"The Sea in the Dream" Xiao Chunsheng married Tong Xiaomei to understand how lucky he was to miss He Hongling
Xiao Chunsheng and He Hongling, beautiful youth love, finally lost to reality.
Xiao Chunsheng was seriously injured in the line of duty and lost consciousness in both legs.
He gave his military merit to Ye Guohua and freedom to He Hongling, completing Ye Guohua and He Hongling.
Xiao Chunsheng left He Hongling because he loved He Hongling enough and couldn't bear to drag He Hongling down.
He Hongling is about to become the captain of the band, and Xiao Chunsheng had to retire early due to physical reasons.
He Hongling also followed the trend and chose to break up.
He Hongling praised Xiao Chunsheng as a hero, but also felt that with Xiao Chunsheng, he could not see the future.
Mother He once said to her:
"This man, how heroic he is outside, he has to be able to earn money, can go up, can give you a few comfortable days, this is a good man."
Xiao Chunsheng adheres to idealism, he is accustomed to self-sacrifice and does not care about personal interests.
And He Hongling is a very realistic woman, Xiao Chunsheng can't satisfy her ambitions.
Xiao Chunsheng was injured in "The Sea of Dreams", which was just the fuse for the two to break up.
In fact, this relationship has long accumulated a lot of problems, and it is inevitable that He Hongling will leave Xiao Chunsheng.
Ye Guohua "won" He Hongling
He mother had a heart attack and urgently needed surgery, and the first thing He Hongling thought of was not Xiao Chunsheng, but Ye Guohua.
He Hongling ran to beg Ye Guohua and asked Ye Guohua to help contact the doctor.
Relying on the connections of the Ye family, Ye Guohua quickly found a top expert and operated on He's mother.
The operation was successful, but He Hongling never told Xiao Chunsheng about her family.
It was Xiao Chunsheng who went to find He Hongling, only to know that He Hongling had taken leave and went home.
In He Hongling's subconscious, there is no Xiao Chunsheng, and in case of emergency, she relies on Ye Guohua.
He Hongling knew very well that Ye Guohua had the right to be rich, and Xiao Chunsheng could not do anything for her.
Xiao Chunsheng took the initiative to contact He Hongling and asked her not to worry about the operation fee.
Xiao Chunsheng scraped together more than two hundred yuan, and before it was sent to He Hongling, the hospital urged him to pay the money.
He Hongling asked Ye Guohua for help again, and Ye Guohua didn't say a word, and with a phone call, he asked his sister Ye Fang to go to the hospital with five thousand yuan.
The Ye family's big hand gave He Hongling a taste of sweetness, and she wandered between the two men, and her heart was violently shaken again.
Ye Fang saw He Hongling's thoughts, and Ye Fang asked her:
"Do you regret choosing Xiao Chunsheng?
Through this incident, you can also see that life is not just that Shichahai ice rink, but that Xiao Chunsheng, who is shining brightly and like a hero on the Shichahai ice rink, is a person who can't even take out 1,500 yuan in life. ”
He Hongling cunningly argued that she had the right to pursue pure love, and she would pay back the Ye family's money.
Ye Fang saw it very thoroughly, she was right, He Hongling is a very contradictory woman, she wants ideal love on the one hand, and she wants realistic bread on the other, and she can't put it down on both sides.
He Mu also advised He Hongling to choose Ye Guohua.
Mother He said that the poor couple mourned, and if it were not for Ye Guohua, she would not be qualified to live in such a good ward, receive surgery in time, and save a life.
This is a very real problem, with He Hongling's family situation, Ye Guohua can let her have no worries about food and clothing, step by step, and satisfy her vanity and career.
"The Sea of Dreams" He Hongling has long been biased towards Ye Guohua.
He Hongling's thoughts, even Qian Amao can see it, Qian Amao reminded Xiao Chunsheng that he and He Hongling are not the same kind of people, He Hongling will leave him sooner or later, but Xiao Chunsheng does not believe it.
Xiao Chunsheng is very simple, every time He Hongling accuses him, he not only does not blame He Hongling, but also humbly accepts criticism and wants to make changes for He Hongling.
Xiao Chunsheng still does not understand that the gap between him and He Hongling comes from thoughts and concepts, and the two people's three views are inconsistent, which is an irreconcilable contradiction that can never be reconciled.
He Hongling "betrayed" Xiao Chunsheng
Xiao Chunsheng's heart is bright and open, he doesn't understand people very well, let alone go through the back door and climb relationships.
He Hongling told him:
"Sometimes it's not wrong to do something outside of the rules, and sometimes everyone has acquiesced to such rules, and people don't think you're good, they just think you're stupid and out of place."
The set of things you identified is no longer feasible in society. ”
In order to report to the military region, He Hongling smiled at Officer Li and accompanied Officer Li all day; In order to gain a foothold in the literary troupe, he will rely on Ye Guohua's power.
What Xiao Chunsheng pursues is fairness and justice.
Xiao Chunsheng is not good at five-kilometer cross-country, Ye Guohua, as a platoon leader, in order to take care of Xiao Chunsheng and let Xiao Chunsheng successfully pass the assessment, privately canceled the five-kilometer cross-country project.
The recruit company was very dissatisfied with this, accusing Xiao Chunsheng of relying on acquaintances to get to the top.
Xiao Chunsheng also did not accept Ye Guohua's arrangement.
Xiao Chunsheng said that he has confidence in the five-kilometer cross-country, and he will not lose after hard training.
Ye Guohua, however, refused to add back the five-kilometer cross-country on the grounds that "military orders are like mountains".
Ye Guohua did this on the surface to facilitate Xiao Chunsheng's trip, but in fact, he was doing it for himself.
From childhood to adulthood, Xiao Chunsheng has been covering Ye Guohua, Ye Guohua is lower than Xiao Chunsheng everywhere, although the two are good brothers, Ye Guohua is not comfortable in his heart.
After finally entering the army, Ye Guohua became Xiao Chunsheng's platoon commander, standing on Xiao Chunsheng's head, naturally refusing to miss the opportunity to express himself.
Ye Guohua was eager to cover Xiao Chunsheng and reverse the relationship between the two.
Ye Guohuaming knew Xiao Chunsheng's character of not admitting defeat, even if he did not take the five-kilometer cross-country, Xiao Chunsheng could enter the elite class, but he still made his own claims and forced Xiao Chunsheng to take a shortcut.
Ye Guohua's selfish intentions were clearly exposed.
He Hongling accused Xiao Chunsheng:
"You have to make a fuss every day to add five kilometers of weighted cross-country, you practice here, you have a clear conscience, have you considered what others think of Guohua?
The content of the competition he personally announced was led by your good brother to oppose, how will he stand up in the future? ”
He Hongling had never really understood and trusted Xiao Chunsheng.
He Hongling also thought that Xiao Chunsheng was unqualified in the five-kilometer cross-country, and Ye Guohua gave him the back door out of good intentions.
Before He Hongling knew it, she was already on Ye Guohua's side.
Ye Guohua could not convince the public, and the recruit knew that he had a poor shooting performance and asked him to demonstrate shooting.
Xiao Chunsheng did not want Ye Guohua to be ugly in public, and took the initiative to ask to demonstrate for Ye Guohua.
This incident once again distanced Ye Guohua and Xiao Chunsheng.
Ye Guohua ignored Xiao Chunsheng for several days, and He Hongling told Xiao Chunsheng:
"The higher the position, there must be desire, there must be desire, he also hopes that he can shine, at this time, you should distance yourself from him, and you can't let your light annihilate him."
Xiao Chunsheng simply wanted to relieve his brother, he didn't think so much at all, but Ye Guohua alienated Xiao Chunsheng because of this.
What He Hongling still stands on is Ye Guohua's position.
There is nothing wrong with Xiao Chunsheng and He Hongling in this matter, what is wrong is that the two people have different concepts, and He Hongling is not the one who really understands Xiao Chunsheng.
Tong Xiaomei "crushed" He Hongling
He Hongling forced Xiao Chunsheng to be motivated, improve emotional intelligence, and become smooth, she imposed her thoughts on Xiao Chunsheng, eager to turn Xiao Chunsheng into a person like her.
He Hongling said:
"I try to perform every day, I try to get dry, what am I doing this for?
Am I still not for the two of us to get rid of the identity of ordinary soldiers as soon as possible and be together in an upright manner?
What are you doing while I'm working on the future of both of us? ”
He Hongling said that she worked hard to perform for the future of the two people, is this really the case?
Everything she does is never for love, but for herself.
Her efforts and enterprising efforts are all aimed at satisfying her own ambitions.
When Xiao Chunsheng was not eligible to enlist, He Hongling still insisted on leaving, and she did not include Xiao Chunsheng in her life plan at all.
What He Hongling pursues is her ideal life, and she has never cared about what Xiao Chunsheng wants.
Xiao Chunsheng doesn't care about fame and fortune, he will think about everyone, he is the one who can shine and warm others.
Xiao Chunsheng was injured, also to protect Ye Guohua.
Xiao Chunsheng risked the danger to get the coordinates of the enemy's howitzer, and he handed the information to Ye Guohua, and outsiders mistakenly thought that Ye Guohua went deep into the enemy camp to get it back.
The soldiers called Ye Guohua a hero, but Ye Guohua lost himself and did not tell the truth.
Xiao Chunsheng saved Ye Guohua's life, but Ye Guohua took Xiao Chunsheng's military merits, and he, like He Hongling, is the kind of person who takes shortcuts for his own interests.
He Hongling understands Ye Guohua's ambitions and desires, and also knows how to cater to Ye Guohua, and she and Ye Guohua are a like-minded couple.
He Hongling can never appreciate Xiao Chunsheng's heroism, she does not have a high pattern, and she will not sacrifice herself, which is the biggest difference between her and Tong Xiaomei.
Tong Xiaomei recognized Xiao Chunsheng from the bottom of her heart, loved his purity and selflessness, and loved his integrity and righteousness.
Tong Xiaomei said:
"His freedom, openness, kindness, and persistence in his ideal world made me see who I wanted to be."
Tong Xiaomei feels that there must always be someone who thinks about others, and it is with people like Xiao Chunsheng that the world will be a better place.
Xiao Chunsheng's spirit inspires Tong Xiaomei.
Tong Xiaomei volunteered to be a medical soldier on the front line, using her small strength to save more people, her bravery and firmness are the same as Xiao Chunsheng.
After Xiao Chunsheng was injured, He Hongling quickly withdrew, but Tong Xiaomei did not give up on Xiao Chunsheng and took care of him carefully.
With Tong Xiaomei's company, Xiao Chunsheng was able to recover, and the relationship between him and Tong Xiaomei slowly warmed up, and the two finally came together.
"The Sea in the Dream" Xiao Chunsheng married Tong Xiaomei to understand how lucky he was to miss He Hongling.
Tong Xiaomei and Xiao Chunsheng are real soul mates, Tong Xiaomei truly appreciates and recognizes Xiao Chunsheng, will not belittle and suppress him, the two people have the same three views, the same goal, and complete each other.
If Xiao Chunsheng had been able to recognize Tong Xiaomei in the library and go in both directions with Tong Xiaomei, he would not have had anything to do with He Hongling.
He Hongling's appearance is to let Xiao Chunsheng experience and grow, and also to let him see who is the right person.
After experiencing He Hongling, Xiao Chunsheng will cherish Tong Xiaomei even more, and there will always be someone who will come for you.