When the post-85s and post-90s began to become parents, they preferred to use short videos to show their children, and many kindergarten and primary school students also gained a lot of likes and attention on the short video platform. However, one parent was criticized for this.
One weekend, the parent took the girl out to play, and the girl had just entered kindergarten and was at the age of playfulness and beauty. It can be seen that this parent pays great attention to the girl's appearance, wearing a gray skirt for her, tying a ball head, and carrying a small satchel. However, from the back, it is difficult to recognize her as a little girl who has just entered kindergarten. Especially that "hip-wrapped skirt" is not necessarily suitable even for college students, let alone kindergarten students. The father also admitted that the look was completely matched by the mother. Parents are willing to dress up their children beautifully, which is no problem in itself, because kindergartens are not bound by school uniforms like primary and secondary schools, and students are free to choose what they like.
There are many parents who feel uncomfortable: obviously a female student who has just entered kindergarten, but dresses like a "dust woman", and should wear appropriate clothes at an age, too mature is inappropriate. Some parents believe that the appearance and dress of female classmates actually expose the level and cultivation of parents. If the parent's education level is higher, at least the student's aesthetic should be healthy and sunny, rather than dressing her in her thirties and forties when she was just five or six years old.
Although there may also be students who have their own preferences, especially today's students have early access to the Internet and mobile phones, it is normal to follow the herd mentality of some content. However, when parents find that students' perception of certain things is divided or even distorted, they should not stand idly by, but should make the right intervention and guidance to help students establish correct values.
Although as a student, there is nothing wrong with pursuing freedom, and there is no problem for parents to let their children enjoy the free and easy growth, if the family education is not good, it can easily have a negative impact on the mental health of students. Students are supervised by teachers at school and cared for by parents at home, but one day they will leave school, leave their families, and go out into society. At that time, parents will realize the importance of "teaching people to fish, it is better to teach people to fish" in family education.
Instead of protecting students from possible harm, it is better to teach students how to protect themselves and how to be vigilant about the external environment while helping students establish correct concepts. The growth of a student requires not only the teacher's teaching, but also the parents' care and dedication. After more than ten or even twenty years of training, students can become responsible adults.
In this process, parents put in a lot of hard work, and no one knows their children better than they do. Compared with personal aesthetic pursuits, it is more important that children can grow up healthy and safe. Only by distinguishing priorities can we avoid losing the big because of the small.
In family education, in addition to the influence of appearance and aesthetic concepts, parents also play an important role in shaping children's character, values and behavioral habits. The quality of family education plays a vital role in the growth and future development of children.
First of all, parents play a decisive role in the development of children's character. The family environment and the way parents behave have a profound impact on the formation and development of a child's character. If parents are positive, tolerant and friendly, children tend to be positive, optimistic, kind and friendly. Conversely, if parents are impatient and prone to tantrums, children may imitate this behavior and develop bad personality traits. Therefore, parents should always pay attention to their words and deeds and set a positive example to help their children develop a positive and healthy character.
Secondly, family education has an important impact on the formation of children's values and moral concepts. The family is the first social unit that children come into contact with, and parents are their most important mentors. By teaching by example, parents can convey correct values and morals to their children. Parents should focus on cultivating their children's sense of responsibility, justice, respect for others and concern for society to help them become moral consciences.
In addition, parents also play a key role in cultivating good behavior habits in their children. By giving positive rewards and correct guidance, parents can help their children form good habits such as punctuality, tidyness, diligence, etc. Parents should also establish a correct learning attitude for their children and cultivate their interest in learning and independent learning ability. These good behavior habits will have a positive impact on children's learning and life and lay the foundation for their future development.
Finally, parents should continue to learn and improve their education. Family education needs to keep pace with the times and adapt to the changes in social development and the needs of children's growth. Parents can continuously improve their educational concepts and methods by reading books, participating in educational training and communicating with other parents, and provide a better environment and educational resources for their children.
In short, family education is an indispensable part of a child's growth process. Parental attention, guidance and education play a vital role in the development of children. Through the right family education, we can cultivate the next generation with self-confidence, responsibility, creativity and good values, and contribute to the progress and development of society.
In summary, family education has an important position and role in the growth of children. Parents should attach importance to their responsibilities and influence in their children's education, and pay attention to cultivating children's character, values and behavioral habits. With the right guidance and role models, parents can help their children grow up healthily and build a solid foundation for their future development.