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The 37-year-old mother was subjected to domestic violence, ran away from home for 10 hours, experienced 3 kinds of sadness, and found a job with a monthly income of 10,000 yuan
Text|Kapok
"This slap is to make you remember your own identity and put you in the right position, you are a mother of two children, and you are so selfish!" After the husband finished speaking, a "snap" slap fell on Hu Xiaoyi's (pseudonym) face, and it hurt hotly.
"This slap in the face lets you know that you have not earned a penny, nor are you qualified to spend any penny, and that everything you eat, drink, wear, and use is all given by me." After the husband finished speaking, the second "snap" slap fell on Hu Xiaoyi's face again.
"This slap in the face, tell you what filial piety is, filial piety, filial piety, obedience is filial piety, have you done it to your mother-in-law?" After the husband finished speaking, he raised his hand again.
Before her husband's hand fell, Hu Xiaoyi broke free.
She is not an eloquent woman, not to mention that her husband does not understand her, what is the use of saying more?
She is also not a crazy woman, with her 1.55 figure, against her husband of 1.81, the husband does not feel sorry for her, and in the physical conflict, she suffers even more.
And the reason for this domestic violence is that she really can't bear the pressure of not getting enough sleep every day, too much labor, and washing two large basins of diapers every day, against her mother-in-law's wishes, swiping her husband's credit card, and buying two boxes of diapers for 7-month-old Erbao.
In this way, at 23:00 at night, Hu Xiaoyi ran out of the house and walked to the street.
01. 18 hours of working from home VS 3 hours of working outside!
When Hu Xiaoyi ran out of the house to find that she was wearing a nightdress and slippers on her feet, and when every household had turned off the lights and rested, she found that she was really homeless.
At this time, she found that her husband had been arguing with her for a long time, and she hadn't eaten lunch yet, no, in order to wash her eldest daughter's clothes at noon, she didn't even eat lunch, and for breakfast she only ate the remaining half of the eldest daughter's fried egg, the husband's remaining half of the cake, and drank the younger son's remaining half a cup of milk powder.
She was so hungry that she went into a 24-hour convenience store to buy bread and a bottle of water, but she found that her WeChat, Alipay, etc. had been changed by her husband, and she was penniless.
The street at 23:00 in the summer night is not quiet, and some barbecue stalls are still noisy in front of people, which is a good time for consumption business.
Smelling the meat, Hu Xiaoyi actually drooled, for the first time, she felt that her face was so thick, she walked to the barbecue stall and asked the barbecue stall owner: "Can I eat what is left on the table of the guests who have already checked out?" ”
The stall owner saw Hu Xiaoyi's embarrassment, probably also saw the palm prints and tear marks on her face, and immediately grilled ten skewers of pork belly: "You eat first, and when you are full, we will talk about the conditions." ”
Hu Xiaoyi once again felt that his face was really thick, and as soon as he said thank you, he almost grabbed the skewer and gobbled it up.
"In this way, you see that I am so busy here, if you are okay for the time being, you help me, 3 hours, I will give you 150 yuan, the meat skewer just now is also sent to you, how do you see?" The stall owner said to Hu Xiaoyi, who was full of oily mouths.
"Okay, okay, thank you, thank you!" Hu Xiaoyi nodded in agreement while swallowing the last bite of meat.
In this way, Hu Xiaoyi ran back and forth between the stall owner's barbecue grill and the small dining table for two hours, and then helped the stall owner clean up the small dining table and tableware, and soon, the 3 hours were over.
"You are so diligent, really a good helper, give, 150 yuan, do you have time every day?" I set up a stall here every day, if you can help for 5 hours a day, I will give you 300 yuan a day, do you see? The stall owner said sincerely.
Hu Xiaoyi had tears in her eyes, and took the 150 yuan with both hands, but she still refused: "No, no, no, I still have a 5-year-old daughter and a 7-month-old son at home, and I can't come out to work!" ”
When Hu Xiaoyi took the 150 yuan and walked to no one, she cried loudly, she didn't understand that she had just worked easily for 3 hours, she could earn 150 yuan, why she was at home 365 days a year, taking care of two children alone to eat and drink Lasa, responsible for her husband's food, clothing, housing and transportation, doing a good job of washing and sprinkling the family, ensuring that her in-laws needed to be on call, and working for more than 18 hours a day, how could she become a person who did not earn a penny in the eyes of her husband, only brought children, and could not do anything?
02. Stay at home VS stay in a hotel!
Hu Xiaoyi, who couldn't figure it out, didn't want to go home because she wasn't sure if her husband was deflated, and she was afraid of being beaten again.
So, Hu Xiaoyi took the 150 yuan and came to a small hotel, 120 yuan a night, single single room, with a bathroom and a bath.
Hu Xiaoyi took the room card and opened the door, although the room was relatively small, it was clean everywhere, which made Hu Xiaoyi's eyes instantly full of tears, because she thought of the scene every time she went home.
Every time Hu Xiaoyi pulled the eldest, hugged the second eldest, and returned home with a rice noodle dish that the family wanted to eat on his shoulder.
As soon as I entered the door, I always saw the two shoes that my husband threw away at random, and the two smelly socks placed on the coffee table, and my pants were directly taken off on the ground, while my husband was lying on the sofa playing mobile phone games.
When she enters the toilet and prepares to wash her hands and cook, she will definitely see urine on the toilet ring, urine in the toilet that has not been flushed, phlegm and snot in the sink.
When she complained to her husband about all this, he always said with a straight face: "You don't have a job, this is your job!" ”
When Hu Xiaoyi pushed open the bathroom of the hotel to take a shower, she cried again.
For 5 years, she has not bathed on her own, comfortably, and with plenty of time.
After the birth of his daughter, the husband never helped to bathe the child on the grounds that "it is inconvenient for the father to bathe his daughter", and Hu Xiaoyi often washed his daughter first, let the husband watch the child, and then wash it himself.
But every time she was bathing, she listened to the child's heart-rending cry, so she always rushed to the matter.
Another time, when she was taking a bath, her husband did not take good care of the child because of playing games, fell the child off the sofa, broke his lip, and received 3 stitches, and since then, when Hu Xiaoyi took a bath, he also put the child in the large basin next to him to take care of.
Later, with his son, Hu Xiaoyi put a large basin in the bathroom, and every time he took a bath, he solved it for a few minutes, and sometimes, his hair was half-washed and the shower gel was just applied, and he had to coax the crying child.
Today, she stayed in a hotel, and she took a 50-minute shower alone, using shampoo and bath gel twice.
When Hu Xiaoyi lay on the big bed in the hotel after taking a bath, she cried again.
This bed is so big, and this bed belongs to her alone, which is too luxurious.
Since having a daughter, half of the bed was occupied by her daughter, and the other half was almost occupied by her husband, she herself always slept on the edge of the bed, and several times, she fell down.
After giving birth to a son, her husband felt that the bed was too crowded and moved to the study by himself, while Hu Xiaoyi took two children alone and slept in a bed, which was even more crowded.
Now that she sleeps alone in a bed, she should be able to get a good night's sleep.
However, she can't sleep, she thinks about her son and daughter, and there is no mother with her at night, what should she do?
03. Full-time housewife VS confinement nanny!
The next day, Hu Xiaoyi came out of the hotel and had breakfast at the breakfast restaurant near the hotel.
She glanced at her phone and there were no messages, WeChat, missed calls.
On the one hand, she guessed that everything was fine with her two children, and on the other hand, she was chilled, she had been away from home for 8 hours, and her husband was not worried at all.
There is no way, you have to go home.
"For the children!" Hu Xiaoyi thought while sighing for his nest, incompetence, and helplessness.
At this moment, she looked up and saw a housekeeping company, and with the mentality of inquiring about it, she walked into this company.
When she asked if she could find a job here, the staff asked her to fill out a form, mainly information about her experience, strengths, age and so on.
After that, the staff introduced her to the job that suits her:
Accompany the elderly to the hospital for registration, examination, and medical treatment, 300 yuan each time.
Make three meals a day for the elderly, 2,000 yuan per month.
Hourly cleaning worker, 200 yuan per hour per 100 square meters.
Pick up and drop off children to and from school, 1500 yuan per month.
Live-in nanny, three meals a day, washing and cleaning, and childcare, 5,000 yuan per month.
Monthly sister-in-law, 12,000 yuan per month.
After listening to the introduction of the staff, Hu Xiaoyi cried, the staff said these things, she; Every day, if superimposed, her monthly salary is more than 20,000 yuan, why does her husband say that she eats, drinks, wears, and uses everything her husband gives?
04. Never look back!
By noon, Hu Xiaoyi's mobile phone still did not move, Hu Xiaoyi knew that this was her husband's usual trick, and the husband waited for her to obediently go home, admit her mistake, apologize to her mother-in-law, and then serve her in-laws and husbands more obediently, and take care of the children.
However, unlike in the past, Hu Xiaoyi signed a labor agreement with the housekeeping company, starting with part-time work and living in the staff dormitory.
"If you are young and willing to work, in less than a year, the monthly salary will definitely exceed 10,000!" The boss assured Hu Xiaoyi.
A day later, her husband finally begged Hu Xiaoyi for mercy and asked her to go back to take care of the children and take care of the family, but Hu Xiaoyi was already working.
"From today onwards, you watch the children at home, take care of the elderly, wash and sweep, pick up and drop off the children, I will take home more than double your salary, you will eat, drink, wear, and use in the future, all depend on me, and be ready to taste my slap at any time, if you are not happy, divorce is okay!" After Hu Xiaoyi finished speaking, he hung up the phone.
In real life, there are too many housewives like Hu Xiaoyi, who bear the heaviest burden and suffer the greatest grievances. Once awakened, it is inevitable to run away from home and even divorce.
May the elderly, husbands, and children in life extend a helping hand, provide shoulders, and give understanding to housewives.
May the above words be shared with my readers.
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Topics discussed today:
Do you think Hu Xiaoyi should continue to return to his family or go to the workplace?