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Marriage is not a tool to happiness, too many people marry for the sake of marriage, but in life, marriage is not the end, but the beginning of the test.
Everyone is looking forward to perfect love, and in 2010, a TV show "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere" hosted by the well-known host Meng Fei was born, which became famous in the form of stage blind dates and ranked first in the ratings of Jiangsu TV's variety shows.
"Do Not Disturb" provides an opportunity for young single men and women to meet, triggering a lot of sparks of love, so that many people have gained a beautiful love and happy marriage.
However, Wang Jia, who was once known as the "most sincere female guest" in the show, embarked on the road of no return to kill her husband, what made her like this?
Wang Jia waiting for love
In 1979, Wang Jia was born in Yan'an, Shaanxi Province, she was born ice and snow smart since she was a child.
In addition, her parents work very well, and she is a dual-income family, so she lives in an environment with a good family and the same sound. Both parents and relatives regard her only daughter as a pearl in the palm of their hands, and love is like a treasure.
Under the favor of her parents, she gradually grew into a talented and warm romantic girl. Like all children who grow up happy, Wang Jia grew up with the expectation of her parents.
In 1998, Wang Jia was admitted to Northwest University for Chinese with excellent grades through hard work. She has a great literary talent, brilliant writing, like all romantic girls in adolescence, longing for perfect and unforgettable love.
Wang Jia's intellectual and elegant figure is active in various competitions, she is beautiful and intelligent, and she has attracted a lot of attention in the crowd. After graduating, she worked as an editor at a publishing house. At this time, Wang Jia was like a Kunpeng who was about to spread its wings and soar in the sky.
The young girl has a solid family, good appearance, and a bright future, which has cultivated her arrogant and arrogant character. Wang Jia has a temperament that is dustless and empty, and is an idealist who is easy to indulge.
Wang Jia has had two love experiences, although she did not go to the end, but it did not blow her pursuit of perfect love.
She is always full of fantasies about perfect love, and she firmly believes that she will meet her own Prince Charming, and she will not yield to her sweetheart without meeting her satisfactory sweetheart.
It is precisely because of Wang Jia's insistence on the criteria for choosing a mate that she has not met her soul mate who has attracted her heart, and she has not entered the palace of marriage as she wishes.
The most is that the world can't stay, Zhu Yan's words are flowers and trees.
Just dragged around like this, in the blink of an eye Wang Jia reached the age of 32, her heart longed for marriage and family, her parents also broke their hearts for her marriage events, and even her grandfather was still worried about her marriage before he died, which invisibly put pressure on her.
The most sincere female guest
That year, Meng Fei's "Do Not Disturb" was popular all over the country, and the male guests who participated in the program were either rich or noble, all of them were young talents. With the encouragement of relatives and friends, Wang Jia's heart was moved.
In 2011, Wang Jia came to Nanjing and appeared in the 126th issue of "Do Not Disturb". Her goal is clear, to find the man who is willing to hold hands with her and spend her life together, and form a happy and perfect family.
Wang Jia showed an extremely sincere attitude on stage, and she frankly said on stage that she hoped to find her soul mate. She once said impassionedly that if she could hold hands on stage, she would love that person with her whole body and mind.
Wang Jia's sincere attitude and earnest words not only touched the audience and guests at the scene, but also touched everyone in front of the TV. The media once rated her as "the most sincere female guest in history".
The emperor paid off, and Wang Jia recorded 4 episodes on the stage of "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere". Finally, in issue 129, she met the male guest who made her heartbeat, the Prince Charming in her mind - Zhang Tianyi.
Zhang Tianyi is a native of Beijing, tall and handsome, with a privileged family, who works as the general manager of a large company. He was young, handsome, handsome, and a successful elite among his peers.
Like a naïve girl with a spring heart, Wang Jia fell in love with Zhang Tianyi at first sight and frankly expressed her appreciation. In the show, Zhang Tianyi seemed to be moved by her sincerity and warmth, and extended a hand called love to her.
Wang Jia burst into tears with excitement, firmly held her love, rushed over and hugged her sweetheart tightly, and the audience was also cheering, and everyone online and offline sent them blessings from the bottom of their hearts.
With the show "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere", the talented Wang Jia not only successfully met the heartwarming male guest, but also harvested his love.
She also won the love of countless online and offline audiences, and her Weibo exploded overnight and became a well-known Internet celebrity. After the show, Wang Jia and Zhang Tianyi naturally began to communicate.
Unfortunately, the sky did not go as expected. Zhang Tianyi, who got off the show, seemed to have changed a person, showing an unknown side. Not only did he use cold violence for no reason, but he even simply and rudely left a text message "to the United States for business" and disappeared.
Wang Jia couldn't understand why he was so kind to himself, didn't love him anymore, or didn't love at all? Zhang Tianyi is Wang Jia's marriage partner, and he disappeared inexplicably, forcing Wang Jia to accept the fact that he was broken up.
This huge change hit Wang Jia, and Wang Jia, who has always been smooth, has never experienced such a thing. She washed her face with tears throughout the day and frequently vented her emotions online.
In Wang Jia's view, this can almost be regarded as the trough of his life. I just shared my joy with everyone in a big way, but I was abandoned in a blink of an eye.
Where did Wang Jia, who was proud all her life, suffer such grievances, and she was full of resentment and unwillingness.
I need to be respected
When Wang Jia fell into a trough and couldn't extricate herself, a male fan named "Wenwen" entered her sight.
As early as when Wang Jia shined on the stage of "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere", Wen Wen was robbed of his heart by the beautiful and elegant girl on the stage.
While she was waiting for her true destiny one issue after another, there was already a man on the Internet who fell in love with her at first sight.
Wen Wen is a down-to-earth and cautious person, just silently paying attention to his beloved girl on the Internet. When Wang Jia fell into a trough and indulged in emotional hurt, he often comforted Wang Jia in the Weibo comment area.
Wen Wen is also from Xi'an, and the hometown sees the fellow villager, which narrows the distance between the two. Soon, the two also connected in real life.
Wen Wen's real name is He Jiawen, he has a plain appearance, and he belongs to the kind that cannot be found in the pile of people. He Jiawen's parents are both teachers, and he is just an ordinary employee of a bank in Xi'an.
He Jiawen finally came into contact with the girl of his dreams in the real world, and he plucked up the courage to confess to Wang Jia and confide in the love that he had always dared to bury in his heart.
He said that he saw the sparkling Wang Jia on TV, he liked her sincerity and beauty, and had a crush on her for a long time, hoping that she could take a look at herself who had been silently watching her.
Although He Jiawen's objective conditions are also good, in Wang Jia's mind, it is far from being comparable to Zhang Tianyi, let alone reaching the standard of the perfect marriage partner in Wang Jia's mind.
And at this time, Wang Jia paranoid believed that she must find a boyfriend whose knowledge and family lineage were thousands of times better than Zhang Tianyi's conditions, in order to make up for the trauma she had suffered in her heart and make up for her pain.
Therefore, He Jiawen did not get Wang Jia's green eyes, and she tactfully refused He Jiawen's confession. He Jiawen did not give up after being rejected, still circling around Wang Jia with a dead heart, often shushing and asking for warmth, hoping to impress Wang Jia with his sincerity.
People's hearts are made of flesh, and over time, Wang Jia finally loosened. Wang Jia and He Jiawen confirmed their relationship and soon became a glue-like couple, and they finally decided to hold their wedding on New Year's Day.
It's hard to settle
By chance, Wang Jia learned that the female guests who participated in "Do Not Disturb" at the same time that year were contacted again, and they set up a group and chatted together from time to time.
Now some of them have married into wealthy families and become broad wives, and some have signed contracts to become artists or Internet celebrities, releasing albums or receiving commercial performances.
The "ugly duckling" of the year has now become the "white swan", and the proud daughter of the sky of the year can only be subservient to others, and even the marriage she has longed for for many years can only be completed.
Years of smooth life made Wang Jia think highly of herself, and when she saw her former sisters soaring and living better than herself, a nameless fire of jealousy burned from her heart.
Why can someone who was once inferior to her live such a luxurious life, and she can only marry such an ordinary and ordinary man?
Wang Jia's complaints about this marriage are growing. Just when Wang Jia was about to give up the marriage contract, she unexpectedly found out that she was pregnant! Wang Jia thinks that she endures humiliation and bears a burden, and for the sake of the child in her belly, she still married He Jiawen.
Wang Jia's pregnancy reaction seems to be greater than that of ordinary people, pregnant spots began to appear on her once delicate face, and her slender figure began to lose shape.
She tried to find her former shadow in the mirror and recalled the proud eyes of the past. Now he has fallen off the altar, and his heart is full of frustration.
Wang Jia saw that the other sisters were living very well, and she was even more resentful and unhappy, and she was depressed all day long. Surrounded by negative emotions for a long time, she was diagnosed with depression.
Wang Jia was even more angry when she saw her husband He Jiawen, her heart burned with crazy flames, and she was paranoid that the culprit that caused her misfortune was her husband He Jiawen.
She madly missed the previous moment of pride, and she also missed the moment when she was opposite Zhang Tianyi's affection, and she had even forgotten how tender and indulgent her husband was to her.
One thought kills the husband
During pregnancy, Wang Jia's depression recurred. Even He Jiawen, who has always been good-tempered, was extremely irritable by her emotional torture. Wang Jia's paranoia and madness are like a fire out of control, wantonly ravaging this shaky family.
Without Ho Jiawen, would everything be back to the way it was?
On an ordinary morning in July 2012, when He Jiawen was resting, he carefully made breakfast, and when he called Wang Jia to eat, no one even responded to the call.
He Jiawen entered the house and saw that Wang Jia was chatting with her sisters in front of the computer, and learned that a friend had just released a new song album, and her jealousy burned her to the point that she had no reason. She was immersed in her own world, and when she heard He Jiawen's voice, she only thought that there was no such person.
He Jiawen looked at her indifferent relative, the clay man also had a three-point temper, he was angry from the heart, pushed the computer away, and asked Wang Jia sharply, do you have to indulge in the past and never see reality?
He Jiawen's words deeply stung Wang Jia. Anger, jealousy, unwillingness, resentment, Wang Jia's negative emotions have accumulated to the limit and are on the verge of breaking out.
On the evening of August 1, the two broke out in a fierce argument again.
A terrifying idea suddenly appeared in Wang Jia's mind, killing He Jiawen. As long as he dies, everything will be free, and she can return to the glamorous and enviable days of the past.
The moon is dark and the wind is high at night, killing and setting fire to the sky.
Wang Jia patiently waited for her husband by the pillow to fall asleep, and then quietly came to the kitchen. She picked up the fruit knife in the kitchen and returned to the bedroom, she thought that as long as she killed him, she could return to the original, she was still the proud girl of the sky!
At this time, the sleeping He Jiawen still knew nothing, and a devil stood in front of his bed. She stabbed her husband He Jiawen fiercely!
He Jiawen woke up from the pain and looked in horror at his wife with a knife in front of him. He couldn't figure it out, how could a gentle and intellectual wife become like this?
While covering his wounds, he fled in a panic, covered in blood, stumbled into the corridor, using the last strength of his life to call for help. He hopes that his wife can sober up and let him have a way to live, and he also let himself have a way to live.
Unfortunately, at this time, Wang Jia had fallen into madness, only wanting his life, and the others did not care at all. Wang Jia looked indifferently at her husband who was curled up in the corner, and each knife was accurately stabbed at the vital part.
At this moment, she is not killing her husband who shares her bed, but killing the thorns that stand in her way to happiness.
Wang Jia watched coldly as her husband's breathing on the ground gradually weakened and became a cold corpse, and she indifferently glanced up at the door of her neighbor's house next door.
She then turned the tip of the knife and stabbed herself in the shoulder and stomach, then fainted on the ground. The neighbor, who was awakened by He Jiawen's wailing, saw all this from the cat's eye and was frightened.
Until they heard no sound outside, the neighbors dared to open the door to check the situation, but only saw two people lying in a pool of blood, and were so frightened that they quickly called the police and an ambulance.
When the police arrived at the scene, they found that Ho Jiawen had died due to excessive blood loss. The comatose Wang Jia was then admitted to the hospital, where she suffered only minor injuries and the child in her stomach was unharmed.
Because Wang Jia was pregnant, she was temporarily detained in prison, and Wang Jia gave birth a month later.
And the kind He Jiawen's parents wrote a letter of understanding for the child and Wang Jia's depression, and in August 2014, Wang Jia was sentenced to 13 years in prison and compensated 30,000 yuan.
Wang Jia was not satisfied with the verdict, appealed again, and the second instance of the court sentenced Wang Jia to 10 years in prison, this year, Wang Jia should be released from prison soon, and her and Sun Guangwen's children are 13 years old, I don't know how Wang Jia should face her children at that time.
Unfortunately, the three families that should have been beautiful and happy were destroyed under Wang Jia's blade.
summary
Wang Jia could have had a husband who loved her, a lively and lovely child, and a happy family living together, but now it has come to naught because of Wang Jia's unwillingness to resent.
The lights on the stage on the screen are colorful and gorgeous, giving people a beautiful illusion. However, in the end, it is necessary to return to a down-to-earth life, and the glamorous stage will eventually be replaced by firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Find your own positioning, be yourself, love yourself is the best, others have other people's lives, do not blindly compare, in love and marriage to calm the mentality.
Don't lose your mind because of impulse, in order to grasp your own happiness.