Yesterday I took Xiao Ming to the hospital for a check-up, and the doctor said that the bruises on Xiao Ming's body were not caused by falling, but by someone deliberately beating him. ”
After hearing this, the mother-in-law's face instantly turned pale, her hands trembled, and her voice trembled a little and said, "This... How is this possible? How could I do such a thing to Xiao Ming? ”
I looked at my mother-in-law, full of doubts and disappointment. I don't know if she's lying or if she's really unaware, but I know I have to find out the truth. I said firmly: "Mother-in-law, I know that this incident shocked you too, but we must find out the truth and not let Xiao Ming continue to be hurt. ”
The mother-in-law lowered her head, as if thinking about something. After a while, she suddenly raised her head, her eyes were full of pain and remorse, and she said softly: "Xiaoyu, Xiaogang, actually... Actually, this matter has something to do with me. ”
When Xiaogang and I heard my mother-in-law's words, we couldn't help but be stunned, and an inexplicable sadness and anger surged in our hearts. I held Xiao Gang's hand tightly, comforting him and feeling a little comfort.
"Mother-in-law, how could you do such a thing?" I asked, my voice trembling.
The mother-in-law lowered her head, tears blurred her eyes, and she trembled and said, "Xiaoyu, Xiaogang, I know I was wrong, but I really had no choice at that time." ”
Xiao Gang and I exchanged glances, and our hearts were full of doubts. What happened to my mother-in-law? Why would she do such a thing to Xiao Ming?
"Mother-in-law, what's the matter with you? Why hurt our son? Xiao Gang's voice was filled with anger.
The mother-in-law sobbed and said, "Actually... Actually, it's all because of the situation in my family, I... There's really no way I could do anything like that. ”
After Xiaogang and I heard this, we were even more puzzled. Would the situation at her mother-in-law's house make her do such a thing to Xiao Ming? We decided to listen to her slowly and clearly.
The mother-in-law slowly talked about her experience: "Before Xiao Ming was born, my wife and I lived quite peacefully. But his wife died suddenly after Xiao Ming was born, leaving behind a large debt. I can't support my family of three by myself, and I have no other source of income, I... I really can't help it. ”
When I heard my mother-in-law's words, my heart was sad. It turned out that the strange behavior of the mother-in-law before was because of the difficulties in her family. I felt a deep sense of guilt that I had been suspecting that she had abused Xiao Ming.
"Mother-in-law, I'm sorry, I misunderstood you before." I whispered.
Xiao Gang also said: "Yes, mother-in-law, we both understand your difficulties, and we will find a way to solve this problem together." ”
When my mother-in-law heard our words, she couldn't stop crying. She hugged us tremblingly and said, "Thank you, I'm really sorry, I... I will pay off my debts as soon as possible and take good care of Xiao Ming. ”
Xiaogang and I looked at my mother-in-law, and our hearts were full of gratitude and understanding. Although there were some misunderstandings before, now we both understand each other's difficulties and we will face the challenges of life together and get through them together.
So, we decided to join forces to help my mother-in-law pay off her debts and replan her life. Xiao Gang and I found a better job together, worked hard, and worked hard for Xiao Ming's future. My mother-in-law also actively participated in various labors and tried her best to pay off her debts.
After a period of hard work, we finally paid off our mother-in-law's debts and regained our confidence in life. Xiao Ming is also growing up, healthy and happy. Our family has been united and helped each other, and together we have overcome the difficult moments in our lives, and we have also gained more happiness and warmth.
This experience taught us the importance of family and that only by working together can we overcome all the difficulties in life. We will cherish each other's relationship, always support each other, and walk through every journey of life together.
The days passed slowly, and our family's life gradually returned to its former peace and happiness. Xiao Ming has also grown up a lot, and his lively and lovely appearance fills our family with laughter.
However, although the shadow of the past has faded, there is still a trace of doubt in my heart. Although my mother-in-law's explanation made me feel relieved, I always had an indescribable uneasiness about the bruises on Xiao Ming's body.
So, I decided to find a professional psychologist to help me and Xiao Ming out of this shadow. I want to find out exactly how Xiao Ming got hurt, and I can't let this doubt haunt me anymore.
I made an appointment with a psychiatrist and took Xiao Ming to his clinic. The psychiatrist is a middle-aged man who looks calm and rigorous. I sat in his office with Xiao Ming, and I told him about our situation.
The psychiatrist listened carefully to my account, then pondered for a while, and then he said softly: "Judging from the situation you described, the bruises on Xiao Ming's body are indeed a matter of concern. But figuring out the root of this problem is not an easy task. ”
When I heard this, my heart became even more anxious, and I asked, "So what are we going to do?" ”
The psychiatrist thought for a moment, then said, "First of all, we need to conduct a series of psychological tests and physical examinations on Xiao Ming to determine whether he has been harmed by the outside world. Secondly, we also need to have some psychological communication with him to see if he can express any feelings of discomfort or uneasiness. ”
I nodded in understanding. The psychiatrist added: "At the same time, I recommend that you maintain open and honest communication between family members, especially with Xiao Ming. Only through mutual understanding and support can we better help him get out of the psychological shadow. ”
I returned home with Xiao Ming, full of anticipation and anxiety. I hope that with the help of a psychologist, we will be able to find answers and regain peace and happiness as a family.
In the next few days, we followed the advice of the psychiatrist and took Xiao Ming for a series of tests and examinations. Although Xiao Ming still didn't quite understand what was going on, he cooperated to complete every test, which made us feel relieved and moved.
With the help of a psychiatrist, we gradually learned that the bruises on Xiao Ming's body were not caused by external injuries, but because his skin was sensitive and prone to bruising. This answer relieved me and Xiao Gang, and also made us more assured of Xiao Ming's health.
The psychiatrist also suggested that we should always pay attention to Xiao Ming's emotional and psychological state, and find and solve his troubles and uneasiness in time. Xiao Gang and I decided to pay more attention to Xiao Ming's growth, give him more love and support, and let him thrive in a warm and harmonious family environment.
Gradually, our family returned to its former laughter, and Xiao Ming grew up healthy and happy. I know that no matter what difficulties we encounter in the future, as long as we unite and work together, we will be able to overcome everything and welcome a better future.
As the days passed, Xiao Ming gradually grew up. His lively and lovely appearance filled our family with laughter. Xiao Gang and I worked hard to provide Xiao Ming with a warm and harmonious growth environment.
However, on the eve of Xiao Ming's fifth birthday, our family once again ushered in an uninvited guest. That night, Xiao Gang and I were preparing for Xiao Ming's birthday party, when suddenly, the doorbell rang.
I opened the door and was surprised to find a strange woman standing in the doorway. She looked young and haggard, with a hint of confusion and sadness in her eyes.
"Are you ......?" I asked, confused.
The woman said a little shyly, "I am Xiao Ming's biological mother. ”
When I heard this, I was shocked. Xiao Ming's biological mother? This means that Xiao Ming has a biological mother who has never met? Xiao Gang and I looked at each other, not knowing how to deal with this sudden situation.
"Please come in and sit down for a while." I said politely.
The woman walked into the living room and sat on the couch, her eyes full of mixed emotions. Xiaogang and I also walked over and sat beside her, quietly waiting for her to speak.
"I'm sorry I was here and disturbed you." The woman whispered, "I didn't want to disturb your life, but I couldn't help it. ”
Xiao Gang and I looked at each other and smiled, signaling that she didn't have to worry. I whispered, "You are Xiao Ming's biological mother, and you have the right to know about him." ”
The woman nodded, and began to tell her story. It turned out that she was forced to leave her hometown due to some difficulties after Xiao Ming was born, and she has been wandering until recently, and she didn't learn about Xiao Ming until recently.
"I know I'm sorry for Xiao Ming, I didn't fulfill my responsibilities as a mother." "But I've been thinking about him all the time, and I want to meet him, give him a hug, and tell him that he has a biological mother." ”
When I heard this, my heart was filled with compassion and understanding. A mother's love is great and selfless, and they will go out of their way to protect their children even in the face of many difficulties.
"We can understand your feelings." I whispered, "But Xiao Ming now has a warm family, and he has already identified us as parents. ”
Xiao Gang also said: "We will try our best to protect him and give him a happy future." ”
When the woman heard this, a look of gratitude and comfort appeared on her face. She whispered, "Thank you, thank you for taking care of Xiao Ming." I'm not going to disturb your life, I just want to meet him, give him a hug, and then I'll leave. ”
Xiao Gang and I looked at each other and smiled, our hearts full of warmth and emotion. Although we don't know this woman, we can understand her feelings, and we are willing to give her a chance to meet Xiao Ming.
So, Xiao Gang and I took Xiao Ming to the living room and introduced him to his biological mother. When the woman saw Xiao Ming, her eyes were full of love and relief, and she stretched out her hands and gently hugged Xiao Ming.
"Xiao Ming, I'm your mother, and I've been thinking about you all the time." The woman's voice was soft and full of love.
Although Xiao Ming didn't quite understand what was going on, he still hugged the woman obediently, and seemed to feel her love.
Xiao Gang and I watched this scene, and our hearts were full of emotion and joy. We don't know what the future holds, but we believe that as long as we work together as a family to face the challenges ahead, we will be able to create a happier and more fulfilling life.
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