Recently, I brushed a piece of news that made people both angry and distressed.
A Chinese couple who owned a restaurant in the United States reported to the police that their 5-year-old daughter had disappeared.
The police dispatched more than 70 officers, as well as drones and dogs, to launch a large-scale search.
The next day, the little girl was found in the kitchen of their dining room.
Everyone present gasped.
The little girl was in a bucket, no longer breathing, her body covered with salt.
The police immediately arrested the couple.
After interrogation, the murderer turned out to be the girl's mother, Chen.
It turned out that the restaurant was usually very busy, and the daughter was at the age of mischievousness, and the two had no time to discipline and beat each other violently.
Playing and fighting, it becomes a habit.
Fighting, the hands are getting heavier and heavier.
On the morning of the day of the report, her daughter disobeyed again, and in a fit of anger, she raised her fist and slammed her daughter's head.
One punch, another punch.
It didn't stop until the daughter spat out green liquid and collapsed to the ground.
After the child's father, Zhao, found out, he immediately stepped forward to check and found that his daughter was out of breath.
Quickly took her daughter to the bathroom and tried to splash water to wake up, but to no avail.
Zhao did cardiopulmonary resuscitation and artificial respiration for his daughter, and he was unable to return to heaven.
They did not feel sad in the slightest, quickly accepted the death of the child, and calmly analyzed and thought:
How to perfectly hide the body so that no one can find it.
In the end, they came up with a great solution:
Put your daughter in a bucket of pickled food, put a lot of salt to embalmed, and hide it on top of the refrigerator, disguising herself as food.
After doing all this, they called the police and lied that their daughter was missing, planning to wait until everyone thought that her daughter had been abducted, and then throw the body away.
In this way, in the eyes of outsiders, they are the wretched people who have lost their daughters.
And they not only solved this "trouble" of their daughter, but also worked normally and lived normally.
They thought it was seamless, but they didn't expect the police to solve the case the next day.
The autopsy report revealed the crimes of the parents:
The little girl was killed by her mother Chen who hit her head with her right fist several times, and should have been abused many times before her death.
In the end, Chen was sentenced to 22 years in prison, and her husband Zhao was sentenced to 12 years.
The little girl probably never dreamed that the two people who gave her life would take her life.
This case shocked the whole country in China and the United States, and everyone scolded them for being inferior to animals and being parents in vain, even the judge said:
"I find it hard to believe, your daughter's horrific experience. No matter how many years you are closed, 100 years is not enough! ”
It's really hard to believe that there are parents who kill their children.
To say that Chen does not love children, it is not quite.
Chen took all the guilt on himself so that his husband could go out to take care of his 7-year-old eldest daughter as soon as possible.
However, when she knew she would face 22 years in prison, she felt unfair to her and fought for a reduced sentence.
She said she didn't mean it because "my daughter was disobedient and got angry with me."
She said she loves children too, "I don't want to do that to my daughter, but sometimes I can't help myself."
and desperately explained to everyone how difficult it was for him, the children were disobedient, the husband and wife were discordant, and the restaurant was busy.
"I only have two hands, not four, and I have to work in a restaurant and take care of my children, there are so many things."
She babbled a lot, as if she were the heroine of a tragic drama.
But when the police asked her why she beat the child, she was silent for a long time, and actually said that she forgot.
Probably feeling that she was making a price for this, it was too big a problem, she said:
"The daughter I gave birth to, it is my freedom to fight and scold if I want."
The subtext is: she is my daughter, I gave her life, she disobeys, I can also take her life.
Not having a trace of repentance and even taking it for granted is simply outrageous!
A 5-year-old child, play around, as for such a heavy hand?
Moreover, the reason why children are naughty and mischievous is sometimes because their parents do not care enough to try to attract their parents' attention.
I didn't reflect on whether I didn't care enough about my children, and I actually blamed my mistakes on my children.
Children are not the personal property of their parents, how can they be beaten and scolded at will.
Life is not easy, and it is not caused by children. Those who use children as punching bags are all garbage.
It is precisely because parents do not need to pass the exam, so there are many unqualified parents.
Remember the "Chongqing sister and brother death case" that shocked the whole country?
On November 2, 2020, in a community in Chongqing, a pair of siblings less than 3 years old fell to their deaths from 15.
The older sister is 2 years old, and the younger brother is only 1 year old.
At that time, a father-like man, wearing pajamas and slippers, sat on the side crying.
Everyone thought that it was because the child was playful, climbed on the windowsill, and accidentally fell down.
The people present did not sympathize with him, some helped call 120, some went to help him, comfort him, and prevent him from doing stupid things.
However, after more than half a year, things turned around, and the child's mother clarified: this is not an accident, but murder.
The murderer is none other than the child's biological father, Zhang Bo.
Why was he so ruthless and killed one of his own children?
According to the lawsuit of the child's mother, Zhang Bo has not held her for so long since her daughter was born.
Only 3 months after his son was born, Zhang Bo cheated on him in marriage and couldn't wait to divorce her.
Police recovered Zhang Bo and Xinhuan's chat records and found more than 17,000 of their chat records, all discussing how to murder their two young children.
Xinhuan worries that the presence of two children will hinder their marriage. Not only do the parents disagree, but they also do not want to share the money they earn with their two children in the future.
So, they thought of various ways to kill the two children without knowing it:
One is to drive the car into the river and drown, and the other is to fall directly to death.
They thought that if they drove the car into the river, not only would the car be scrapped, but they might also drown themselves, and the loss would be too great.
So the latter was chosen.
In this way, under the threat of death by Xinhuan, Zhang Bo's heart was crossed, he hugged the legs of the two children, and fell alive from the 15th floor.
Then I ran downstairs and cried bitterly, because I had to do a full set of plays.
A father, in order to please other women, slaughtered his own children!
It's really "hell is empty, and demons are on earth."
In the end, both the first and second trials sentenced the pair to death.
It is not a pity for them to die, but the two children are innocent, and the contradictions of adults should not be paid for by the children.
It is said that "tiger poison does not eat children" and "there are no parents in the world who do not love their children".
But this pile, one by one, tells us that not all parents regard their children as their hearts and treasures.
Not all of them are worthy of being parents.
Gibran has a poem "Your children are not actually yours":
Your children are not your children. They are children born of life's desire for itself.
They came into the world through you, but they did not come because of you, they were by your side, but they did not belong to you.
What you can give them is your love, not your thoughts, because they have their own minds.
What you can shelter is their body, but not their soul, because their soul belongs to tomorrow, to tomorrow that you can't dream of.
Every life is independent, and children are never accessories of their parents.
Having children is the most selfish thing under the sun.
When we bring our children into the world, it's not that they need us, but that we need children.
One mother said that the preparation for giving birth is really not the pain of the moment in the delivery room.
It's the rest of your life. Ready to be a good mom and dad? Is there enough patience and love to raise this child?
Is it possible to deal with your emotions without causing permanent psychological damage to your children because of your immaturity?
Raising offspring is a great responsibility.