"The other party not only has a history of marriage, but also is 26 years older than you, we are ordinary families and it is difficult to accept this!"
21 years ago, his parents strongly opposed Fu Mingxia's marriage to Leung Kam Song, the "God of Hong Kong Wealth".
21 years later, her 71-year-old husband is worth tens of billions, and the 45-year-old is rumored to be still fighting for four children.
It seems that many people like to look through the clues of her 21-year marriage to find out whether she is really happy after being denied the title after being known as the "queen of diving".
Some people commented that she became a wealthy fertility machine because of her "love brain", and some people said that the concept of marriage and education she embodied reflected only the "hard wounds" in her growth process.
She was born in 1978 in Wuhan, Hubei Province, to a family with a very limited economy.
His father Fu Yijun and mother Lin Xing'e both came from poor families.
My parents usually work in agriculture, and when they are not working, they earn some money, and their income is very limited.
Her parents were busy and tired at work, and she and her sister Fu Mingyan grew up with the help of their grandmother.
She and her sister have a completely different physique since childhood, her sister has not only been healthy, but also has good resilience since she was a child, and was recognized by the teacher as a good seedling in the sports arena in the second grade of primary school, and recommended her sister to a sports school.
At that time, her parents hoped that the 6-year-old and frail she would be able to enter a sports school with her sister, but they were refused.
Because she is not only physically poor, but also has hard bones in her body, resulting in poor flexibility, she is not suitable for practicing gymnastics.
It wasn't until the second semester of the first grade that she joined the amateur gymnastics team.
Her parents sent her to the gymnastics team in the hope that she could become healthier through exercise.
Because her family really did not have sufficient financial conditions to treat her and recuperate, she entered the amateur gymnastics team as a talent reserve, and she could get exercise without paying money.
But even for the amateur gymnastics team, the coach bluntly told her parents that hard work sometimes has to stand aside in front of physical fitness, and your daughter's physique is really difficult to develop well in gymnastics.
When she thought she was about to lose her career, fate cast another bright light into her life.
In 1985, she was recommended by her coach to diving coach Hu Demei, and since then her life has become wonderful because of "diving".
Entering the class of Hu Demei, the diving coach of the Hunan provincial team, her physical condition was comprehensively evaluated.
In the end, coach Hu Demei believes that if she can make a breakthrough in physical flexibility, then she should be able to become a good athlete with her physique.
As the saying goes, "children from poor families head their homes early", and for her, it is no exception.
She knew that her family could not afford to go to college, so she had to find a way out in skills.
During the time of her flexibility training, the whole classroom was filled with the wails of children her age, and she gritted her teeth until the end, sometimes crying because her legs were sore during stretching, and she would inevitably cry at a young age.
When she first started diving, she couldn't swim.
She has not dared to go into the water because of her timidity, and she was thrown directly into the pool after being tied with a rope by the coach.
This kind of intense and almost ruthless training is cruel to young children.
As everyone knows, the coach who is holding the other end of the rope in his hand often causes both palms to be worn by the rope because the child struggles too much in the water, but he does not dare to let go out of the child's safety.
Hard-working is the most in-demand quality on the sports field, because under the training and sweat, the skills are improved little by little.
Under intense training day after day, she went from not being favored by the diving team coach at the beginning to standing out from her teammates.
In 1990, she was selected by the national team and studied under Coach Finn.
In 1992, at the Barcelona Olympics, at the age of 13, she won her first championship.
At that moment, she became the youngest world champion in the world record and was entered into the Guinness Book of Records.
It is worth mentioning that when she appeared at the competition site, American Clark directly protested to the Olympic team, feeling that the appearance of children in world-level events was simply child's play.
Nearly thirty years old, she was indignant, feeling that a child who was only twelve or thirteen years old could not withstand the pressure of the world competitions both physically and mentally, so the Olympic team had to send Fu Mingxia home.
In the spirit of the Olympics without borders and age restrictions, the Olympic Committee directly rejected Clark's protest.
After 13-year-old Fu Mingxia won the championship, a group of world celebrities really understood what it means to be a hero out of a teenager!
No matter what the field, if you are named the "most", it is the embodiment of the peak level and the supreme honor.
Fu Mingxia became famous in the first battle and became internationally renowned.
Since then, she has been almost undefeated in the tournaments held in China; In international competitions, it has also maintained excellent results.
In 1997, she once again reached the highlight of her career, winning the Atlanta Olympics again.
At that Olympic Games, she won two championships, becoming the first athlete in the mainland to win a double championship in Olympic diving.
It was also at that time that she was dubbed the "Queen of Diving".
In 1997, at the age of 19, she announced her retirement after the National Games that year.
At that time, there were many opinions about the reasons for her retirement, after all, it was the golden age of an athlete's career.
When people thought she had to retire due to physical reasons, relevant inside information leaked out.
That's because she fell in love with Guoan striker Nanfang, and chose to retire from the army at the suggestion of her boyfriend and went to Tsinghua University for further study instead.
After retiring, she did enter Tsinghua for further study, but her love with the south did not bear fruit.
For the reason for the breakup of the two, it was claimed that due to the reasons of the southern training and competition, there were fewer gatherings and more separations, and the relationship ended without trouble.
But someone broke the news that it was actually because the other party's relationship with multiple girls was unclear.
She gave up her career for love, and even her sudden retirement caused her to bear tens of millions of advertising default fees, while the other party was riddled with scandals and it was difficult to distinguish the real from the fake.
At that time, she chose to break up, which was actually a bold and wise act.
Maybe it's painful, or maybe it's because of coach Yu Fen's intolerance, she came back to diving.
In July 1998, she participated in the training of the diving team and announced her comeback.
In the year since her comeback, she has won numerous domestic championships.
In 2000, she again represented the national team wearing the national flag, participated in the Sydney Olympics, and won the championship again.
After a few years of absence, she returned strongly, playing with Guo Jingjing on a par with her, and finally defeated Guo Jingjing with 609.42 points, which once again impressed people in her superb strength.
Originally thought that she had already learned a painful lesson in the "love brain" and should not repeat it, but she did not expect that she would fall into it again.
In 2001, she announced her retirement again, once again shocking everyone's jaws.
It's just that the reason for her retirement this time, she generously told the outside world.
While being a guest of honor at Hong Kong's annual "Outstanding Leader" award ceremony, he met Leung Kam Song.
When the two met, he was the newly appointed Financial Secretary of Hong Kong, nicknamed "Hong Kong God of Wealth".
Not only is it not an exaggeration to call him "God of Wealth", but the "financial power" that this word can only reflect cannot reflect his talent.
In the early seventies, he earned his first pot of gold at the Double Master Society in Hong Kong.
In the early eighties, he went to Harvard Business School in the United States for further studies and studied for a doctorate.
In the early nineties, he was hired as vice chairman of the head office of Citibank in New York, earning more than $3 million a year.
And his becoming Hong Kong's Financial Secretary is, for many, a reflection of their love for their homeland.
The reason for this feeling is that he decided not to take the position of head of Minato, one of the world's largest banks, with a salary of 25 million yuan, to take over as the financial secretary, who earns only 2.4 million yuan a year.
Soon after meeting Fu Mingxia, he began his pursuit.
After about 4 months of confirming their relationship, the two decided that they were people who wanted to walk together for the rest of their lives.
Therefore, she announced her retirement, causing an outcry.
When the family learned that they were going to marry her and to marry Leung Kam Song, they were firmly opposed.
Her parents told her that the other party not only had a history of marriage, but also the reason for the divorce has not been mentioned to the outside world, that is, the previous marriage was in an unclear state.
The parents also said that the age difference between the two is so large that it is difficult for ordinary families to accept such a union.
Even though she knew that the person she was going to marry was very good, the bride price alone was 10 million and a sports car, which could be called a rich man and became an official, but her grandmother was also resolutely opposed, saying that what about being an official, a woman should marry the right person, and no amount of money is useful.
Despite her family's opposition, she married.
In July 2002, the two married in Hawaii, and at the age of 24, she married 50-year-old Liang Jinsong.
After marriage, she lived an almost "secluded" life, and rarely appeared in the public eye again.
In February 2003, she gave birth to her eldest daughter, Liang Siyu.
In an interview, Liang Jinsong expressed his gratitude to his wife for her dedication, and said that his son and daughter were equally happy for him.
Immediately afterwards, the backhand was to buy a 38 million mansion as a reward for his wife.
In December 2004, when she gave birth to her eldest son, Liang Haojia, she shocked countless people.
Because if she rewinds the birth date of her eldest son, she will get pregnant again just after giving birth to her eldest daughter.
It was also from that time that rumors of her becoming a "wealthy fertility machine" began to be disturbed and persisted for a long time.
She lives in seclusion, and when she occasionally shows her face, she is always asked about the current situation of life.
She replied that she was happy and found a husband who took care of herself and her family.
When asked if she regretted quitting the glorious career, she said she had no regrets and said that she liked the role of a housewife.
But it seems that no matter what her answer is, it is easy for many people to over-interpret.
In 2008, she already had both children and welcomed her youngest son, Liang Jiawei.
The arrival of her youngest son made her label of "rich fertility machine" once again solidified.
And when her husband bought the hospital with a market share price of about 9.9 billion yuan as a gift, it seemed that the outside world was more reluctant to believe that she was favored, but because of the stomach fighting, she was rewarded.
The reason for buying the hospital, Liang Jinsong said, is that the hospital is where his wife gave birth to three children, and it is worth buying it as a souvenir for the couple and running it well.
When the couple was criticized, some sober netizens said that he resisted the pressure of the economic downturn and made 370 million yuan between 2001 and 2003, while most people only cared that he spent 9.9 billion yuan to buy the hospital.
Today, those who are looking for evidence of her unhappiness are still trying to find it, and even continue to rumor that she will fight for the "giant" to have four children.
And her 71-year-old husband is already worth tens of billions, and her three children are also very good under her "wolf education".
The 20-year-old eldest daughter has become a prot, and has a net worth of more than 100 million yuan under the gift of her father, and often appears on top of public welfare activities to contribute her strength to public welfare undertakings.
When Fu Mingxia was asked why the education of her children was so strict, she said that she just suffered from not reading, and if her children read more when they had conditions, they could reduce their suffering in the future.
Choosing a husband who can bring him a sense of security and a harbor in life is the most desired destination for almost every "child of a poor family".
And for the child's education method, it also reflects the hard wounds in her growing up, which always needs to be obtained by sweat and tears, and if she can, she hopes that her children do not have to suffer the hardships she has endured.
Now, she and her husband have walked hand in hand for 20 years, one is happy to be a housewife and a husband and godson, and the other is working hard outside without scandals, which is already a model couple.
And those voices that are still constantly commenting on whether she has married the right person may also stop.