A 6-7 year-old elementary school student, only in the first grade, saw that he was still alive and jumping just now, and there was an accident all at once, gone!
And it was during the child's schooling, right on the campus of the elementary school where the child was studying, that a multi-ton car driven by a teacher was crushed to death alive, and it was a second crush, and it was dragged 5 meters ... The child has several bags on his head, the back of his head is still bleeding, and the tissue on the right side of the child's face is worn out...
Seeing this, my heart tightened when I thought about it, and it hurt unbearably to think about it, which is too shocking and regrettable!
Her own little daughter, sometimes she cried in pain when she scratched her skin, not to mention that this person was gone, and she suffered such a great sin!
Not only do we have questions:
- How did this teacher drive the car? What did you feel at all? Originally, the child may still have a life!
After checking the monitoring, the child's family found that after the child was hit by the car for the first time, the car stopped, but for some reason, they did not get out of the car to see! Look, maybe in a moment, you can save this child.
However, the car continued to drive forward, crushed for the second time, and dragged about 5 meters! In this way, the child has no chance of being rescued!
- When can schools separate "man and motor vehicle"?
Children in elementary school, especially in the early grades of elementary school, often start school at the age of 6, exactly like kindergarten children. Small and active, in the quiet school where children are active and studying, there are often motor vehicles walking back and forth, which is always a very dangerous thing.
In a society with more and more motor vehicle ownership, is it urgent to consider these when legislating and formulating rules? So that the tragedy does not happen to you and me again!
Therefore, I often tell our daughter, who is in the lower grade of elementary school, don't grab the road with the car, I'd rather wait a little longer, even if I'm late, I can't be in a hurry!
What's more regrettable is that in the days since the elementary school student was crushed and died, the child's mother fell from the 24th floor and also went with the child! Shocking and heartbreaking! Panicked!
There are reports that this is also inseparable from the recent online questioning of the deceased's family and online violence. As the old saying goes: "In the house of goodness, there will be Yuqing; Where the accumulation is bad, there will be aftermath. "The Internet is not a place outside the law, a moral vacuum, I advise Internet abusers, even for their own children, to accumulate more good and virtuous."
3. Mom fell from the building, maybe there are other reasons?
On second thought, this may just be one of the reasons. The child is the lifeblood of the mother, is the lifeblood of the family, the child is gone, it must be the pain of the cone, pain into the bone marrow, always feel that life is better than death, really empathetic!
Relatives who have lost their children, especially mothers, should have given more care, comfort, psychological counseling, and even inseparable companionship. Sometimes, people often can't get out of the black hole of psychological damage on their own.
Judging from the limited video material released by the media, this mother is still quite restrained. Even when the father, who suddenly suffered the pain of losing his child, lost his mind and wanted to rush out to settle accounts with the perpetrator, the mother tried her best to pull the child's father to dissuade him.
But it is this kind of too intentional restraint that may suppress and accumulate too much sadness, once this emotion is too big to bear anymore, once in this case, even a little stimulus, such as unfair comments, online violence, etc., will burst out at once, causing tragedy, irreparable.
4. Tragedy may be avoided?! The pain I once experienced...
If there were more care, comfort, psychological counseling and inseparable companionship, tragedy may be avoided, it is the pain that I have personally experienced...
When I was a child in the countryside, my mother was bullied and quarreled by neighbors, and my mother couldn't think about it. I remember it was summer, I was 8-9 years old, I found that my mother was wrong, I couldn't leave, I didn't leave my mother, she went there and I went there, I slept there wherever she slept. Actually, I didn't seem to be asleep at all.
I have the impression that from the afternoon of the first day, without eating or drinking, I have been lying down at noon and afternoon the next day, as if everyone in the family has gone out, and only I followed my mother.
On this day, my mother finally got up, asked me to help her work, and rubbed a rope with hemp, and as a young person, I seemed to have felt something strange.
Then, Mom will go to the small room next to it. I immediately followed. Because this small room has beams, it is relatively low, and you can reach it by stepping on a bench.
Mom goes to this little room, and I'm going in too. But she just wouldn't let me in, like crazy, hit me on the head, pushed me, chased me out, told me to let go, and tried to top the door from the inside. In the past, many doors in the countryside were topped with thick wooden sticks.
At that time, it felt like I didn't know my mother at all, and my mother hit me like crazy, pushed me, and let me out.
I'm small, and I can't squeeze an adult even if I fight to the death. As the saying goes, "Mother and child connect hearts". I finally couldn't stop my mother from closing the door and opening it.
I had a premonition that something was going to happen, and I went crazy, crying for help and running outside. The yard in the countryside is large, tens of meters, I don't know how to run through the yard with a foot deep and a shallow foot, and the wheat farm of the production team is on the side of the road at the door, and there were many uncles and uncles who worked at that time. As soon as I cried, a familiar uncle rushed over at once ...
When the uncle and uncle saved my mother, my mother was almost impossible. Later, it seemed that it took a long time to rescue, and finally breathed and came over... A little later, I can't imagine ...
This incident has always been buried deep in my heart, and this scene has been vividly remembered for decades, and I can't forget it.
Otherwise, maybe at the age of 8 and 9, my brothers and sisters and I would have no mother.
Fortunately, my wife is now in her 80s, but she can see everything. Thank goodness for the kind folks who saved my mother in the first place!
My mother also used to say, "If it weren't for these children..." This often seems like a nagging sentence, I believe it! Children are the lives of parents and parents, without children, no matter how many colors in the world seem to belong to them!
In my mother's time, I really suffered too much and suffered too much, especially when I was a mother. It is necessary to participate in labor and take the children to do housework! At that time, there were several children in the family, and no one expected anyone to bring it to you.
In my impression when I was young, I never saw my mother rest, and even the New Year and festivals were busy and running this family.
So, as the saying goes, "If you don't raise children, you don't know your parents' grace." Children are the light in the hearts of parents, and children are the hope of families. The child is there, and hope is there. The child is gone, hope seems to be shattered at once, how painful and powerless and helpless! It's really called every day should not be, called the ground is not working...
Therefore, when a person can't think about it in his heart, he must have psychological counseling, be accompanied by relatives, face and share together, and survive this darkest period of days and things, perhaps, our psychology can withstand the past, we can get through, and we have the opportunity to face a better future again.
It's a pity that this 6-7-year-old child and her beautiful mother who loves her and her knowledgeable mother cannot watch the sunrise and sunset with their families in the world, and enjoy even the most ordinary days in the world.
According to media reports, the impact of online abusers on the tragedy has been investigated, and relevant departments have intervened to investigate.
I hope that this tragedy can be resolved in accordance with the law, justice and humanity, and the justice and conscience of society can be manifested to comfort the deceased.
"Those who come cannot be consulted, those who come can still be pursued", life is extremely short, there is no five hundred years!
I hope that the child's father and other family members can get out of the shadow of losing their loved ones one after another and live bravely and healthy. I think if life could come again, it would be the wish of a 7-year-old child and a young mother?!
Original: Papa Kokirito