Feelings have always been the most critical part of people's lives, and love brings us joy, happiness and hope. But sometimes, when we face some inevitable problems, this beautiful thing can also do harm. After I ruined my marriage, I had to learn to love myself again, and this article is my upbringing after coming out of the shadow of marriage, hoping to enlighten.
1. The loss of marriage
Entering marriage is a big turning point in life for everyone. However, the marriage between me and my ex-husband was not perfect. After marriage, we did not enter into a common life due to compromises for various reasons. Although we did a good job of raising children, my mental health deteriorated day by day and my life was eventually pushed into the abyss.
When you are lost in a marriage, it is important to seek support. At that time, many young women were in need of external recognition, so I looked for a lot of so-called "friends" in the hope of getting more help. But this may not get really useful advice, and it may lead you deeper into anxiety.
2. The coming of divorce
Marriage isn't just a person's life journey, your partner shares the whole journey with you, and they may also be affected by maturity (or failure). For me, the decision to divorce is made by both of us. Without thinking, we decided to divorce in the first few marriage negotiations, and our children suffered as a result.
3. Seek psychotherapy
After the divorce, my emotional state fell into chaos. For this reason, I began to seek professional psychological help. With the help of my psychotherapist, I achieved self-growth within the expected age group and worked to make myself a better person.
I recommend that everyone seek the help of an independent counselor. This can help you assess your predicament from a personal perspective, give you clear, in-depth help, and help you get out of the best plan and guidelines for action.
4. Get back in love
Re-entering a free personal life can be very difficult for many people engaged in family life, but it is a great opportunity for me to grow. Personal growth also progressed with an independent way of thinking, and when I got rid of the shadow of the past and invested in a new marriage and fun, I found myself becoming a completely different person.
Epilogue:
My story doesn't fully cover everyone's thoughts and actions, as each of us has a different path to marriage and personal growth. In fact, the focus of my journey is on a large category of routes for those who feel helpless and hopeless in the face of adversity.
I believe that anyone can overcome their fears and negative emotions in their hearts, bravely move on, and plant the seeds of success in their hearts. No matter how much you struggle, or how big your predicament seems, you can gain recovery and strength by simply taking small steps on the journey to restore confidence.