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Haydn said: The greatest pain in life is not being able to ask for it.
Truly. It is a pain to want wealth when you have no money, it is a pain to want health when you are unwell, and it is also a pain to want to be peaceful and beautiful when your relationship is not going well.
For different people, life is about accepting tribulations.
Some people believe that the greatest sadness of a family is that there is no money, and it is difficult to move without money.
But a family is constantly leaking their own information, and the results may be more terrible than having no money.
In particular, the following 3 privacy must not be told to outsiders, otherwise not only will there be no money, but it will also easily lead to disaster.
01: Contradictory topics for parents
Parents are the support of a family. Without parents, there is no family.
But no one's life is smooth sailing, even parents in life, it is inevitable to stumble.
Sometimes they quarrel over income, disagree over children's education, and so on.
But no matter what problems arise between parents, as a junior, you must not tell these secrets to the outside!
Once the contradictions of parents are exposed to outsiders, on the one hand, it will make parents faceless, on the other hand, it will also make people feel that their children are unfilial and insensible.
Parents are elders, as children, it is difficult to have a personal experience of their parents' past, always pointing fingers, it is inevitable that there is a suspicion of standing and talking without back pain.
In "The World", Congcong learned of the conflict between his biological father and his adoptive father Zhou Bingkun, and wanted to recognize his biological father.
But his father's character is flawed, and his mother Zheng Juan disagrees with Congcong's idea.
If Congcong insists on going his own way, he will fail Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun's years of nurturing.
Parents have conflicts, it is a family matter.
If you say it outside, it will only make outsiders see the joke, and the contradiction may also expand, casting a shadow over the family.
02: The child's growth problem
The growth of children is a long process, maybe children are sensible today, naughty tomorrow, and there is no fixed number.
But if parents always grasp a problem in the child's growth process, say it every day and night and night, it will cause the child to be disgusted and no longer want to communicate with his parents.
In the TV series "Family with Children", Liu Xing's learning problems always give Liu Mei and Xia Donghai a headache.
But once, his historical score actually reached 98 points, which really surprised his parents.
Liu Mei wholeheartedly believed that Liu Xing was lying, and directly criticized him harshly in front of everyone.
Liu Xing, who finally got a high score in the exam, was of course indignant, thinking that Liu Mei had made herself lose face, and the mother and son had a big fight.
Liu Mei's biggest problem is that she always likes to say that her children are not in front of outsiders.
Whether the child is good or not, only the parents care.
Others only care about the excellence of their children, whether it will affect their interests.
When parents always say in front of others that their children are not, they will only be quick enemies and hurt by relatives, and the gains are not worth the losses.
03: The financial situation of the household
The ancients said that the customer does not leave the goods, and the wealth is not exposed.
Once people accidentally expose their resources, they will be coveted by those who have intentions.
There was news before: The girl told her girlfriend about her graduate school entrance examination, and everything was detailed.
As a result, the girlfriend turned around and reported the girl, resulting in the girl's graduate school results being invalidated and the school she was optimistic about could not go.
There is a term in this world called poor information.
When a person does not know anything, he often does not dare to act rashly.
But when he has enough information, he will plan and move.
If a family accidentally exposes wealth information, it will let others see it, people who don't care naturally don't care, the most afraid is that someone wants to seize wealth after seeing it, then life can't be peaceful.
Property status is often a more sensitive topic, don't talk about it, less is the best policy.
Family is an important part of life.
If you want family happiness, you can't casually tell others about parents' conflicting topics, children's growth problems, and the family's financial situation.
These three types of privacy are the result of family members working together, and we should protect them closely to create a happy family.
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